Snow's 2007/2008 Bootcamp Journal

[Solomon]

Don't Stop Playa!!!

haha...superhero stuff used to be the sh!t, always had a blast doing stupid stuff like that, especially since we were on a rooftop, we could choose which building to fly.

I'm in a habit where I don't really pick a target unless it's OBVIOUS but bigger sets I'm usually escalating on everyone but generally more in tuned to the one I like the most...But what I used to do months back was escalate on everyone but as I get rejected or hit a roadblock, I'd jump to the next one...basically for learning purposes...

I remember a 2set one chick goes to the bathroom so I escalate, then the other goes to the bathroom and I escalate on the 2nd chick...

Took awhile to respond because I keep forgetting about this journal...and need to cross post and update it...

This why i'm here to remind ya
I'm pushing you to keep going, cause you're ass inspires me (no cupholding!)

keep doing it, I'm trying to get to your level man, 14 plates lol

 

[Snow Plowman]

This why i'm here to remind ya
I'm pushing you to keep going, cause you're ass inspires me (no cupholding!)

keep doing it, I'm trying to get to your level man, 14 plates lol

hahaha...14 was a bit TOO MUCH...but it did make me realize that you can't get EVERY WOMAN so might as well qualify even harder to have the best women...

On other note...my phone broke, so I have ZERO plates...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-One: Nov 14th (Part One)

This was an amazing night, I really seen the power in staying in a set for a long time. Basically long sets get you laid. My reality is constantly being shattered and rebuilt...now getting opened, chicks telling me I'm hot, chicks opening off of just "hey", etc is all normal to me. Heck all I really have to do is look and smile. It's really bizarre because it's very consistent now, for chicks to know who I am and remember me. I always get reopened now.

Before the Night Venue
I had spotted summa out and about so he buzzed me asking if I wanted to meet up. We do and hit up two different places, I'm in one set at both places...
- I just say "Hey" and it opens, there waiting for there late friends, I bring up the fact that adonis is always 2 hours late and how me and my friend joke about that. Were vibing and just having a good time, I start engaging the friend who isn't saying much. As I engage her and call her out on not contributing much, she starts opening up. We hang for about 5mins and then I eject leaving that place. I could've kept this going and should've
- The other place summa opens a 3set, which I join and get immediate attraction, but I do something that kills my connection with my girl and then she's back talking to the friend. I'm just chilling having a good time feeling good. Eventually summa tries to bounce to the night venue but it's a no goes and we leave.

Honestly I need to do a lot more day game, I haven't day gamed in the past month or so. Going out in the night time is so much more fun and I start getting picky in the daytime. I remember when I first started I was all about daygame and never even wanted to do nightgame.

The Night Itself
This night was cool and I just felt like that social guy that all the chicks wanted to know and be around. The whole night I would be getting opened, I'd have chicks hanging with me, I'd be bouncing around with new chicks, I'd be merging sets together, I'd be hanging with the crew, I'd have chicks saying they are into me, they heard about me, they was watching me, etc. Like there were so many girls I didn't remember, but they remembered me.
- There was a mixed 4set that was VERY into me, I opened by doing facial expressions and body movements. I then roll up on them sitting down and just looking at my girl. I introduce myself and the 3rd chick behind 1st chick is INTRIGUED...I keep playing with her by posing and making facial expressions, her RAS is FOCUSED. I talk to the 2nd chick to my left and vibe with her, about my school and she gives me some advice..."All the rich guys in the corporate world...To get good at anything you must have that BELIEF, no doubts." I eventually ended up ejecting after about 10mins with hanging with them. They said I will easily forget them whenever I make it big.

Insight #45: If you have the right subtle stuff going on, you can open with just facial expressions and little gestures. I do this ALOT now, and have cut down my talking considerably. It's all expressions of your internal state.

- I winged someone, who was with a milf, I have the other milf...supposedly she's HEARD about me? I'm clawing her in and just doing basic stuff, but the tension sky-rockets as I'm escalating. I don't even realize she's married and it gets to the point where we either have to **** or LEAVE. I start joking with her saying it's a good think I'm not in Florida because we'd have so many ADVENTURES. (Sub-communication, we'd end up ****ING too much behind your husband's back) Were like so close to each other and could basically makeout hardcore...but the tension gets so high that she litterally pushes me away and tells me I have to go because it's too much. She would later see me and try to reopen me but I was on the move. This was a very interesting set.

Insight #46: It's all about what your sub-communicating...my game is heavily based on my reality and setting up frames. I never verbally state many things sexually. It's very rare, and if I do it's generally me blaming her for winning me over slowly but surely.

- I open this chick on the bathroom line in the mix of about 5-6 guys, this chick is shocked by how hard I came in but is BORING as ****...like I always say it's generally the guy who is boring but when your expressing yourself freely, with no hidden agenda and she's BORING, it's her issue. I just walk off and claw the next chick which happened to be some milf who I wasn't really attracted too and she reopened me later.

Insight #47: You MUST HAVE STANDARDS...you should have a certain bar set for a woman to try and reach, because you'll end up wasting time with some chicks that really don't do it for you. I've been walking off on chicks more and more now. I don't even deal with chicks who are boring as **** when I'm expressing myself freely...I don't even bother plowing...they get cut off. You don't need or WANT every girl to be into you, just the ones that are cool enough.

- I met this stylish MILF...this is the chick I wanted to pull, I forget how we met but I was escalating hard and I was pulling her outside on the rooftop. EVERYTHING was going fine, BUT this natural dancer guy I recently started saying sup too, she waves to him and he taps her so I just give it to him, because I don't want to blow him out. I should've reopened her later on HARD, but I didn't...this was one of the few sets I got to open that I really was attracted to.

- A spot a chick standing around who ended up being VERY testy...like she was looking at my hands when I clawed her, she was trying to control the frame and get me to guess where she's from, she says she isn't trying to attract me, she says she doesn't care if I leave, she kept saying she doesn't know me so I can stop escalating...It was hilarious, but she ****ing LOVED ME because I was UNPREDICTABLE, I can't be controlled. This was attractive to her because she never knew what would happen next...I did a bit of cat walk with her, I was throwing her **** about how cool needs to be to attract me, I was going back and forth with her and overall having a blast. When her friends showed up since she was looking for them I grab one friend who has ENERGY because I complained that my chick couldn't handle me. Then she says her and her friends are leaving and wanted to say bye...she basically wanted me to #close or go with her, but I wasn't about to do that...If I could've remembered the dialogue I would've posted it because this was a VERY INTERESTING SET.

Insight #48: Being UNPREDICTABLE is a very attractive quality, like the chick realizes you can't be controlled and manipulation won't work on you because your always doing something on YOUR terms. So she is always wondering what will happen next, and even if she doesn't like you at first, she just enjoys the emotions of wondering what will you do next, and in her mind she will associate attraction to you because she obviously doesn't want to leave...what you say verbally don't even have to make ANY SENSE.

- I eventually went insane on the dancefloor, I forget how many chicks I start grabbing...basically some chick I opened we were having our little thing going on. For awhile and everyone was watching me and her at first...Then I go into this big 6-7 set mixed group where basically the two guys started insisting that I dance with them, some chick who was with them gets up and...BOOM I lord it for about 5mins. Everyone is watching, I'm having a blast. Sin-possible is telling me I should isolate that chick, but I wasn't really attracted to her, I did have fun nonetheless though.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-One: Nov 14th (Part Two)

The "Escort"
This is funny because I'm generally NEVER really attracted to black chicks anymore, but this chick for some reason I said "hey" to her as I've seen her before. She is dressed in a VERY UNIQUE way, I love when a woman dress in a very stylish way. I talk about her scarf, where she then reveals her breast as she is wearing a see through top...I vibe for like 2mins and then head out on the rooftop to chat some chicks.

Now I later see her standing around so I just joke with her, she reveals she's an escort trying to make money...WHY AM I ATTRACTED NOW? I was so non-judgmental that I'm even surprised, it was almost like "O cool your doing your thing?" (WTF) So basically start accusing her of trying to game me and how she's trying to attract me...I'm like naturally escalating and were both now escalating on each other and just chatting. A few guys come by and says hello to her and I laugh calling her a playa playa. This chick as GAME and knows how to work dudes. Like I'm drawn to her because of her energy...and NEVER in a million years would I say this is a chick I'd **** phyiscal wise...her body is insane though.

