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The Fastest way to get laid with a lot of hot women within 1-2 years.

The_Sea_Wolf

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My method is clearly for guys that just want sex with as much women as possible. I wouldn’t personally do it because you are essentially sacrificing your life for pvssy. Your average guy is just never going to be in the position to just bang 100 9s and 10s with zero baggage. I am not here to pitch snake oil to the average guy like some posters on here either. T
What is amazing to me is to see you doubling down on this after being called out 8 ways to Sunday about why it doesn't work.
 

SW15

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I was at a fitness class and overheard the attractive female instructor complain about swipe apps with one of the female class attendees. It's likely that she's selected top tier men off of the apps and failed to get their commitment for some reason.
You are not wrong. The reason possibly was:
When I overheard what she was saying, it was insightful.

This is a woman with a slender physique with some muscle definition. Feminine looking. Above average facial aesthetics. Low body fat and a nice midsection (could use more definition though). She's beyond a merely cute woman. She's in the attractive/hot range. I can't imagine men giving her below a 7.5. I would rate her as an 8. I think there'd be consensus that she's 7.5 - 8.8.

She had a pleasant vibe before/after class. She would make a good first impression in a social setting. It's possible she was more cheery than usual at the fitness studio because she's being paid to be there. It seems unlikely though.

She seemed like a penis carousel rider
If you picked up on that, her "top tier men" of choice did as well.
Attractive fitness class instructors should not be having difficulties dating as she was mentioning.

Based on how she complained about her swipe app experiences to a female class attendee, it seemed like she was a penis carousel rider. Based on her looks, she had to get a lot of attention on apps and she'd be aiming for elite level men.

She didn't get the commitment from elite men despite being attractive/hot.

It has to be something on her personality side because her looks are on point.

She likely also has plenty of men DMing her on Instagram too because she has a Follower count over 1,000.

Despite massive abundance, she has the issues she has had.
 

Velasco

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To pay rent, pay for food, pay for booze... I am sure that your typical 18–21-year-old male has so golden gainful employment opportunities constantly knocking on their door.
1) There are no pretty boys working as dishwashers anywhere. Your typical dishwasher is either an old guy whose been dishwashing for over 15 years, autistic young adults who can't get work at positions that require social intelligence, mid 30s felons (usually with kids), something that shows they are employed. You're never going to find a 21 year old college senior Brad Pitt look alike, working in the back washing dishes for $7/hr. That guy will be found working at his dad's law firm etc.

2) In your original post you said the only requirements to get laid with a lot of hot women is to be: young, skinny, fun to hang around and open to drugs. I know someone from my previous job that fits exactly that description. He was young, skinny (had tattoos too), fun, and smoked weed. Guess what? He never got laid. And never would because I talked to the servers after work for drinks. And whenever his name came up it would always be like "awww so adowable". Of course he didn't look like Brad Pitt, but in your original post I didn't see that as a requirement. Just be young, skinny, fun and open to drugs.

3) False equivalent of comparing an unemployed guy living in his mom's basement to a dishwasher trying to bang the girls at his work. If your out cold approaching, it really doesn't matter what you do. You could be unemployed or hell even a dishwasher. Because the girls don't know who you are and you could just lie to them. That changes when you are trying to get laid with girls that see you everyday, and know exactly what you do for work. Status (where you are on the totem pole) plays a significant role when it comes to any sort of social circle style game compared to cold approach.
 

Bigpapa

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1) There are no pretty boys working as dishwashers anywhere. Your typical dishwasher is either an old guy whose been dishwashing for over 15 years, autistic young adults who can't get work at positions that require social intelligence, mid 30s felons (usually with kids), something that shows they are employed. You're never going to find a 21 year old college senior Brad Pitt look alike, working in the back washing dishes for $7/hr. That guy will be found working at his dad's law firm etc.

2) In your original post you said the only requirements to get laid with a lot of hot women is to be: young, skinny, fun to hang around and open to drugs. I know someone from my previous job that fits exactly that description. He was young, skinny (had tattoos too), fun, and smoked weed. Guess what? He never got laid. And never would because I talked to the servers after work for drinks. And whenever his name came up it would always be like "awww so adowable". Of course he didn't look like Brad Pitt, but in your original post I didn't see that as a requirement. Just be young, skinny, fun and open to drugs.

3) False equivalent of comparing an unemployed guy living in his mom's basement to a dishwasher trying to bang the girls at his work. If your out cold approaching, it really doesn't matter what you do. You could be unemployed or hell even a dishwasher. Because the girls don't know who you are and you could just lie to them. That changes when you are trying to get laid with girls that see you everyday, and know exactly what you do for work. Status (where you are on the totem pole) plays a significant role when it comes to any sort of social circle style game compared to cold approach.
From what I have seen, if a woman previously has been in a relationship with a guy that was doing good from a financial perspective, it would be very difficult for her to hookup with guys who are not at the same level

now, she might hook up from time to time with guys with a lower status , but will never really go anywhere and eventually she will trade his looks for financial aspects

the reality though is that good looking dudes that are ok financially are plenty for girls who are also good looking themselves, so it is a very tough battle to have for those type of girls if you are not well rounded yourself to begin with
 

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jhonny9546

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One of the reasons you don't get women is because you spend too much time in your head. Stop analyzing so much.
We do analyze to grow, if we won't do it, we would live in the "bluepill" forever.
And for how much I'm doing it, you may be right.
But the main reason I've come up, it's not analyzing itself, but the missing figure of a mature man to follow. I cannot do what my father did. A completely bluepilled life, prey of my mother.
 

CornbreadFed

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1) There are no pretty boys working as dishwashers anywhere. Your typical dishwasher is either an old guy whose been dishwashing for over 15 years, autistic young adults who can't get work at positions that require social intelligence, mid 30s felons (usually with kids), something that shows they are employed. You're never going to find a 21 year old college senior Brad Pitt look alike, working in the back washing dishes for $7/hr. That guy will be found working at his dad's law firm etc.
I washed dishes in college to pay rent, bills, alcohol, and etc. I was in a fraternity known for it's Pretty Boys and I knew plenty of other guys working similar jobs just to make ends meet. Just go to any area next to a college or major city center and I bet you 10 bucks you will find a younger guy washing dishes in some restaurant.

2) In your original post you said the only requirements to get laid with a lot of hot women is to be: young, skinny, fun to hang around and open to drugs. I know someone from my previous job that fits exactly that description. He was young, skinny (had tattoos too), fun, and smoked weed. Guess what? He never got laid. And never would because I talked to the servers after work for drinks. And whenever his name came up it would always be like "awww so adowable". Of course he didn't look like Brad Pitt, but in your original post I didn't see that as a requirement. Just be young, skinny, fun and open to drugs.
Just because you see him as attractive to women does not mean women see him attractive. You could look at me right now and assume that most women find me physically attractive, but they do not in reality. There could be a plethora of reasons for why he sucks with women. He could be gay. He could have a moral code of not shvtting where he eats. He could have other priorities that override women.

3) False equivalent of comparing an unemployed guy living in his mom's basement to a dishwasher trying to bang the girls at his work. If your out cold approaching, it really doesn't matter what you do. You could be unemployed or hell even a dishwasher. Because the girls don't know who you are and you could just lie to them. That changes when you are trying to get laid with girls that see you everyday, and know exactly what you do for work. Status (where you are on the totem pole) plays a significant role when it comes to any sort of social circle style game compared to cold approach.
I am done arguing about the dang dishwasher point. At this point it is a strawman to bring it up, so I am done feeding this fallacy.
 
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