AmsterdamAssassin
Master Don Juan
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Why? What happened? Depression? Sickness?I let myself go.
Why? What happened? Depression? Sickness?I let myself go.
Blue pilled. Married.I don't understand someone letting themselves go. It's a physical world. Wouldn't you want to look good for yourself first and foremost?
Blue pilled. being lazy & married.Why? What happened? Depression? Sickness?
In that vein:That most people you consider your "friends" are only there during the good times and when you are at your lowest point and really need them, most will be nowhere to be found
When you are at your lowest point in your life, you truly only have one person who will support you: you. A person, male or female, must know how to adapt and pivot for survival in our world. The gov't may or may not eventually give you a lifeline, but in the end, it's you and you alone. It's imperative that you, as a dude, know how to handle different situations and how to pivot your life to ensure your own survival. Think and act with logic, not emotion.As the title says.
For myself, after having lived at least two decades, with obviously still having very little to show for it, I reckon that sickness does tell you how short life really is (in my case, it nags me everyday). The more I learned about my disorder and being in a third-world country and needing to establish my own generational wealth (for my parents came from not-so-off households), the more I realize how much harder the challenges I have to face really are. The more reality hits me, the more I feel like I'm in purgatory, forced to compromise focusing on my health with making the most of college (this may be my last year or two before proceeding to a Master's degree).
I still consider myself lucky, but apparently my luck is not enough, and even hard work is not enough. I have a clear direction with where I want to go, but I need more long-term strategy in my life, in facing the unknown, and this is where I lack. Financially, it seems I need a miracle.
There are also some truths which beg my more immediate acceptance, but I guess the values and principles I grew up in and made me who I am, still hold me back.
What about yours? Which failures challenged you the most, and how did you change along the way, and what did you go through to accept the new reality?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Hi Haley,Girls live life on easy mode. Even if homeless, someone will save them.
Hi Nitrozv,Falling out of my integrity and getting involved with a married woman. I had so little self respect.
Hence it’s easy for him to say that. So long as he is not Quasimodo or socially stunted (and no man who owns a yacht is) a man who owns a yacht will have to fight women off!he’s shredded on a yacht
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This post deserves its place in the Hall of Excellence. Could not be more true on how men should be living their lives. Don’t twist an ankle getting out of bed tomorrow, grampsHi Haley,
Quite understand and even empathise with your thoughts,but having seen so many lives live out their passage....believe me the female of the Species pays for all her early privileges...Giving Birth and looking after ankle biters for say ten years is no picnic!
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.