So basically every so often she would hang with me, at one point I'm with summa's chick that came out with us, and the escort chick. Were just chatting and then escort chick is telling summa's chick how to work these dudes because summa's chick want's to get free drinks. Me and escort chick roleplay how to get a free drink from a guy. We end up walking together through the venue and I don't know why but we naturally look like were together, we did create a conspiracy as we both knew we come out here looking for guys and girls. I jokingly told her I'd point out a easy chode...I find the most uptight dude who looks stifled and is in his head...(Sorry guy) I point him out to her and she cracks up saying how she already got him before but then she starts chatting him...hahaha OMG I guess my sub-communication reading is REAL GOOD.

After awhile I no longer seen her, so she must've found some needy rich dude...It was a cool experience for me just by how unreactive I was and how non-judgmental I was. I guess it's because I used to hang with a ****load of lesbians and bi-sexuals back in high school, this seems normal as the chicks from high school opened me to how sexual women are.

That "Guy" that is just FUN
I'm coming onto something I didn't realize in my way of being that I will mention at the end of this...basically as you may know I'm that fun guy that everyone wants to be around and subtly she can feel the sexuality and the tension is boiling. If we were alone we'd end up ****ing because we'd have to get that release and cut loose.
- This was a 3set of swedish chicks, forget how I opened but it was early in the night like my 2nd or 3rd set. Basically I vibe with her and then she starts teaching me how to speak in swedish...I sit her down on the chairs and we chat some more about sweden, more learning how to speak swedish and then I move her outside where I'm just having fun as usual. We end up making out. The rest of the night everytime we seen each other, we'd reopen each other and makeout...I also noticed the "Secret Society" thing again, as she walked by holding the hand of another RSD guy and she gave me that look and I gave back the look like "It's cool, have fun" to the chick and everything was good. We all were passing around good emotions...she knew I "GET IT"...Our experience was fun while it lasted, I later ended up seeing her friend who I could've madeout with and pulled but I didn't want to because she was drunk.

- The 6-7 mixed set that I was doing the dancefloor **** with, I basically didn't realize one chick but I take her and continued my dancefloor stuff...we were acting like we were driving to LA with our car. After about maybe 5mins of dancefloor I start pulling her towards outside where I then spot summa's chick and she tells me she was making out with some dude (Secret Society) and I laugh saying "O like this" and I makeout with my girl...we continue outside and I sit her down as we vibe...Talk about london, travel, school, telling her she should get into acting, makeout, and after about 10mins I bring her back to her friends...she also wanted me to pull as she's leaving monday and I seen her outside at the end of the night I say my goodbye's and gave her a final kiss.

Insight #49: Secret Society is REAL...whether you want to like it or not, there is alot of special treatment you get because your not judgmental and you don't take the interaction seriously, your just enjoying the good emotions being passed around. Everyone in the secret society gets the good emotions passed around to them. You can never get bad emotions or else your not apart of it...This is why I think it's normal for chicks to want to makeout with me because it's no big deal, chicks talk to me about how they got there ***** waxed, etc. Everything is like completely normal to me as I never judged a chick sexually even from when I was younger.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-One: Nov 14th (Part Three)

The "Distant Light" Experience
This was VERY VERY interesting since my sticking point was STAYING IN SET...I was sort of forced to stay in set because anyone who is rolling with me, I want them to have a good time so I generally don't want to leave them by themselves all night. This was the case with this chick...Basically summa met her awhile back and realized they went to the same school together, he spotted her on the corner and we basically got her to come out with us.

At first mainly summa was chatting with her, I was texting on my phone as another chick wanted to meet up with me. Then randomly a chick comes up to me and touches my hair and proceeds to tell me how I hot I am and how she wants me...I just say "Yea cool...where are you from...ok I'll see you around in a bit".

I chatted with "Main" chick for awhile and somehow we started joking around about pickup lines she came up with one. "Hey are you from sweden...because your very sweet..." I roleplay with her as if I'm a super shy guy but then slowly brought out the REAL me and we were having our little fun.

I was telling the chick that came with us that it's going to be crazy tonight and she has no idea how much fun will be created, because wherever we go were the party...she thought I was joking at first next thing she knows were on the rooftop chatting and all of a sudden...Pythag shows up, then he opens a chick and brings her in, then sin-possible shows up, sin-possible brings in two dutch hotties, then some russian looking chick in a fur hat starts chatting me from afar who pythag ends up bringing over, at the sametime some chick had opened me. Basically we created a big party in less than 3mins.

At some point I grab her and tell her lets dance and start building up the energy in this place. We go into the lounge area and we start dancing. I'm doing my regular dancefloor stuff and in 5mins the whole place around us is dancing. I tell her "Look what we've created". People were all over the place dancing now, when before this it was just me and her. I grab her to go get some fresh air...

While outside I see the escort chick and hang with her too, us three are just chatting and then a 3rd chick who I swear might be coked up comes by and starts talking about AMAZING RACE...this goes on for 5mins I'm just hanging giving good emotions. I don't even judge the chick, I just offer value to her. Escort chick then talks about how to get these guys to get a drink, because MAIN chick wanted to get free drinks since it's so expensive here. Coke chick catches on telling us she has a table and invites us along...she got her free drinks. I ended up chatting with coke chick for a bit and eventually get up and dance with main chick for a few mins. Some guy is watching us and loving our energy so I tell her to go to him and have fun...I then leave and go do my own thing.

She comes out to the rooftop telling me how she needed saving from some other guy. She said summa passed by, just drank some of her drink and kept walking, the whole time she was trying to signal summa for help...hahaha...we end up going on a mission impossible looking for summa. This was basically use doing a lap through the venue and then she got stopped by some guy and I just went off doing my own thing.

At one point as we were doing mission impossible, I spotted two chicks who are my ideal type, first one tried ignoring me so I jumped on the friend and then double clawed both chicks, then two other plastic looking chicks like gives me a huge HUG squeezing there breast on me. The whole time I'm thinking "Wow too many girl's coming onto me...TOO fast". So anyway as I'm with this new girl who I'm about to bring to the rooftop, I spot Main chick and she tells me how she ended up making out with some guy, I just makeout with my girl and then continue moving.

The night is drawing to a near end and we end up going outside...at this point she #closes me...I'm sort of confused because this is summa's girl, but at the sametime I realized I did give her the ultimate experience because we hung out a lot throughout the night. It didn't even occur to me, as this is the same way I got #closed by this other chick because I was self-amusing for about 30mins...basically I was the source of good emotions, because it was obvious she had a good time.

Now were walking to taco bell, I was trying to get every chick that was on the street to come with us, I almost got every chick to come with us...some random dudes wanted to come too. It's funny because I was saying to them "Na man I'm going home to sleep" but at the sametime saying "Lets continue our adventure at taco bell" As we walk, I'm telling summa what went down, he tells me to go for it. But I still feel a bit bad because I'm pretty strict when it comes to me talking to chicks that my friend's are moving it forward with.

At the end of the night it just so happens we take the same train...I knew it would happen, like it's so freaking obvious when a chick is isolated with me that it will happen. Basically I go in and makeout with her as she says "were just friends" but were making out now. I keep pulling it back and just chatting...I ended up showing her why I liked her. We get on the train and it's SO OBVIOUS that she wants to get pulled...her stop is coming up and in my head I'm just repeating "It's summa's girl!" I continue that until she leaves but you can clearly see she just wanted to be lead.

Lesson Learned
- Long SETS get you laid...
- Chicks actually like me for me...just the fact that there in my world and get to see what I'm about.

Later on I was on the phone with an old wing who I will be meeting up with next week...and two things I remember telling him about

Insight #50: Have an idea of how cool a chick has to be in order for her to be able to roll with you. I noticed I'm always naturally setting a bar and feeding them the requirements in order to be considered a cool chick in my mind...This is where the game is played for the chick, her being able to figure you out

Insight #51: Something I do is since I have a specific rhythm that doesn't really have many silences unless I purposely do it...when I'd screen the chicks would take to long so I began to say "3..2..1...BRAMMMMM!!!!" and it caused them to be forced to keep up with my rhythm. It would sort of condition them to my rhythm and when I need to qualify I always end up saying something similar too..."Wow I love how you can keep up with me, because most chicks can't they usually are stunned and can't keep up with my verbal content". When really I just taught her how to keep up from the start, but she never even realizes it...Just something I noticed I did alot and a way that I usually get #closes.

Sticking Point? "Note to self, must look into this"
I've noticed this pointed out by nearly everyone...parents, friends, chicks I've been with, etc. I NEVER HAVE ANY DEEP CONNECTION with chicks. The thing is I'm very turned off by this and don't even want to hear about it, especially if a chick starts expressing that towards me. This may cause me to be a same night lay type of guy...because right now my first interactions are ****ing GREAT!!! 90% of my experiments were based on the first interaction...I barely worked on the phone, but my day2s are real good...but I dislike them for the fact that I can go out and meet people right there and not even have to use to phone.

