Strategies dealing with a girl who fights for the frame.

[filerfiler]

You've stated facts but I'm curious to hear what you've learned from this relationship.

That I’m an old fart and I can’t for the life of me stand people who don’t get it.

I’m just busy and every time I compromised on selectiveness it comes back to bite me because I just do not have the time to re educate

I’m fine with testing boundaries ONCE, and she has to get it just from my reaction. If I have to explain to someone how to behave and respect I find it an extreme turn off

It means they may grumpily do or not do what I asked but behind my back they’ll do othe stuff and I don’t have the time to police

if they don't just internalise how to behave there is no hope

However when you find someone who just gets it life is just to much easier for both of you, it's bliss...

That goes for me as well... for the right girl she'll be treated like she's never dreamed but I have to get to that stage naturally


I guess I don’t just want my pen inked and that’s it… in fact at times I failed to perform if I don’t at some level find the girl intellectually compatible and femininine in some way

 

[Divorced w 3]

That I’m an old fart and I can’t for the life of me stand people who don’t get it.

I’m just busy and every time I compromised on selectiveness it comes back to bite me because I just do not have the time to re educate

I’m fine with testing boundaries ONCE, and she has to get it just from my reaction. If I have to explain to someone how to behave and respect I find it an extreme turn off

It means they may grumpily do or not do what I asked but behind my back they’ll do othe stuff and I don’t have the time to police

if they don't just internalise how to behave there is no hope

However when you find someone who just gets it life is just to much easier for both of you, it's bliss...


I guess I don’t just want my pen inked and that’s it… in fact at times I failed to perform if I don’t at some level find the girl intellectually compatible and femininine in some way

Your banging a model just a little bit more than half your age and she’s cooking for you,( unless she’s a hand model) I respectfully ask you, why can’t you just be in the moment. Do you realize you’re playing a great hand, and not that others won’t come along but they’re considered great hands for a reason because they don’t happen a lot. Maybe you pull a lot of ass like this and if so fine more power to you. But like dude, why can’t you just have nice things. Chill the F out on all the rules and regulations. You’re gonna boundary your way right out of a 27 year old dime piece for no good reason. Stop overthinking this. Fvck her brains out and enjoy yourself.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Speak of the devil...

I left her on read for 4 days, today she hits back with what are you doing later?

I laughed. So I'm thinking to hit back with "busy". the reality is I'm busy until later evening... or perhaps i should say busy until late.

You are the sort of guy who is going to manipulate and gaslight this woman to death in six months aren’t you. JFC

 

[Divorced w 3]

Why? To teach her a lesson?


You are playing with fire and will get burned. Good luck to you

He’s gonna be a Netflix series

 

[BackInTheGame78]

How do you reconcile this with her actions?

1) Bombards my phone first thing in the morning with doty messages

2) Wants to hang out during the day at cafes.

3) Brings me a present every time we meet.

4) Talks to me about future plans and so forth

Sounds like love bombing. Beware OP...they lure you in this way and then turn on you like a hungry pit bull once they know they have you.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Sounds like love bombing. Beware OP

I agree on that. I don’t think he’s got the chops to navigate it.

 

[New_Journey]

Fvck her brains out and enjoy yourself.