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I don't think the typical 50+ guy is interested in getting a 100+ notch count at that point in his life.

Let's consider a typical 50-55 year old man in 2025.

A 50-55 year old man in 2025 is likely a man that was in a monogamous marriage for a long time. He's a divorced guy with 1-3 kids. His kids are high school/college aged, with the possibility that his oldest kid is now a mid-20s aged person.

A 50-55 year old man is a core Generation X'er right now (1970-1975 birth). Most of Generation X had a healthier sexual marketplace when they were younger. The Millennials never got that and neither did the late X'ers like Roosh (born 1979). Generation X had less tech in their formative years, so they've had better social skills than the Gen Y/Millennial births of the 1980s (the first half of that generation).

A 1970-1975 born guy had his 20s during the 1990s/early 2000s. That was his time to put up bigger notches. The typical 1970-1975 born guy used the 1990s/early 2000s to get into the LTR that likely ended up in a divorce. He might have put up some notches in the 1990s/early 2000s.

I think a 50-55 year old single and unattached guy right now just wants some steady pussie over time. I also think that 40-49 year old guys are mostly like this. These are not guys chasing big notch counts though they could want multiple women over time. They are far more likely to be serial monogamists than hardcore players.
I'd just be a passport bro at that point lol.
 

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I'd just be a passport bro at that point lol.
At what point in life? 50+? 40-49?

There are plenty of men who are 40-55 in big USA cities who are trying to date. If they are red pill, they are probably more likely to be serial monogamists than hardcore players. If they are blue pill, they might be looking to marry again or maybe have a long time girlfriend that they'll end up living with at some point.

It's somewhat difficult to be a Passport Bro. As a USA man, not every USA male worker can get foreign work authorization in some Asian, Latin American, or Eastern European country. If you can't work in a foreign country and you don't have location independent income, then you're going to end up staying in the USA. Plenty of USA men fit into that description.
 

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At what point in life? 50+? 40-49?

There are plenty of men who are 40-55 in big USA cities who are trying to date. If they are red pill, they are probably more likely to be serial monogamists than hardcore players. If they are blue pill, they might be looking to marry again or maybe have a long time girlfriend that they'll end up living with at some point.

It's somewhat difficult to be a Passport Bro. As a USA man, not every USA male worker can get foreign work authorization in some Asian, Latin American, or Eastern European country. If you can't work in a foreign country and you don't have location independent income, then you're going to end up staying in the USA. Plenty of USA men fit into that description.
My uncle just did the passport bro route, and he was a chef lol. It is an achievable goal if you make it a priority and do not lose focus. You can also stay in the US and date, but there's pros and cons to that too. The older you get, the more important of having your stuff together becomes important if you want to continue dating high quality women. I see a lot of men peaking in their late twenties, so selling them an ideal scenario in their 40s-50s seems extreme to me.
 

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You can also stay in the US and date, but there's pros and cons to that too.
I am a never married man who has now crossed age 40 and am dating in the United States. It can be a challenge.

If I were an early 40s married man, I can't imagine that my life would be pleasant right now.

If I had gotten married earlier in life, it is likely that I would have had my first divorce by now. I would then need to be dating right now as a divorcee. Maybe I would have been fortunate to get divorced as a childless man, but it is likely I would have been an early 40s man with my oldest child in elementary school right now. This forum has some divorced single dads who participate and they have better insight into that life stage than I have.
 

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I am a never married man who has now crossed age 40 and am dating in the United States. It can be a challenge.

If I were an early 40s married man, I can't imagine that my life would be pleasant right now.

If I had gotten married earlier in life, it is likely that I would have had my first divorce by now. I would then need to be dating right now as a divorcee. Maybe I would have been fortunate to get divorced as a childless man, but it is likely I would have been an early 40s man with my oldest child in elementary school right now. This forum has some divorced single dads who participate and they have better insight into that life stage than I have.
Maybe lol. My dad got divorced from my mom in his late 30s and remarried in his mid 40s to a woman in her late twenties. His life improved greatly and I worry less for him now than I did prior. They are starting businesses and own multiple properties now vs he was just floating by shooting at the dark prior.
 

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If you really want to get laid and have a 100 plus lay count, then follow this post now!

Requirements:

Age: The younger the better, but I can't help you if you are over 50ish. If you are in college or college age, then this is your golden opportunity.
Bodyfat: Just be skinny is enough. If you are overweight, then you will need to pursue a cutting diet or get on Ozempic or something.
Misc: Tattoos are good, any style to make you appear like you are fun to hang around, open to drugs
Game: Medium level is sufficient, just do not be an idiot or scared little *****. Read up on Pook, Roosh V, The Rational Male....Whatever lol.