BUT...I did realize I really, really love the experiences I have with chicks. Like when I describe certain experiences to regular people, people would think I'm a super chode how much I enjoy the interaction...for example the model looking Macedonia chick, the experience was so movie-like. I really wanted her to live in NY because I really enjoyed hanging with her, we looked like a young passionate couple and we had just met 5mins ago.

So I shall explore that...

Side Note: I was talking to my old wing about certain things that have happened due to the way I interact and I'm thinking of trying something REAL COOL...I was suppose to do it on Saturday BUT ****ing went to sleep and woke up too late, so I'll try it next week.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Two: Nov 20th (Part One)

All I have to say is what a day...a lot of crazy **** happened today as I hung out with one of my first wings that I ever consistently went out with. Me and summa used to call him O10. This is back when we used to just open EVERYTHING. Me and him got out EARLY doing daygame, it was the same like it used to be and then we went straight into nightgame.

Today was suppose to be all about just imposing my reality and I think the end result was OK, because I still have stupid DIRECT as a autopilot opener just because when I first really started approaching, direct was all I did...I HATE direct, my **** never goes anywhere and it's incongruent to how I am...Also, I kept falling into that rut where if I'm not being me, not centered, or there is a problem somewhere I'll just stack old **** together to try and make the conversation go, but it just feels FORCED. Watch and observe...
- First set I just open unexpectedly, direct...it just goes nowhere and is super forced because direct is just so incongruent.

- Some chick standing next to me as I get pizza, me and O10 were joking with the cashier and I just start telling this chick she's my myspace date, she's running with it for awhile but again starts to feel forced.

- Later in union square I go in textbook on this LA chick, it's going wonderful as I said "Hey I like your style" and everything is going well, but again I start trying to force it and manufacture things to just get these responses, then I quickly try to get the # knowing that it won't even happen...Total newbie mistake

Daygame: "The Good"
O10 and I did have an adventure today, it was a wide range of experiences, let us start with us being interviewed for the newspaper...mark ended up chatting some reporter chick who is trying to interview people. It was interesting seeing her cut in and out of "Working Reality"/"Social Reality". I decided to throw in a few things here and there as we just hangout there, she then becomes SUPER INTRIGUED wondering what we do and what our life is like because she sees O10 pointing out chicks for me to approach and I'd just do it. I then went into a story about a regular adventure and how I'm a self-help social experimenter who is improving himself.

I start showing her videos of me sword fighting with random chicks on the subway, I start screening her to find out if she's cool, so far she was showing that she was cool, as she had wit and was sexually comfortable. She gave me her facebook earlier, and then wanted to give her #, but I just told her to give it to O10 since it was his girl. We were trying to get her out that day but she doesn't get off work until 11:30...this lasted for about 30mins.

Another thing that really intrigued her was the fact that she needed one more person for her article so I open this chick TEXTBOOK. Then I just start leading her and introducing her to the reporter chick, she's looking shocked that I was able to pull that off. She came to the realization that we were out talking to chicks early in the afternoon and joked that our libido must be RAGING...haha...the whole interaction last about 30mins.

We hit union square...O10 says we should do a little challenge/experiment...basically you had to see how many girls you could meet and introduce to your friend. So were in whole foods, O10 just opens some chick, I open the next chick who comes in HARD. Imposing your reality is super easy once you get the hang of it. So I open this chick, grab her and introduce her to O10, and O10 introduces me to his girl. I let my girl run off and I open this chick just standing there saying "Welcome to the party"...We began just chatting about our adventures for today, find out she's artsy and her husband works at my school, we talk about food, the industry, etc. Overall it was a cool little 10min interaction. At the sametime O10 was chatting his girl right next to me and trying to #close his girl.

Right as we leave whole foods, O10 opens a chick who has a unique hat...I get introduced and actually like this chick, she's like a free spirit and plays along with everything that is said. She also adds and puts twists to it. I don't remember what was being talked about but she surely was doing "Free Association" if you really think about it. I had fun with this girl.

At the bus stop right outside, I open a chick asking about her adventures and talking about her scarf. She's into it, I also introduced her to O10, but eventually her bus comes...so we walk into forever 21 and we don't even get inside, I open a chick and introduce her to O10, I move her from the door since security was bothering us. This is going real well, but she was leaving the city on saturday or something...keep walking in forever 21 and open a chick on the escalator, I let O10 do most of the talking, as we keep walking I open another chick talking about her style and introduce her to O10. This was going well until she brought up the BF.

Daygame: "The Bad"
So...were having a BLAST!!! Right, well it's going to go bad right HERE!!! So a fight is about to start with a guy and one of the workers in the market. It's so random and while that's happening O10 says "Hey" to a chick and she is creeped out saying "Do I know you". So I was just walking next thing I know a guy is yelling at O10...WTF!? Then some other dude is in O10's face...I get sucked in and take O10's place going up to the dude finding out what's the problem, basically just taking the whole thing over. So I just say "Were done here" and walk away from them...BUT THEY ARE TALKING ****, which at this point none of the stuff even effects me...

BUT I'm SUPER pissed because this guys actually came up to O10 wanting to fight, and I'm getting negative and all I want to do is fight. Like I can tell there is alot of my past that is still attached to me. There is certain **** that O10 told me about after the fact, that I didn't realize and if I had known I would've fought regardless...But either way I'm ****ed, totally REACTIVE, NEGATIVE and basically don't want to do **** anymore but be mad. I got sucked in...O10 points out that it's all cool and then makes me realize that they were walking around looking for fights...homeless natural was telling me how it was good that I didn't fight because there known for stabbing people and how they just go around looking for fights...I try to drop it but I couldn't, I've seen more BS in the city in the past two years than I did in my OWN neighborhood.

Daygame: "The Ugly"
O10 pushes me into a set with this HOT chick in barnes & nobles, I'm so pissed that I just approach saying she's cute and I have no expression, just SUPER unreactive "I don't give a **** mode" with a dash of "Negativity". So I came off both attractive and sort of incongruent at the sametime. My actual skill was doing all the work as I accuse her of being a spy because she doesn't want to tell me what she does, she later finds out she's a model. I'm totally just doing "free association" and everything is going WELL. I'm accusing her of her mission, her mark, me being a target, the fact that she's in the SEX section, etc. She's one of those fly around the world models, as she just came into NY 11am and her hair is so messy which I think is SUPER sexy. Now I just give her my # and tell her to buzz me, but I'm so pissed that I just don't even care and don't even lead it properly. The #close sort of falls through and the whole time she can sort of sense the "**** you I don't care about nothing right now"...I know 100% sue if I wasn't all negative and stuff it would've went well...This is one of the cooler model chicks that I've met, she reminded me of that macedonia chick who looks like a model.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Two: Nov 20th (Part Two)

Distant Light Gone Reactive!? Recovers?
Later on something had happened to me and O10 where I totally forgot about the whole incident and it just didn't matter AS MUCH...there was a total change in interaction...
- Back in grand central and I open this chick who tells me she's waiting for her BF, just so I know...she HOOKs me because I was about to leave but then we start vibing for about 5mins, which I ended up ejecting.

- I approach a 2set HARD...like they stop and I've got it going, but I'm starting to force it and the friend starts getting weirded out by it, I try reengaging her but my target notices and then the friend says "Lets go"

- I stop another chick walking by telling her I like her style and I hold her hand not letting go, were just chatting as I hold her hand but I let her go away, I stop plowing for no reason

- We get in the subway and O10 ended up opening a chick and bringing me in, all of a sudden me and the chick are talking about plays and it's going ok, after we transfer trains, mark meets another chick who he chats to for about 5mins and when we get in the new train I spot this STYLISH European looking chick...turns out she's from Israel and I open HARD. I joke around with her about her hat, tell her about my whole adventure. Everything here was going well until I found out she's going to meet up with her BF.

Insight #52: Things are SO subtle the line of beliefs is all based on how much you believe, your reality is a very thin line of whether people buy into it or not. Just a few mental tweaks can make an interaction go GOLDEN

Mission Impossible
O10 and I went into a hotel and stumbled upon a private dinner party, which consisted of boat companies, nothing but rich boat owners. It was hilarious as we walk in and I'm just like "O well might as well be social". I just walk in...
- I tap the two women at the table saying, "How's your night today", I start bantering with them and were having fun. MEANWHILE everyone is wondering "Who the **** am I". I block them out and just keep chatting and move on.

