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The Fastest way to get laid with a lot of hot women within 1-2 years.

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Lot of people here who don’t know what they’re talking about. I currently work at two restaurants that employ a lot of students from the university here. I’m only going to disagree with you on the dishwasher. Way too degrading of a position for the hot girls to view you with any sort of respect. They’re treated as second class citizens here. Now if you’re an extrovert, I would say you can work any position on your list and get with the hot girls that work there. Server, bartender, manager or cook. If you’re an introvert, your best route is to become head chef. If the head chef of where I work at wasn’t gay, he could have any girl he wants. I’ve been with a couple girls (hostess (who will typically be your best option if your after a quality girl (doesn’t drink or party like the other girls (servers/bartenders), servers and bartenders) already here and the previous restaurants I’ve worked at, but I can see myself getting more of them if I were the head chef. That is viewed with high regards amongst all staff. That’s something the OP failed to touch on, if you want the sleep with a lot of hot girls. The status aspect amongst the immediate environment. Why the head chef will have the hostess creaming her pants for him while run away from the dishwasher for just saying hi to her.
Status/fame is arguable the highest multiplier of attraction. There is a reason why notorious BIG was cheating all the time on Faith Evans, and it wasn’t because his good looks. As you mentioned, there is a hierarchy in the restaurant.

If you have 10K followers as a men you are doing something right…
 

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If your method was truly effective and fast as you indicate, you’d have concrete results, not just theory based on assumptions and minimal effort especially when pay-to-play guarantees results with no uncertainty.
Concrete results? You want me to have every girl call you and give you a synopsis on what happened? The concept of game is abstract and theory based hahaha.
 

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I’m just talking about the people who’ve I’ve known work as dishwashers. None of them would ever get any play with the hot girls that worked there. What works in your head, isn’t how it is in real life. That’s keyboard jockeying
So if I was jacked 21 year old Brad Pitt with a likeable personally, I would have a hard time getting hot girls around me because I’m a dishwasher?
 

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I’m just talking about the people who’ve I’ve known work as dishwashers. None of them would ever get any play with the hot girls that worked there. What works in your head, isn’t how it is in real life. That’s keyboard jockeying
Depends man

in a corporate job, the customer service people are the “ dishwashers”

a lot of managers from within the corporation ( all seniority levels ) try to bang the girls from there but most of the girls will not want to deal with them unless the girls themselves are corporate gold diggers. Most girls are not like that though

what matters the most is the sex appeal that the manager / director has, not the rank itself. The rank itself ( on its own only ) most likely has almost no impact on your dating life
 

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So if I was jacked 21 year old Brad Pitt with a likeable personally, I would have a hard time getting hot girls around me because I’m a dishwasher?
actually look at Brad Pitts exs from the time when he was not a celebrity, he was dating above average girls at best :)
 

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Why would jacked 21 year old Brad Pitt be working as a dishwasher in the first place?

if that’s what you look like, you’d be a lot better maximizing ur opportunity working as a personal trainer
Because people got bills to pay? Are you serious?
 

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Concrete results? You want me to have every girl call you and give you a synopsis on what happened? The concept of game is abstract and theory based hahaha.
I'm not asking for a synopsis from every girl, but if your method was as effective and fast as you claim, you'd at least be able to provide some examples or results showing it works—not just abstract theory with no proof. Your approach relies on vague advice and assumptions with no tangible evidence to back it up. I could make the same post about working at a retail store like Guess or at a hotel in Miami Beach, claiming I could get laid fast without working there a day in my life, and then just piggyback my argument that if it doesn't work, it must mean I'm not hot enough or have good social skills.

This is just a low-effort post, and
and instead of offering a solid strategy, you’re telling people that simply being attractive is enough, in which in itself is not a method at all. You don’t even provide a roadmap on what to do as soon as someone gets the job. The ingenuity of offering this information and telling people to go above and beyond when you haven't done it yourself is what makes the advice fall flat for me.

Just take L while you have some dignity left.
 

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Advice from the old lady:

I'm with @Bokanovsky 100% on this thread. The whole premise is idiotic. Really, a kitchen worker? Maybe in the barrio amongst poor women with few prospects, but not in any universe containing actual hot women with her head screwed on straight.
Even women from the barrio, if they are reasonably good looking, are going to have better options than a dishwasher. The fact that we are even having this discussion is completely insane and shows that the OP has zero life experience.
 

