Hey Slick how you been? Doesn't sound like you're spinning too many plates as you are still thinking about your ex and willing to start a thread about her every whim...
As far as straight up advice: don't respond. As you said it yourself, what matters here is the consequences of your actions for YOU, not her. Who cares iif she is mad, happy, sad if you respond/dont respond? What matters is that if you do respond, you will then wait for her next response, wonder if it will come, etc... and the mind games start all over!
I think a lot of the pple that responded are trying to push their own agendas of how to deal with EXs w/out looking at your specific facts. But the facts are that you still have mixed feelings about this girl (at one point you say you wanna be friends with her, later you say you don't want her in your life anymore) so you should stay as far as possible from her until you get your emotions sorted out.
Just a few words about the email itself: it s a blatant attempt at clawing her way back into your mind and life. Think about this: if she didn't know you, would she be able to get this help from anybody else? Of course... Notice how she only spends 3-4 lines asking for advice and then jumps right to the point, rehashing stuff from your relationship.
As far as straight up advice: don't respond. As you said it yourself, what matters here is the consequences of your actions for YOU, not her. Who cares iif she is mad, happy, sad if you respond/dont respond? What matters is that if you do respond, you will then wait for her next response, wonder if it will come, etc... and the mind games start all over!
I think a lot of the pple that responded are trying to push their own agendas of how to deal with EXs w/out looking at your specific facts. But the facts are that you still have mixed feelings about this girl (at one point you say you wanna be friends with her, later you say you don't want her in your life anymore) so you should stay as far as possible from her until you get your emotions sorted out.
Just a few words about the email itself: it s a blatant attempt at clawing her way back into your mind and life. Think about this: if she didn't know you, would she be able to get this help from anybody else? Of course... Notice how she only spends 3-4 lines asking for advice and then jumps right to the point, rehashing stuff from your relationship.