Easy Mode: If you live in a major city with a lot of areas full of young people then all you need to do is scout out a restaurant or bar that has younger people going & working there and apply to be a bartender, server, cook, dishwasher, bouncer, or host.

Medium Mode: If you do not live near a city core then find a local Chilis or whatever, but make sure women work there. Next, apply to be a bartender, cook, dishwasher, bouncer, host, or server. I lived in Saskatchewan, Canada and even that ****hole had spots where the "younger"/"hip" crowd of the town went to, so do not give me this BS of it is impossible.

Hard Mode: Getting the job will probably be harder than getting laid lol.

Note: You can be a Chef, Bouncer, Dishwasher, or whatever suffices too.

Once you have gotten into a secure position, you will be given so many warm scenarios to approach & talk to hotter younger women.

That's it and thank me later.
None if this will work and it only makes people like me make meeting women easier. Going out to meet women is not a thing anymore unless you want low quality alcoholics.

If she drinks a lot of alcohol, or if you do, it’s a red flag for anyone desirable. I personally view it as a dealbreaker and don’t even bother with the trash quality at bars and clubs. In fact, I don’t even go to those venues unless it’s the day time and I’m with friends.

Extracurricular activities that don’t involve alcohol should be your top priority. Low quality trash are the ones who enjoy alcohol in general.
 

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None if this will work and it only makes people like me make meeting women easier. Going out to meet women is not a thing anymore unless you want low quality alcoholics.

If she drinks a lot of alcohol, or if you do, it’s a red flag for anyone desirable. I personally view it as a dealbreaker and don’t even bother with the trash quality at bars and clubs. In fact, I don’t even go to those venues unless it’s the day time and I’m with friends.

Extracurricular activities that don’t involve alcohol should be your top priority. Low quality trash are the ones who enjoy alcohol in general.
This advice is for fvcking not dating lol.
 

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This advice is for fvcking not dating lol.
Enjoy getting metoo’d, STD’s, setup, and interacting with low quality trash. I don’t think you understand how disgusting alcoholics are. She may even pee herself in your car/uber.

You can sleep with beautiful women without them being trash.
 

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Even then, it mostly has to do with job security. I can't just take care of my tables and at some point say, hey wanna go out some time? You know how foolish that would be

On the other hand, I worked as a valet at a hotel and we were stationed outside. That meant pedestrians would pass by, including hot girls, and I would shoot my shot because they weren't guests staying at the hotel.

i never had any complaints doing that and I actually managed to take a girl out that way. And the only time I ever asked out a guest was when the chemistry was undeniable, and she ended up saying yes.

This idiot thinks that I could manage to ask out customers that are there to eat, while juggling a bunch of things, and get away with it. He made this post having never even worked in a restaurant LOL
When I was going to college I owned towing company and did a ton of parking enforcement, which meant constantly being on foot running around through the party district in Corpus Christi Texas, met a whole lot of women that way just being down there on the street and they would be passing by, I was in my late 20's at that point and already had my world put together pretty well.

There was a lot of drama that went with it though as well because people would get big mad especially when they thought by parking their car weird I wasn't going to be able to tow it, that always seemed to make them more upset than the people who just didn't read the signs.

The part that really got me though was how many women would get themselves all dolled up to come get their cars after they had been towed, which was even more hilarious because the dispatcher I hired was an ex stripper who wasn't putting up with their ****.

You could just see the string go out of their spine when they would realize the "towing guy" was a girl and putting her tits out was useless.
 

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I’m convinced you and oatmeal are fake troll accounts. Have a good day Mr. Bundy.
See when you attempt to assassinate someone's character to discredit them, rather than refute the point they made, all you are proving is that you cannot stand behind your position and are admitting defeat.
 

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Enjoy getting metoo’d, STD’s, setup, and interacting with low quality trash. I don’t think you understand how disgusting alcoholics are. She may even pee herself in your car/uber.

You can sleep with beautiful women without them being trash.
you need money for that
 

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So be skinny and get an entry level job? Good for youngsters probably, but that wasn't the way it worked on Wolf of Wall Street.
 

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None if this will work and it only makes people like me make meeting women easier. Going out to meet women is not a thing anymore unless you want low quality alcoholics.

If she drinks a lot of alcohol, or if you do, it’s a red flag for anyone desirable. I personally view it as a dealbreaker and don’t even bother with the trash quality at bars and clubs. In fact, I don’t even go to those venues unless it’s the day time and I’m with friends.

Extracurricular activities that don’t involve alcohol should be your top priority. Low quality trash are the ones who enjoy alcohol in general.
Harsh words, but there's a lot of truth in what you say. A woman who's a heavy drinker will bring trouble and strife, and lots of it.
 
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