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Even women from the barrio, if they are reasonably good looking, are going to have better options than a dishwasher. The fact that we are even having this discussion is completely insane and shows that the OP has zero life experience.
You either do not leave your house or you are in denial. Any Women would bang this guy if he was unemployed, a dishwasher, laundromat worker, and etc. This guy is actually a convicted felon that gained popularity through a mugshot.

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Jesus.

The guy is quite sexy its true, but that doesn't mean anything to women who can choose from various options who are just as hot/sexy.

OP keeps thinking women choose strictly on looks and sex appeal like men do. No that's not how it works. I dated a professional male model who was more striking, taller and more handsome that the guy pictured. I dumped him because he was a nuerotic work a holic who wouldn't let me know about shjt hitting the fan in his life because he was embarrassed about it. My husband is just as hot/sexy as the guy in the photo. Neither of those men were felons and both are very intelligent, have solid careers and their act together.

The man pictured above got a very lucky break as a result of his mugshot going viral. It changed the guy's life to be sure. Danny Trejo is another man who has made a great career after being in prison for 20+ years (watch the documentary on him - its quite good).

The fact that OP has got to use the above photo tells us, once again how clueless the OP really is. Duh. Everyone knows famous people have status and that status is attractive especially combined with looks & sex appeal. How does that help the guys here? How does that motivate anyone?

Let's see your photo OP. What are YOU attracting?
 

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You either do not leave your house or you are in denial. Any Women would bang this guy if he was unemployed, a dishwasher, laundromat worker, and etc. This guy is actually a convicted felon that gained popularity through a mugshot.
Do you have a point to make or are you just grasping at straws?

Are you implying that the homeboy in that photo worked as a dishwasher to get laid?
 

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Jeremy Meeks is actually pretty cool and very grateful for the lucky break he got. It catapulted him out of the hood. Great for him. Buzz Feed has a cool interview with the guy talking about what happened.

What was the point of the OP's thread again? And where are the photos of OP?

I'll wait.
what are photos of me going to do? With jeremy meeks, it’s astounding how much being a likeable person brings you. If you become a dishwasher, don’t take care of yourself and maintain a bitter red pill victim mindset then you will be screwed. However, this will apply in any occupation scenario. Hopeless romantics are going to fail in any given circumstance because they are broken mentally.
 

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Jesus.

The guy is quite sexy its true, but that doesn't mean anything to women who can choose from various options who are just as hot/sexy.

OP keeps thinking women choose strictly on looks and sex appeal like men do. No that's not how it works. I dated a professional male model who was more striking, taller and more handsome that the guy pictured. I dumped him because he was a nuerotic work a holic who wouldn't let me know about shjt hitting the fan in his life because he was embarrassed about it. My husband is just as hot/sexy as the guy in the photo. Neither of those men were felons and both are very intelligent, have solid careers and their act together.

The man pictured above got a very lucky break as a result of his mugshot going viral. It changed the guy's life to be sure. Danny Trejo is another man who has made a great career after being in prison for 20+ years (watch the documentary on him - its quite good).

The fact that OP has got to use the above photo tells us, once again how clueless the OP really is. Duh. Everyone knows famous people have status and that status is attractive especially combined with looks & sex appeal. How does that help the guys here? How does that motivate anyone?

Let's see your photo OP. What are YOU attracting?
I wouldn't even bother arguing with him— he's not worth the effort. He's blatantly disingenuous, preaching do as I say, not as I do while pushing a method he hasn't even tried. His entire credibility is nonexistent— he gives advice with no proof, refuses to back up his claims, and dodges every challenge with weak deflections.
 

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What's the general advice here? I've tried Martial Arts but it didn't help
@The Duke

Look like someone had some fun here!
Would it be possible to know what was your radius of action? (maybe one city or were you traveling to several different cities) and or if the bar you were visiting were all the same?
The people in your social circles knew that you were a womanizer or did you keep it hidden and change social circles every time? Or did the word spread among women and even those who were already in a relationship wanted you?

What job did you do? What kind of house did you have at the time?
None of those details you want matter. Being successful with women isnt x+y=z. I laid out the high level template that worked for me. It's the concept, not the nuts and bolts.

One of the reasons you don't get women is because you spend too much time in your head. Stop analyzing so much.
 
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Become a club promoter, stripper, or bartender, with lots of social proof/preselection.
 
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