- Go into a mixed 5set of 2 girls and 3 guys...I just go in saying "Hey" and it opened, one of the girl's is going crazy saying "How did you guys get in here? You crashed the party? Hey susan we have two wedding crashers." I'm loving it and bringing value too, then one of the guys tries to act like security saying "Well I'm security and I'm going to have to take you guys out" I laugh and joke around as if he got us. O10 is now talking to the chick and she tells me to open this other chick at the table

- Tap Tap..."I need a new sea captain for my pirate ship" She goes crazy and is touching me, she wants to know about me as I joke about her needing to be able to handle the boat and handle the rough waters. Every guy is standing there like chodes just spectating and also wondering "How the **** did he get in here". After about 5mins with her I decide that we need to head out before we get arrest...hahaha...

This had caused me to forget about the whole incident and I dropped it for a brief moment. We both came to the realization that this was such a cool day due to everything that happened, so I sent it as a text to all my chicks and one chick wants to hang out...

Night Time Mediocrity
There wasn't much to write about, just a bunch of weak interactions, negativity and a few AUTHENTICITY in the mix. Did I mention we ended up walking in on a reality show and just chatting the people there?
- 3set of black chicks sitting down, they know were not suppose to be hear and it goes from good, to bad...I'm not sure what really made it go bad, could be because I had that "**** you guys" attitude. But the friend in the back was really intrigued by me.

- I then open a 2set and grab one of the chicks and move her, she's not hot so I decide not to push it anywhere...I later meet the "Star" of the show's sister who I chat with for awhile. But I can now tell how INGENUINE I am, this chick is talking about how proud she is for her brother and I am like EMPTY showing nothing. She keeps thinking that I think she's full of **** and she then ends up rambling more. I eventually cut that whole thread and we joke around a bit talking about how every ends up calling her D and then we roleplay calling each other A and D...

- O10 wanted to see how I'd get into a mixed 2set when the guy is holding the girl and she's real hot...I go in saying I like her style and Claw her, find out how they know each other. Turns out they go to school together and just met, but this guy is already in there with the chick. Not your everyday chode, he starts trying to amog me but it has no affect at all because I don't care. The chick literally asks him "Why are you even saying that to him? What's the point of doing that?" She then brings her black friend and introduces me to her...I ended up ejecting after a few minds hanging with her friend, who was cool.

Insight #53: The best way to deal with AMOGS is to be totally unreactive, if you don't care the women will know and the guy will end up looking try hard. I had a REAL good community guy trying to steal my girls and his stuff were hitting and I really didn't care so at the end of all that good stuff she'd just focus back on me.

- I open these two swedish chicks that warlock ends up coming and winging me in. This is going real well and while she isn't showing **** she's standing there so it's on. We vibe about sweden, my school, I try to roleplay a bit but she's shy when it comes to people watching her doing outlandish things. This lasted about 5mins and I was escalating more and more, I'm just looking at this chick and go in for the kiss. It's a no go as she moves back...Reload & Reboot...try it again and get the cheek. Eventually her friend says it's time to go and she starts touching me saying bye, etc. She's rubbing my chest and all that ****.

Insight #54: I notice that when I go for makeouts quickly, even if I don't get it...the interaction is SO much better. There is like a lot of tension and it's like a mating dance. EVERY interaction where I tried to makeout with quickly and it didn't go but we kept chatting, it turns into this HUGE tension build up, where nothing much is said but through the eyes and body a ****load is going on... (Will test more)

- I open this 2set which I realize is the Colombian chick, she claims I approach her everytime I see her and I don't even remember her. This was hilarious as she says she knows Lprince and calls me a regular...hahaha...I ended up seeing her later at this guys table and she kept accusing me of forgetting her. This chick has an amazing ass, not so pretty face...were like rubbing each other as we lean in to talk to each other, almost like a HUGE kino ping, were slapping each other. At high notes I'm literally slapping her ass. I try to grab her and move her, but no go. Eventually we do move outside to sit down away from the guys who thought they were escorts. At this point I'm on the colombian hardcore, rubbing her ass and thighs, just talking real close having fun. To her friend it looks like I'm groping her...hahaha...but it's all playful escalation that me and her love. Indeed shows up, so does pythag and they help me out. Indeed isolates his girl and I'm with my girl who is testy and reminds me of that one chick who said to find her keys in the purse and open the door. I like want to **** this chick HARDCORE just cause of the way she acts and her body. I don't assert my boundaries though and she gets away...I will see her again as she comes there ALOT.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Three: Nov 21st

Today I didn't learn as much, nor did I really accomplish what I came out to do, but I did learn that you MUST take action. Nothing will happen if you don't make it happen. I learned this today and it was probably the first time ever in the night venue that I was willing to throw away the night...It's hilarious being on the otherside of the spectrum, I'm so used to everyone watching me and, I'm just tearing it up having a blast...But not today, or atleast not at the start of the night. I basically was outside dabbling around and hearing lots of noise, it made me smirk because I'd realize I'm on the other end of the stick.

I was hating the bar because of always being bumped around and it pisses me off, every so often I try to deal with it but it's really bothering me. I claw a 1set it goes nowhere...I try winging lprince, it goes nowhwere...I open a 3set it goes nowhere...I open a 2set horribly but pull for the lesson and actually get it to open but then take it nowhere...I do a 4set with lprince, it gets bumpy and I leave...I open a 2set and bring lprince in and I just dissappear...another 1set who I'm about 5ft away from just chatting and self-amusing myself...Then a 1set that it's total on but she isn't hot...

It's funny how I only shine when I see a challenge. These chicks instantly tried to blow me out with one of the WORST blowout lines "Were having a serious conversation here". I plowed through it but leave after I do it, also there was no way I was going to makeout or even think about pulling a chick who isn't hot...I don't need external validation...**** a lay, kiss, # or IOI...if I ain't improving myself then I ain't liking what I'm doing.

Action Taken
After about 30mins of this BS...I just get ticked off and say it's a must that I take action. I just go back inside and open the first chicks on the dancefloor...
- Boom it's a 2set, who I end up dancing with for awhile...it's SO on with me and one of the girl's, but eventually some drunk dude comes along and now I'm juggling both girls, then trying to save the friend...meanwhile achillies is in there dancing with my girl...I could careless if he takes her, I'm just having fun and enjoying the whole thing. I have the friend for awhile and later it's me and my girl and I tell her I will see her later.

- I later opened this HOT croatian chick...HOT...STYLISH...I tell her I like her style and find out she lives in london and is with her brother from LA. She used to be in LA and tells me not to go there and how it sucks. She starts talking about the girl's there, and I tell her the type of chicks I like, which she then drops that she's from croatia. This girl was GORGEOUS and even when her brother joined us, I was still chatting to the girl. I liked her alot, sucks that she's not from NY...I had got a text from SUMMA saying he needed help...I leave.

- Join summa who is seated...I'm winging but there is a BIG PROBLEM, I met this chick earlier which I have no memory of and is PISSED that I don't even remember her name, heck I don't even remember chatting her. She somehow remembered my name. So were starting off on a VERY BAD foot...I'm getting tested HARDCORE, she wants me to leave, she want make me move her, she is giving my all those tests that I'm drawn too...But I flip it around, I make it seem like she was qualifying herself and something hooked me and she gained my approval...so now I'm back in, enough to wing summa. Then what happens next is TEN!!!! MINUTES!!! of PURE GIBBERISH...You think I'm joking, I'm saying PURE BS and calling it French, she goes along with it and starts speaking French. Every so often I accuse her of not knowing french and the sexual tension and everything was there. I should've kissed her but I wasn't feeling her body, I did like her attitude though but from the stomach down, I wasn't feeling her. Eventually she gets up and I assume summa is good to go...Turns it he was, goldenchild winged him and they ended up all leaving the venue.

- I go sit by this one chick and just start chatting to her saying I like her hat. This chick is wondering "WTF?" and testing me from the get go...I likes, I handle everything all well and then start accusing her of being drunk and pulling her hat over her face. I try for the makeout twice, I try to seed the pull but she's to TIRED... (I love how it's easier for me to setup a pull than actually get the makeout) I settle for a #close and I go for the kiss a 3rd time and get it. This is going to be a total flake as she was sort of out of it...I was giving her **** for talking too low at first and was asserting boundaries.

- I winged kobi, and ended up moving this chick outside by the fire where her friends were...I told her I liked her scarf, now I don't think this chick was that attractive, I honestly don't know WTF I was doing besides winging...both going for makeouts is autopilot so while sitting down outside I ended up making out with her...****!!! It was a cool interaction as I told her about my dramatic experience that happened yesterday, talked about brooklyn, joked about me thinking she was from amsterdam when really she's form denmark...Basically I was just making out with her and her friend demanded I **** her friend, I move inside, someplace warm and we makeout some more...she tests me about living with my parents, I talk about food, and then we move back inside and I ended up #closing...WHY!? I HAVE NO CLUE...I actually got in that mode to ditch her and go for this SUPER GIRLIE chick dancing and this other chick further down.

