SoSuave NoFap November 2022 challenge (Sex is okay!)

[Rainman4707]

its been 30 days for me of no stroking and brutal cold showers morning and night. Have to finish what I started. Even very average looking milfs or younger chicks with a nice thick booty I want to do bad things to.
This is becoming some militant discipline type of sh1t

Yeah....I work in a place where there are women customers walking in and out of the doors all day.

Bangtidy...sitting there with her cute ***** it's talking to me saying "hi Rainman....come and **** me" "come and make me feel good" "while your at it...you can tongue my arsehole...whilst fingering my *****"

Damnnnnnnnnn........there butts walk away.....like.........saying "helllooooooooòoooooooooooooooooooooooooo.........her ass looked so fine walking away shaking those hips...her arse cheeks so supple and soft

just want to **** her I wanna lick her face. Smell her hair. Kiss her neck. Caress her boobs. Grab her arse. Rub her *****. Kiss her. Kiss her. Are you enjoying that. She will when I take her top off. I sit there imaging taking each item of clothing of her.

Hahaha

 

[derby1]

Maybe I'm in the minority here but I'll never understand the popularity of practicing abstinence on a forum about picking up women...

The irony is just...I don't know man...

EDIT: I guess no-fap doesn't imply no-sex. In which case sure, go ahead. Personally, I'd rather not be out of practice so when I do bed a broad I last longer than 5 minutes.

Also, by extension, I think "No Nut November" is absolutely stupid.

at the age of 38 even though i wasnt a furious fapper, after 20 years it gave me weak erections and an acorn shriveled bellend. I also needed to see a woman take 2 penises to get aroused

Nofap returned it to a penis i forgot I had, It was a beautiful moment after about 40 days, rock hard, veins, stayed erect whilst we moved about & my bellend was like Darth vaders helmet a woman could barely fit it in her mouth.

Ontop of this I got insanely aroused by all women all day, they only had to walk by me.

Amazing.

 

[derby1]

I get plenty of sex and fap when I feel the need. Not sure why people are obsessed with this nonsense.

you are an educated guy, yet because it doesnt suit you, or youve suffered no ill effects, its nonsense. Thats dissapointing

 

[lost_blackbird]

bellend was like Darth vaders helmet a woman could barely fit it in her mouth.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

you are an educated guy, yet because it doesnt suit you, or youve suffered no ill effects, its nonsense. Thats dissapointing

According to science it's nonsense actually.

 

[BPH]

at the age of 38 even though i wasnt a furious fapper, after 20 years it gave me weak erections and an acorn shriveled bellend. I also needed to see a woman take 2 penises to get aroused

Nofap returned it to a penis i forgot I had, It was a beautiful moment after about 40 days, rock hard, veins, stayed erect whilst we moved about & my bellend was like Darth vaders helmet a woman could barely fit it in her mouth.

Ontop of this I got insanely aroused by all women all day, they only had to walk by me.

Amazing.

Sure, but the byproduct of that is becoming a 2-pump chump the moment you go inside.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

A good fap can get these women off your mind when you're otherwise trying to be productive. Why be a slave to your libido?

As men we have a higher purpose than to just get laid, but since it's optimal for our well being to do so, the idea is to have sex with as little distraction from your higher goals to begin with.

Nofap is masochism. It's as bad as jerking off on a daily basis. One extreme is no better than the other.

 

[derby1]

Sure, but the byproduct of that is becoming a 2-pump chump the moment you go inside.

the idea is you return to regular sex howver you only let a woman touch it

 

[Rainman4707]

My coc* always seems bigger when I no fap

 

[lost_blackbird]

My coc* always seems bigger when I no fap

I have noticed the same thing with mine plus a pair of knackers a ram would be proud of.

 

[BoostedArrow]

I'm still in it. Kinda busy (have to so I'm distracted) so can't write much here

 

[Murk]

I think my sex drive has dipped, maybe stress of work. No porn or fapping for a long time before November. I only ****ed my gf twice this month, she’s sleeping next to me as I type this I have no urge for sex with her and she’s been semi complaining (I don’t care).

