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I don't think the typical 50+ guy is interested in getting a 100+ notch count at that point in his life.

Let's consider a typical 50-55 year old man in 2025.

A 50-55 year old man in 2025 is likely a man that was in a monogamous marriage for a long time. He's a divorced guy with 1-3 kids. His kids are high school/college aged, with the possibility that his oldest kid is now a mid-20s aged person.

A 50-55 year old man is a core Generation X'er right now (1970-1975 birth). Most of Generation X had a healthier sexual marketplace when they were younger. The Millennials never got that and neither did the late X'ers like Roosh (born 1979). Generation X had less tech in their formative years, so they've had better social skills than the Gen Y/Millennial births of the 1980s (the first half of that generation).

A 1970-1975 born guy had his 20s during the 1990s/early 2000s. That was his time to put up bigger notches. The typical 1970-1975 born guy used the 1990s/early 2000s to get into the LTR that likely ended up in a divorce. He might have put up some notches in the 1990s/early 2000s.

I think a 50-55 year old single and unattached guy right now just wants some steady pussie over time. I also think that 40-49 year old guys are mostly like this. These are not guys chasing big notch counts though they could want multiple women over time. They are far more likely to be serial monogamists than hardcore players.
I'd just be a passport bro at that point lol.
 

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I'd just be a passport bro at that point lol.
At what point in life? 50+? 40-49?

There are plenty of men who are 40-55 in big USA cities who are trying to date. If they are red pill, they are probably more likely to be serial monogamists than hardcore players. If they are blue pill, they might be looking to marry again or maybe have a long time girlfriend that they'll end up living with at some point.

It's somewhat difficult to be a Passport Bro. As a USA man, not every USA male worker can get foreign work authorization in some Asian, Latin American, or Eastern European country. If you can't work in a foreign country and you don't have location independent income, then you're going to end up staying in the USA. Plenty of USA men fit into that description.
 

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At what point in life? 50+? 40-49?

There are plenty of men who are 40-55 in big USA cities who are trying to date. If they are red pill, they are probably more likely to be serial monogamists than hardcore players. If they are blue pill, they might be looking to marry again or maybe have a long time girlfriend that they'll end up living with at some point.

It's somewhat difficult to be a Passport Bro. As a USA man, not every USA male worker can get foreign work authorization in some Asian, Latin American, or Eastern European country. If you can't work in a foreign country and you don't have location independent income, then you're going to end up staying in the USA. Plenty of USA men fit into that description.
My uncle just did the passport bro route, and he was a chef lol. It is an achievable goal if you make it a priority and do not lose focus. You can also stay in the US and date, but there's pros and cons to that too. The older you get, the more important of having your stuff together becomes important if you want to continue dating high quality women. I see a lot of men peaking in their late twenties, so selling them an ideal scenario in their 40s-50s seems extreme to me.
 

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You can also stay in the US and date, but there's pros and cons to that too.
I am a never married man who has now crossed age 40 and am dating in the United States. It can be a challenge.

If I were an early 40s married man, I can't imagine that my life would be pleasant right now.

If I had gotten married earlier in life, it is likely that I would have had my first divorce by now. I would then need to be dating right now as a divorcee. Maybe I would have been fortunate to get divorced as a childless man, but it is likely I would have been an early 40s man with my oldest child in elementary school right now. This forum has some divorced single dads who participate and they have better insight into that life stage than I have.
 

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I am a never married man who has now crossed age 40 and am dating in the United States. It can be a challenge.

If I were an early 40s married man, I can't imagine that my life would be pleasant right now.

If I had gotten married earlier in life, it is likely that I would have had my first divorce by now. I would then need to be dating right now as a divorcee. Maybe I would have been fortunate to get divorced as a childless man, but it is likely I would have been an early 40s man with my oldest child in elementary school right now. This forum has some divorced single dads who participate and they have better insight into that life stage than I have.
Maybe lol. My dad got divorced from my mom in his late 30s and remarried in his mid 40s to a woman in her late twenties. His life improved greatly and I worry less for him now than I did prior. They are starting businesses and own multiple properties now vs he was just floating by shooting at the dark prior.
 
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