- I jump on the chick further down as I was about to leave with kobi, I open her talking about her style and trying to do things quickly. It was maybe a 3-5 min interaction where I ended up #closing...I highly doubt it goes anywhere, I just told her I had to go and I don't really know much about her so I needed her # to continue this some other time.

Overall I made things happen by just taking action and making things happen...also I seen the whole "It's all fun and games until the end of the night" as I watched this one chick say goodbye to me as she leaves with some guy...*shrug*

 

[j0n024]

Hey buuuuuuuddddy!

Long time no see!

I'm just about to go out and decided to check out your thread since it was bumped, your doing pretty good but you dont need me saying that to you since you already know your good at this sort of thing.

Good luck.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Hey buuuuuuuddddy!

Long time no see!

I'm just about to go out and decided to check out your thread since it was bumped, your doing pretty good but you dont need me saying that to you since you already know your good at this sort of thing.

Good luck.

I'm glad your still out there...I remember when you and the fiend guy used to post in your journals.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Four: Nov 22nd (Part One)

I woke up at 10:20pm...lied back down in bed saying I wouldn't go out it would take too long...one minute of thought and as me and lprince says
"Just show up". Whether I'd only have one hour to hangout didn't matter, it's so longs I went out. So I got up and went out...

I'm actually glad I went out tonight because this was THE WORST NIGHT EVER...BUT also learned one of the BIGGEST LESSONS that I ever learned...

Insight #55: Your reality is so SUBTLE...a slight shift could be the difference of things going good or bad. The deciding factors of your reality being strong or weak is so SUBTLE...It's all based on how much you can control yourself and keep stable in your own reality.

I didn't realize how REACTIVE I was today, because I was annoyed and irritated that each time I go to the bar area I'd get bumped around, I'd get pissed and just walk off from the set...then I'd ***** and moan about not wanting to go to the bar area. At the sametime I dislike not making things happen so I'd keep pushing it and keep going...which the end result...

HORRIBLE...I knew there was something immediately wrong when I got BLOWN OUT...This isn't some ego **** about "I'm so good I don't get blownout" I know exactly why it is I don't get blownout so getting blownout is sort of a indicator that I'm reverting back to the problems I seen before.

Also all my sets went nowhere, I'd just leave annoyed, I'd impose my reality but there was still negativity too it and it would sort of freak them out as they get sucked in...Overall BAD, but also a GREAT realization.

This night wasn't ME...it was the reactive me who lost all sense of who he was and his sense of reality...two of the biggest things about me that causes everything to go well. I now realize why even if you had good so called OUTER GAME skills, it will feel like your on a tight rope or it just won't work because everything tonight felt so forced and that was because I was totally reactive...

In all honesty if your sets are feeling the way it felt for me...then I can actually see why guys get AA, and have a hard time just approaching set after set because this way of interacting really feels yucky as if the interaction will end in any minute and your just TRYING to keep it there.

Distant Light REACTIVE!?
I don't understand why, but I find all my bad stuff hilarious...I'm not sure if this is my way of never getting an ego out of this, but I joke on myself in a positive way, alot now...

I open a 3set that goes NOWHERE fast, I'm getting bumped around so I leave...I open a mixed 2set and basically impose my reality BUT, I just stand there and it's funny because they stood there for 10 seconds waiting for me to "Insert Frame Here", but I walk off due to getting bumped. I'm leaving that area and go in the back area where I generally throw down keywords to remember sets and the night...*****ing and Moaning commences...

Note: I should've known something was wrong if WARLOCK could even point out that I'm not being me at all, especially me complaining about something little as getting bumped around...as he said to me "That never stopped you before." Which is 100% right...

In the back area, I chat the ONLY chick there and impose my reality and call this area the VIP area. She thinks me and warlock are famous, haha. I self-amuse for a bit and then make warlock chat with her. Then some guy she was waiting for comes and she leaves telling him this is the VIP area...I go back by the bar a few times and just get annoyed but I still go in sets, opened a 2set of brazilians with bad english, one of the WORKER guys who caused me to lose many sets passes through and BUMPS me...hahaha...a 3set that I opened REAL WELL blows wide open and it's ON!!! But I get bumped and I just leave annoyed.

As I head back to the back area, I jump in this mixed 6set and claw this guys girl and start joking with her, it's on...AMOG comes in saying "Are you the waiter? Who are you?" I just bring my regular attitude towards AMOGs and it's sort of cool. I did see this guy earlier about to punch some dude in the face because he tried hitting on his girl, but he doesn't really bother me...I leave because it was his girl.

In the back area I open this chick from morocco, who was cool, I ask about the food there and then just make warlock chat her up...there was another chick from earlier who we also chatted too back there and warlock ended up kissing her.

Highlights of Distant Light's Reactiveness
- There was a chick from ukraine that I meet, in a 3set...it's going good, I have the claw and I'm doing my thing, BUT she can feel there is something off about me. I can actually FEEL that if I do one wrong thing, then it's totally over and I get bumped and BOOM attention gone, I leave.

- Random guy (I think he's community and seen me pull off some crazy ****) pulls me into his set saying I'm his boy, so I just run with it, I have my chick and it's going well...but his girl is leaving him and starts taking my girl, I plow but it's not the ACTUAL PLOWING...it's more of me trying to do **** to keep them there.

- Open a 2set hard and CLAW them...BUT I'm reactive so it freaks them out and causes them to blow me out, I try plowing but it just comes off try hard.

- Open a 1set passing through it was going ok...RoB is chatting the friend, I honestly don't even know why I left this one, as this was one of the only chicks who I really was attracted too...I wasn't being me that's for sure though.

- I open a set saying I like her style but I'm being totally reactive, she is wondering "WTF?" and is getting that icky feeling, I get blown out...it was then that I realized what was going on.

- I had opened some english chicks earlier in the night, didn't even remember them because in the bar when I leave, I have no collection of ever meeting them...So she pulls me in while she's with some guys and is obviously wanting me to isolate her but I don't even think about it and ended up leaving the set.

It was a huge lesson learned on my part, I now realize how SUBTLE everything is. My game is hugely based on sub-communication and very subtle stuff under what I'm doing. So once that was cut off, I'm basically like the regular community dude who thinks they can just tactic a girl to bed...which is why it feels like one mistake and your done.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Four: Nov 22nd (Part Two)

Distant Light Keeps Going...
There is a few habits I mentioned previously in this thread which causes me to always keep going no matter how bad things are going...I'm 100% cool with having bad interactions all night, so longs I learn something to improve myself, I'm cool...So throughout the night there was only ONE set that I actually started off great and then you can slowly see I was getting more and more reactive...
- Full blown LA chick, from LA, dressed like LA, attitude like LA...I actually didn't think I could be attracted to these chicks but I am. I grab this chick and pull her in hard. She LOVES it, and is kinoing me hardcore. But she has to go somewhere and tells me to find her later. It was so ON and everyone was stunned at what was going on...Next time I see her she is sitting at a table ALL THE WAY IN THE BACK AT THE BAR...****...I'm annoyed that I have to go through all these people and get to her, it was so REACTIVE that I get there and I'm like so reactive. She is now TESTING me through touch, she'd hit me, pinch my cheeks and just touch me to get me reacting to her. I was flicking in and out of "Authentic DL" and "Reactive DL"...I try grabbing her and moving her but no go, so I just leave...See her later in front of me and continue chatting her but I end up LEAVING...It was stupid on my part and I never seen her again.

- A french chick who I points out to me that we met before, this was in the back area so I eventually sat her down after 5mins. This was the only set where I was fully "Authentic DL". We had a blast as we joked about accents because she has that quirky french accent. I start trying to help her with english and then it goes over to me trying french. It was me actually enjoying the interaction...I was now back in my own reality and it was time to BE ME again...So I had these guys close the door because she was freezing, I told her I like french accents and how she mustn't lose it, he hates it, she asks me to correct her english whenever I hear it, we go through maybe 3 words/phrases that she said because I laughed too much at it, then I started saying some french which she now teased me...We joke about british accent, canadian french accent, which she does and dislikes the most, we both joke about how german sounds so aggressive as if there fighting each other. We start doing impressions and we start making musicals in french based on the few words I know...OVERALL THE BEST INTERACTION...that whole night.


