Originally posted by whatsupwiddat
A Don Juan is not a sum of smooth internet maneuvers. He is an individual who has the right mindset and attitude."
~Quote from the DJ Bible.
well put. i never had luck with techniques, so i've pretty much given up on forcing myself into things like that. the best thing i've gotten from this site (as far as i could gather) is that the key was to improve yourself for yourself. rather than focusing all my time into developing and mastering these techniques, i'm trying to focus on my other problems in life, and i found that with every one solved, i gain more confidence, more experience, and more happiness. then, i found that this had helped me overcome (not quite entirely, but almost) my nervousness around women. now, there's not enough left to pose any kind of problem. of course, i've become less nervous around almost everything else as well, such as being in front of a large group, talking to people i don't know, and being confronted by people who have the intention of hurting me. i've noticed also that when you have more actual confidence in yourself, it shows whereas all this fake confidence displayed in c+f shows you, as was said, a conceited person.
i guess i overdid it, but basically, i'm saying i agree with this post.