 

[Zimbabwe]

I think my sex drive has dipped, maybe stress of work. No porn or fapping for a long time before November. I only ****ed my gf twice this month, she’s sleeping next to me as I type this I have no urge for sex with her and she’s been semi complaining (I don’t care).

How's your diet? Are you getting enough Zinc?

 

[Murk]

How's your diet? Are you getting enough Zinc?

Keto + I get 3mg of zinc daily from supplement, how much do I need?

edit: just seen I need about 10mg a day, I eat 4 eggs a day which is about 2.4mg, lots of red meat, chicken and broccoli/leafy greens. I think my zinc levels are good.

I just have no desire or urge for sex or orgasm, not even 10/10 stunners online are phasing me right now

 

[Zimbabwe]

3mg of zinc daily from supplement

Are you taking Zinc Orotate/Zinc picolinate? Other forms of Zinc are poorly absorbed. Go for at least 25mg, you can find plenty of supplements on iherb that are more bio available.

just seen I need about 10mg a day, I eat 4 eggs a day which is about 2.4mg, lots of red meat, chicken and broccoli/leafy greens. I think my zinc levels are good.

You would need a blood test to know for sure, but keep in mind a lot of people have trouble absorbing Zinc so that's why they supplement it.

 

[Murk]

Are you taking Zinc Orotate/Zinc picolinate? Other forms of Zinc are poorly absorbed. Go for at least 25mg, you can find plenty of supplements on iherb that are more bio available.




You would need a blood test to know for sure, but keep in mind a lot of people have trouble absorbing Zinc so that's why they supplement it.

Ok thanks, it’s not a zinc only supplement it’s part of a multivitamin I take. I’m going to try to get more zinc from foods, wider variety is needed in my diet.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Ok thanks, it’s not a zinc only supplement it’s part of a multivitamin I take. I’m going to try to get more zinc from foods, wider variety is needed in my diet.

Copper and Zinc are antagonistic to each other, so they cancel each other out.

 

[Murk]

Copper and Zinc are antagonistic to each other, so they cancel each other out.

8:1 zinc to copper ratio?

 

[corrector]

Just watched Matrix: Reloaded and Matrix: Revolutions over the weekend and noticed the main actor, Keanu Reeves, has not aged much and they are saying that he is celibate and is a no-fapper. I'm now wondering if this is the reason I lost my hair.

Anyway, just broke a streak here because @Murk put up a thread about facials. Wrong thread to look at when trying to keep your mind pure and away. This opened the floodgates and I ended up watching something on my smartphone and one thing lead to another. It goes to show you have to be careful what you read on here if you are serious about this thing.

 

[Sleeperhead]

A good fap can get these women off your mind when you're otherwise trying to be productive. Why be a slave to your libido?

As men we have a higher purpose than to just get laid, but since it's optimal for our well being to do so, the idea is to have sex with as little distraction from your higher goals to begin with.

Nofap is masochism. It's as bad as jerking off on a daily basis. One extreme is no better than the other.

If you are having problems with fapping then you aren't getting laid, simple as. Really you should have women around when your horniness builds up, you should never be fapping ever. In fact fapping is the most beta behaviour there is. You're watching alpha men **** the girls that you want to, lusting after girls that would be disgusted by you if she saw you.

If you cant get laid then you should be directing your sex drive into pursuits that can. When you fap you feel tired, relieved, stress free, lazy, completely antithetical to how you want to be to get laid. It doesn't mean that you're gonna go beg girls for sex. It means you have the motivation and energy to strike up a conversation with them.

Its not okay to fap because that sets the precedent for your mindset. We live in an age where you can get lost for hours cycling through endless pornography. Our ancestors did not have this. You have to consciously control your behaviour, which means exerting willpower. If it's okay to fap, then its okay to fail, and then you are fapping multiple times a week. It's the equivalent of quitting smoking but having a cigarette every now and then, you can easily fall back into smoking every day, just completely cut it out your life.