Lesson Learned:
- I must always be living in my own reality...even the small things that annoys me will cause me to be reactive, as I'm not in control of my emotions/energy.
- Even if I had the best outer game, I wouldn't want to be approaching if I didn't live in my own world because it feels like one mistake and the set will end...aka your automatically reactive
- I MUST ALWAYS STAY CENTERED!!!

Watching Naturals
This is like a little bonus, at the end of the night since I burnt down everything I sat and watched two natural dudes. One is celeb status, the other isn't...but they BOTH had chicks that I'd considered my 9s and 10s...VERY attractive.

It's interesting to see how unreactive both guys were as the chick stands there trying to attract them and get there attention. These girls would just dance and shake there body right in front of them and the guys would be there totally unaffected by it and just totally decisive when they were escalating. Honestly these chicks were going nowhere and they had to do nothing...

It was a perfect example of "Squirrel running around the oak tree". It was the centeredness and them just living in there own reality...because this is the foundation of a chick getting sucked into wanting to see what your about. I've had this same thing happen to me in the past but I really noticed it because I was being totally reactive today and so it opened my eyes making me realize what was going on.

 

[Solomon]

Breaking down the kid on the field

I woke up at 10:20pm...lied back down in bed saying I wouldn't go out it would take too long...one minute of thought and as me and lprince says
"Just show up". Whether I'd only have one hour to hangout didn't matter, it's so longs I went out. So I got up and went out...

I'm actually glad I went out tonight because this was THE WORST NIGHT EVER...BUT also learned one of the BIGGEST LESSONS that I ever learned...

Insight #55: Your reality is so SUBTLE...a slight shift could be the difference of things going good or bad. The deciding factors of your reality being strong or weak is so SUBTLE...It's all based on how much you can control yourself and keep stable in your own reality.

I didn't realize how REACTIVE I was today, because I was annoyed and irritated that each time I go to the bar area I'd get bumped around, I'd get pissed and just walk off from the set...then I'd ***** and moan about not wanting to go to the bar area. At the sametime I dislike not making things happen so I'd keep pushing it and keep going...which the end result...

HORRIBLE...I knew there was something immediately wrong when I got BLOWN OUT...This isn't some ego **** about "I'm so good I don't get blownout" I know exactly why it is I don't get blownout so getting blownout is sort of a indicator that I'm reverting back to the problems I seen before.

Also all my sets went nowhere, I'd just leave annoyed, I'd impose my reality but there was still negativity too it and it would sort of freak them out as they get sucked in...Overall BAD, but also a GREAT realization.

Dude your Neo and you are in the matrix, if you don't like what you see, just change it. I don't know man, but when my reality or frame gets ****ed up, I center myself, because my frame is free flowing that even a glimpse of negativity can be picked up sub-consciously by people around me, I've had it where my aura was so positive that it drew them in, some nerds may call it "the force" I call it my aura

This night wasn't ME...it was the reactive me who lost all sense of who he was and his sense of reality...two of the biggest things about me that causes everything to go well. I now realize why even if you had good so called OUTER GAME skills, it will feel like your on a tight rope or it just won't work because everything tonight felt so forced and that was because I was totally reactive...

I know how you feel some nights, I don't wanna "do me" but Its what I do. It's what makes me unique
In all honesty if your sets are feeling the way it felt for me...then I can actually see why guys get AA, and have a hard time just approaching set after set because this way of interacting really feels yucky as if the interaction will end in any minute and your just TRYING to keep it there.

Distant Light REACTIVE!?
I don't understand why, but I find all my bad stuff hilarious...I'm not sure if this is my way of never getting an ego out of this, but I joke on myself in a positive way, alot now...

I open a 3set that goes NOWHERE fast, I'm getting bumped around so I leave...I open a mixed 2set and basically impose my reality BUT, I just stand there and it's funny because they stood there for 10 seconds waiting for me to "Insert Frame Here", but I walk off due to getting bumped. I'm leaving that area and go in the back area where I generally throw down keywords to remember sets and the night...*****ing and Moaning commences...

Note: I should've known something was wrong if WARLOCK could even point out that I'm not being me at all, especially me complaining about something little as getting bumped around...as he said to me "That never stopped you before." Which is 100% right...

This is interesting, you have left your frame and now you plugged yourself into the matrix, but at least you understand

In the back area, I chat the ONLY chick there and impose my reality and call this area the VIP area. She thinks me and warlock are famous, haha. I self-amuse for a bit and then make warlock chat with her. Then some guy she was waiting for comes and she leaves telling him this is the VIP area...I go back by the bar a few times and just get annoyed but I still go in sets, opened a 2set of brazilians with bad english, one of the WORKER guys who caused me to lose many sets passes through and BUMPS me...hahaha...a 3set that I opened REAL WELL blows wide open and it's ON!!! But I get bumped and I just leave annoyed.

As I head back to the back area, I jump in this mixed 6set and claw this guys girl and start joking with her, it's on...AMOG comes in saying "Are you the waiter? Who are you?" I just bring my regular attitude towards AMOGs and it's sort of cool. I did see this guy earlier about to punch some dude in the face because he tried hitting on his girl, but he doesn't really bother me...I leave because it was his girl.

I like how you, you never scared of AMOg's I woulda never bothered but this how you get better with Amog's

In the back area I open this chick from morocco, who was cool, I ask about the food there and then just make warlock chat her up...there was another chick from earlier who we also chatted too back there and warlock ended up kissing her.

Highlights of Distant Light's Reactiveness
- There was a chick from ukraine that I meet, in a 3set...it's going good, I have the claw and I'm doing my thing, BUT she can feel there is something off about me. I can actually FEEL that if I do one wrong thing, then it's totally over and I get bumped and BOOM attention gone, I leave.


- Random guy (I think he's community and seen me pull off some crazy ****) pulls me into his set saying I'm his boy, so I just run with it, I have my chick and it's going well...but his girl is leaving him and starts taking my girl, I plow but it's not the ACTUAL PLOWING...it's more of me trying to do **** to keep them there.

- Open a 2set hard and CLAW them...BUT I'm reactive so it freaks them out and causes them to blow me out, I try plowing but it just comes off try hard.

- Open a 1set passing through it was going ok...RoB is chatting the friend, I honestly don't even know why I left this one, as this was one of the only chicks who I really was attracted too...I wasn't being me that's for sure though.

- I open a set saying I like her style but I'm being totally reactive, she is wondering "WTF?" and is getting that icky feeling, I get blown out...it was then that I realized what was going on.

- I had opened some english chicks earlier in the night, didn't even remember them because in the bar when I leave, I have no collection of ever meeting them...So she pulls me in while she's with some guys and is obviously wanting me to isolate her but I don't even think about it and ended up leaving the set.

It was a huge lesson learned on my part, I now realize how SUBTLE everything is. My game is hugely based on sub-communication and very subtle stuff under what I'm doing. So once that was cut off, I'm basically like the regular community dude who thinks they can just tactic a girl to bed...which is why it feels like one mistake and your done.

Amazing, I have never seen you use lose your frame like that. However we all have our of nights were shht don't go our way. One thing, I realized about you is your like ****ing Annakin Skywalker, you do things instinctively and without thinking. This is what makes your game superior above the rest, hence when like Annakin when your frame/sub-conscious ain't on track, it shows consciously and outwardly.

This is why Obi-Won always wanted Annakin to get a hold of his emotions, because it would **** with his frame, your tinker is "getting bumped and annoyed". Sociology 101 If something is bugging you or pissing you off, you give out certain "indicators' you may not think you are doing this but you are.

Anyway good FR's like always, I love the fact how you keep it real whether you have a good night or not.

Keep doing your thang playboy

Solo

 

[Snow Plowman]

Amazing, I have never seen you use lose your frame like that. However we all have our of nights were shht don't go our way. One thing, I realized about you is your like ****ing Annakin Skywalker, you do things instinctively and without thinking. This is what makes your game superior above the rest, hence when like Annakin when your frame/sub-conscious ain't on track, it shows consciously and outwardly.

This is why Obi-Won always wanted Annakin to get a hold of his emotions, because it would **** with his frame, your tinker is "getting bumped and annoyed". Sociology 101 If something is bugging you or pissing you off, you give out certain "indicators' you may not think you are doing this but you are.

Anyway good FR's like always, I love the fact how you keep it real whether you have a good night or not.

Keep doing your thang playboy

Solo

This thread needs to be updated faster by me because I'm light years ahead of this night as you will see in my dec05 and 06 nights...Also my phone is broken, haha.

Those nights were GREAT though because it was the first time I really lost my centeredness and I knew it, or I'd just be all negative, but I never really looked at it as being reactive until after the fact...

