I must agree with some of the others, WUWD, i haven't seen a good example of a neghit yet.
Also, that conversation you posted didnt seem so hot either :\
My interpretation of a neghit is this: Its a funny/different way of saying "You arent perfect, but its okay."
however from your post I judge that you take a neghit to mean simply "you arent perfect," which is still a crucial step in the process, but the "its okay" part is equally important.
I havent even used neghits OPENLY on girls. Not the really NEGATIVE ones like you posted, practical insults.
The only time I have EVER said anything have as mean as what you type is when i was in drivers ed.
I came in and this blonde preppy bimbo sparked my attention.
So i sat down, and continued to get the attention of the class with just silly, but pretty funny remarks to the teacher.
I got a head turn from her, so I smiled and got an eyeroll and a smile from her.
Then, i made a big deal about filling out the information sheet for drivers ed.
just blurting out random comments, and asking the people at my table the things like "so what color are my eyes?whats this mean?how tall am i?"
So then no one could guess how tall i was, and the last time i got measured was like in 7th grade, so i decided to ask the teacher.
i yell out "hey, how tall do I look?
" and half the class looks at me.
So the teacher comes over and tells me to stand up, looks at me and then tells me Im about 6'0 6'1'' somewhere in there.
Then at this point, the blonde bimbo turns around and says
"just about too tall for my dating range"
and so i make that little "sneeze-laugh" noise and shoulder shrug thing, you know what i mean, makes that "pfft!" sound.
so i go "pfft! haha, who said you were in mine?"
and she turns around and is like "what did he say? what'd he say? what did YOU SAY?"
i tell her "you heard me
"
this isnt a neg hit either but it was a negative "hit" on her, and it worked, throughout the whole class she kept spinning a round asking my table ****, talking to them, all sorts of little attention getting stuff.
I kept interrupting and being PLAYFULLY rude to her, saying things like "no, you cant, now go away"
"would you shut up!? i cant hear anything"
"look, i dont wanna get hit by someone like you while im driving, so can you pay attention?"
"turn around! *gesture to her* and leave my table alone, your table not good enough for you?"
all this while having a ****y smile and a confidant attitude. half playfully half seriously.
Then I made her do things for me! I told her to go get me paper cuz i didnt have any (i was too lazy to reach into my backpack
), then i told her buy me a notebook folder thing for drivers ed, and all of this while sitting at a table of chicks was giving me major points with them.
At some point during the week, she tried neghitting me!
I answered some thing right and she was like
"hey good job!"
"thanks"
"want a cookie?"
"..sure
"
"well the snack machine is right behind you!" *with a barbie GOT YOU! attitude*
"BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA"
I about had a heart attack i laughed so hard at her. She was all red and blushing, and then she got some answer right and i just teased her a bit more with "hey, want a cookie?
"
By the time the first break of drivers ed started I could have EASILY got her number, i even managed to get some kino in, while moving her chair out of the isle telling her i couldnt get past her ass.
I didnt particularly care for her however, she was about a 7 on looks and had the *****yness of a 9.5 (she came from a redneck school full of "butch" ugly girls, so i guess she was the only looker there, so violla! the b1tchyness)
However by the time drivers ed was halfway down, she was telling people I was her boyfriend!
I was like "hahahahaha, sure babes" with a tone of voice that obviously points out her BS.
I was extremely ****y and funny with her. Not just funny to her, but to the table of girls I was sitting with, to whom i have been relatively nice. One of them even told me
"you cant be so mean to girls! you have to tell them nice things"
my reply was something like "so... tell me more about your experience with seducing women.. id love to know what you do
"
Unfortunately she wasnt bisexual and didnt have anything to share :\
My point is, ****Y AND FUNNY is completely different from ARROGANT.
arrogant:
"I am sexy, look at me, not only that but i am rich." In a tone of voice and facial expression that makes you feel worse because of him.
****y and Funny:
"I am sexy, look at me!
but not only that, I am rich
" With the kind of expression that says "come and enjoy it with me" and makes the listener actualy feel BETTER by being in the presence of this great guy. You can literally feel his awesomeness rub off on you!
That is the ultimate goal to being a great guy.
Not to have people be jealous of you because you are so much better then them, but to look at you as someone who makes them better, just by being with you.
You being ****y and funny makes her want to be with your secure and humorous self.
Your neg hits help her realize who she really is, and help her act more like the REAL person she is.
and all of this BS about "bring her down to your level"
WTF?
is this that book "the time machine" where us guys are the horrible scary monsters living under ground and women are some heavenly creatures walking "above" us?
NO!
Dammit! bring her UP to YOUR LEVEL.
The basics behind my perception of neghitting and C&F:
"hey, look, this is where you are, i am aware of this, but i still approached you. Now, look where i am, much higher then you, so what i want is for you to climb up here and be with me."
thats all the mindset you need for having success with these concepts.