Your right about reality and frame control...I'm BIG on that stuff...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Four: Nov 29th (Part One)

I've fully internalized the whole "Being the selector" and the whole concept of naturally screening. From when I first approach a woman now, it's obvious that I'm screening her throughout the whole interaction...Yesterday was a good example of that.

A few problems
- Still forgetting names right after it is said to me
- Still not choosing a target
- Had some trouble enjoying solo daygame...isn't fun because I don't get to just joke around with a friend. Walking around in the cold by myself is BORING and I end up not doing much.

Before the night actually started I met up with Lprince as he was shopping...I ended up opening a chick in forever 21 but she just didn't have a face that I like so I ended up ejecting after 2mins or so...majority of the time was spent with me working on my PHONE GAME...I was just chit chatting with chicks on the phone. I actually LIKED it...

Night Time: Laid-Back Edition
Lprince and I were playing around with the new VIDEO CAMERA and we expected this night to be VERY light because we thought barely anyone would be out. When we got there it was barely anything and we just sat down hanging around and Lprince was chatting with one of the waitresses.

We assume this night will be dead so I start calling up chicks to come out, since lprince already had a chick coming out...I told one chick to drop by if she feels like, I wasn't really putting my "A" effort to get her out as I want to meet new chicks.

Lprince and I joke around with this 2mixed set for a bit...BUT before entering the venue I opened a chick on the street VALUE TAKER-like and got blownout...Blowout for me equals "EGO IS PRESENT", on the elevator up I start joking with these two chicks calling the place "Club elevator" and at the sametime Lprince was testing out the camera.

So anyway, Lprince girl comes out and he hangs with her, I chatted with her for a bit as he left me with her later on in the night, she was cool...Before that I was just doing "Social Times" nothing serious. Claw in a chick from a mixed 5set and tell her I'll see her later, open a 2set and have the chick mesmerized as her friend cblocks but I don't really even try to handle it...mixed 4set who is with BF...another mixed 3set who is with BF

Night Time: Self-Amusement Edition
This is where the FUN was at, I like just hanging out having fun and joking around. I was hanging with love pirate and warlock for awhile, then other guys showed up and I'd joke around with them here and there. OVERALL FUN!!!

I start doing my thing though...
- Jump on this mixed 6set, I didn't know if the guys in there were COMMUNITY but they had more than enough girls that I wouldn't be cblocking, so I chat a french chick. I'm escalating hard and everything is cool, no clue what was said...BUT all of a sudden Indeed who winged me, his girl RAS flew on me and we were pretty close my mind was saying "MAKEOUT MAKEOUT MAKEOUT" but I just hyped up indeed to her and threw her back to Indeed...Somehow I'm talking to the friend from boston and I'm escalating on her. All I know the whole time I was NATURALLY SCREENING and then she says "Have you seen the Pickup Artist?", I just say "Yep!! Why?" She then starts saying I remind her of Simeon from the show with my energy minus his annoyances. She talks about how she likes the body builder instructor guy and I start joking about Pickup stuff saying "OMG wait wait...let me approach you" and I go and approach her MM style, which she then fixes up my approach showing me over the shoulder, body rocking, false time constraint, she even did the TRUST TEST on me, which I then lead and told her we have a connection...I'm having a blast with her and escalating the whole time. She then proceeds to tell me a story about how some guy tried using all that Pooah stuff and how she said "Nice FTC" and he was shocked...For some reason I backturn her and she focuses in on her friend's conversation and then they all leave.

Insight #56: When your naturally screening the women feels compelled to qualify herself and react to you. She is investing more and more in the interaction... (Which works out well because now I don't need to use SILENCE to make her talk anymore) it's as if she knows your the selector and that she's trying to live up to your standards and get validation from you.

- I winged martyr, I was hesistant because I never really winged him and generally I don't wing people because I some people care too much about whether they get the girl or not and I don't want anyone crying about them LOSING there girl if I do something to **** it all up, LUCKILY none of the guys are like that...This actually turned out well, it was a 2set from arizona and I'm naturally screening, I was escalating the whole time. I was asking about food and joking about riding a mountain bike from arizona to LA...Turned into us talking about extreme sports and sky diving, which I told her we should go and she was telling me about this place in Arizona that's famous for that. The whole time were holding each other and I'm going for the makeout but she gives me half-ass kisses and keeps turning her head...Come to find out she has a BF and mentioned him a few times as we were very close. She was SUPER into me, and she knew the only way that this would stop is if she somehow break her state and leave or just RUN AWAY...Luckily for her Martyr was like "Yep I'm here to get laid" hahaha...and they started cracking up I broke my bubble with my girl and she finally runs off to the bathroom...Of course she gives me those last few kino pings like many chicks do.

Insight #57: You can never get blownout for escalating even if she keeps resisting, so longs your unaffected and still have that child-like vibe to you, she will NEVER get pissed. Think of a little baby if he was to keep grabbing a chicks breast and giggling or throwing toys all over the place and just laughing...no one can really get mad because he's in his own world.

- Warlock introduced me to a 2set of aussie chicks who Indeed happen to be in, so I wing him and all I remember is me REALLY REALLY wanting to dance, so I was sitting down and we were acting like we were driving a car...we drove SUPER COOL, SUPER DRUNK, SUPER LAME, etc. I try to grab me girl and dance but she's shy about that, so I just joke with them for a bit more BUT I have to dance so eventually I cracked after 5mins and I storm off to a next set...

- I grab this 2set of italian chicks who I seen Indeed talking too earlier, I'm doing dancefloor stuff and it's ON, she just moved to brooklyn 3 months ago. This chick is skinny and has a nice little body...I likes, I see Indeed later on and ask him about this chick, whether I should keep going or not since I seen him with her earlier...he says I can go for it. I chat with her for a bit and eventually we split up and later in the night I keep reopening her but Pythag was also going for her TOO...we both don't care about the chick so we spend a bit joking about who should go for it, I'm saying he can go, he's saying I can go...But I then tell him I have another girl who's pullable so he can have this one.

Insight #58: Dancefloor stuff is nothing but self-expression to the musics rhythm...At first it was all experimental but I realize chicks really respond to it because they feel what you feel, people go in spectator mode because your expressing yourself FREELY. The room is reacting to me in a sense and I generally always have chicks opening me or very into me just off of this.

- I open this chick standing around near the dance area and I'm just doing facial expressions. Achilles happened to be talking to the friend, my girl is trying to get achilles girl to look at me. I've met this chick before but she doesn't remember me opening her and I don't even remember when I met her either. I just know I've opened her before. I chat with her for a bit but then I go silent...which doesn't really work for me especially since the amount of energy that I come in with, so NO MORE SILENCE for me, only in certain situations where I'm building sexual tension after I just tried to makeout.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Four: Nov 29th (Part Two)

Night Time: Distant Light Plunder Mode
The night was like a typical hit or miss thursday so I'm getting ansy because I can't do dancefloor with chicks, so I ended up doing it ALONE or with community guys which was a blast...But when in these conditions the AMOG in me comes out and it's time to jump in Mixed sets and HOTTIE sets and "Take what is mines".

- I tell Lprince I'm AMOGGING get some footage if you like...I ended up going ADD and opening a different mixed set and then I get back on track and jump on the ACTUAL mixed 4set that had a HOTTIE from new jersey but lives in london and has an accent. NATURALLY SCREENING caused her to really focus in me for awhile and she was really trying to make an impression, laughing at dumb**** when I said she's a new londoner and how she must take me to London...Ask about tiger tiger and Leicester square...she qualifies herself saying I should tell people I've been to Number 5 and then I sort of throw out "WOW, how's it going to look 'Hey guys I'm in mcdonalds and now I'm going to NUMBER 5!!!" She's dieing and actually finished my quote. It was ON! I also found out logistics and who the guys were, it was friends she just met through her BEST FRIEND...The best friend starts doing the cblocking which I jump on QUICKLY but she eventually says she MUST get back into there conversation as she is neglecting the...I run my "Secret Society" BS, escalating on her and saying "You know were looking there here because then we'd end up going crazy and having a blast together, I can see the naughtiness in your eyes." She is going crazy and laughing about our little conspiracy and I'm stroking her and then I tell her bye.

Insight #59: A good thing about frame control is the fact that you can SETUP FRAMES...ANYTHING you like, so you can setup basically set "Secret" frames underneath everything that no one else sees. A total conspiracy.

- I see a chick as I'm walking by and I start pointing and doing facial expressions...Go over there assertively and claw her, she says she's met me before and is surprised I forgot her, she remembers me saying that I wanted to go to IBIZA, so I do know she knew me. We do a bit of dancefloor stuff, I find out logistics and I'm trying to makeout. Five attempts but didn't get full blown kiss...she also hid from the camera as lprince was taking footage. She is dancing and trying to get me to RESPOND...Were on each other, and ended up naturally eskimo kissing, the sexual tension that was building up after each makeout attempt...haha...Impressive. I ended up mixing qualification and getting the #...she doesn't remember her # so she checks her phone and then does it. This alone took 5mins as I teased her on it...What ALMOST happened, was she was going to go to the bathroom and I was going to let her go, but my mind said "#CLOSE you might not see her again"

Insight #60: When you escalate and it's a "Not Yet" situation, just looking at her and smiling, just letting the silence create tension...Your already drawing state within, so she's going to be feeling good and will be more WILLING...I've got makeouts just off of looking at chicks like this after 30secs ago she didn't want to makeout.

- Close to the end of the night and mix is in a 3set...were recording and I say I'm going in to wing him, I grab one of the girls saying I like her style...ITS ON!!! She's going crazy and dives in my claw, it's going well and I'm Naturally screening, then I used the best friend to help her friend attract me. It's ****ing TEXTBOOK...BUT, I randomly just switch on the best friend and next thing you know I'm kissing her. Another "Secret" frame because she said we shouldn't be doing this and I've agreeing and saying were so bad. It was AMAZING, but there were other chicks watching who turned out to be her friend. I heard the friend saying "OMG she just kissed that guy, what's going on in here?" Because 3 guys had 3 of there girls attracted and so she dives outside and grabs all the chicks to get out of there...My girl obviously didn't want to leave but that's what happens when you get cblocked.

Later on mix, lrprince and I go to debrief, and get to mix's car...we opened some sets...
- Mix pointed out a street set which I opened VERY non-threatening...they stop and I'm throwing in my regular self, but I realized I'm not too attracted so I don't really push it. Mix and I were just ****ing around and eventually we let them go..

- In the train station I open this 4set saying I love one of the chicks style and the 3 friend's are in spectator mode, which I call them out on and mix then brings them in so were all just mingling, the train is coming. I tell her I'm from brooklyn and she wants to know where...I tell her and she's SHOCKED!!! She says I don't look like a person who lives there, and I joke telling her how I am a character and I surely standout...This was so ON that I didn't even realize how ON it was until mix pointed out that she was watching me the whole time. What had happened was she sat somewhere and I decided not to sit by her...She then says bye to me before I leave and surely wanted to get #closed or pulled.

Overall it was a GREAT night...we watched some of the footage and I am SHOCKED. I don't actually look as high energy as I thought I did, I actually look CHILL. Which now means when I was low-key, I was actually coming off as ZOMBIE like. This was a big lesson learned...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Seven: Dec 06 (Part One)

This was a WONDERFUL night...so my phone broke and I ended up trying to retrieve my notes, which then caused me to breakdown the stuff I was practicing to it's FINER POINTS. Like I understand it so much now that I fully believe in it 100% and realize how it all goes down...

I'm starting to recommend that you sit and think about all you greatest interactions and all the great parts of you that came out and put together from open to close. Your whole mindset and structure...then how it applies to all the female psyche and stuff...and BAM!! You have something that works for you. I have too much stuff to small chunk so I was actually just focused on going in and offering value because I know I will be escalating...I ended up adding in another part and running with it. Still field testing HARDCORE though...

Basically I now see why I will RARELY get blown out, and how I can never run out of things to say. Also figured how to make my interactions super solid and get her to stick around regardless if she wants too or not...It's alot of realizations, but again haven't fully internalized it all...SO...

To kick off the night, I hit up the place tired as ****...go in chat to a mixed 2set on elevator, chat to a 5set and then a 2set. I love the fact that I don't have to actually warmup. It's hilarious how I could be dead tired not wanting to talk and next thing I'm just chatting everyone...anyway I ended up spotting spongeworthy...

Spongworthy & Distant Light
This is one of the newer guys that I genuinely enjoy hanging with, really seems like he wants to get good. He was really a good wing and we'd always just play into whatever we were saying about each other, it was hilarious...
- After meeting him I jump in a 2set and bring him in...(Memory sucks without my phone) I forget what happens but I'm OFFERING VALUE and just escalating, I do remember them talking about getting approached twice before I came, they were talking about these french guys so I acted french and was kiss all on her cheek and neck...some how it got into a bit of naturally screening where she was saying "What do I have to do to be cool and in your crew?" I did a bit of flirtation stuff and next thing I know I'm all over her and checking out her necklace...THEN I FIND OUT SHE DISLIKES SHRIMP!!!! This was hilarious because she thought she was done, and I was cool with sponge's girl because she loves seafood...Sponge wasn't really keeping this set going, and I didn't care if I got my girl or not, so I ask him if he wants to see if we could move them which he says "Yes" so I tell them to come join us...We head out on the rooftop, take pictures and then they want to go get drinks, expecting us to follow them, BUT I already knew sponge didn't want to hang with them no more so I let them go.

Insight #60: The way I'm starting to move chicks now is by saying "Come Join us!" because I notice the frame that is going on when I do it is "You're starting to meet my bar of a cool chick, so you can roll with me".

- Sponge and I hang at the fireplace outside, there are two chicks who we start joking about...I hear sponge playfully arguing about weather so I joke saying I'm an expert meteorologist and breakdown the weather, then we like give a short story about our lives...This was REAL FUN...Sponge's job, Sponges facts, Sponge's childhood, 1st girl's "wild animals roaming the streets", 1st "girl's insider teacher secrets", 2nd girl "Father look alikes", 2nd girl's "Gerbil in the insulation for 8 weeks", DL's "Secret animal farm", DL's "Bad ass high school days", New Girl's "Creepy polish rich guy SAGA" (CLASSIC Story)...This was a real cool experience, something that I noticed spongeworthy does that I really like is he brings up like these "FUN FACTS" that are real intriguing, he really believes it's valuable and interesting, so it always goes well.

Insight #61: Anything you can teach a chick is cool NO MATTER HOW LAME OR RETARD it is, chicks are interested in it because there interested in you and so whatever comes from you is already valuable so she'll run with it and appreciate it regardless...ALSO IT"S FUN FOR YOU!!!

- I open this 2set, (Memory Lost) I know she was a teacher in high school and really wanted to help the kids, she was getting SUPER EMOTIONAL asking me what she should do to try and help them...Anyway I'm just offering value and escalating, telling her how I'd go in her class and just wall slam her...I was escalating hard and ended up kissing her...I almost lost the set a few times due to bumping around, her 3rd friend, but I just focused on offering value and everything was cool. (Can't remember ****! I NEED MY PHONE!!! hahah)

Insight #62: To move things forward SUPER FAST...you need to have a personality where she has to actually figure out how to attract you. This is very FLIRTATIOUS and gets chicks going and will find a way. I can easily #close, makeout, etc when coming from this perspective.

- I had spongworthy open the next set turns out the only set in the area was a 2set who happens to be the gf of a PU instructor, I didn't tell sponge until after...I wing him just chatting with PU gf as he talks to the other chick who just met the PU gf. I was just OFFERING VALUE as sponge did his thing...joking about being shy, joking about how me and her met, a few inside jokes created, etc. Eventually we leave...

- I throw sponge into a 4set, at first he was hesistant but I give him a few words and BOOM he's in...I went all ADD and ended up seeing Katalyst who introduced me to a friend...But I got back on track later on and chatted to two of the chicks, again just OFFERING VALUE...We looked outside pointing at her house, we did some salsa, I told her I like her style, escalated a bit...She was a bit shy at first as I come off a bit TOO HIGH VALUE now, she couldn't understand how I liked her style. I bring Katalyst in set who chats my chick, I go ADD again and chat the asian friend who is REAL cool...I always ask asian chicks if there japanese so I can talk japanese and stuff, but she has me guess saying how her name doesn't even sound japanese, of course I get it right that she's filipino...Me and filipino girl starts doing poses and she's talking about going to a danceclub and wants me to come but I can't. She's a lot of fun, and I love her energy, she ends up going to find her 5th and 6th friend to leave this place...I go to sponge and I do some callback humor because I heard him telling his girl I'm his bodyguard, so I act like the bodyguard a few times...Some MM guys come in not realizing all these chicks are together and since me and warlock didn't actually have a chick we liked we gave it to them...I later seen sponge had moved his chick to the couches and they were together, I did the bodyguard stuff for a bit, it was hilarious...

Insight #63: TALK TO YOUR WING!!! JOKE AROUND WITH YOUR WING!!! In set...chicks love it and actually enjoy just watching you and your wing interact with each other. A good example of this is back when upsetmidget winged with me and he bursts out saying "Why don't you just **** her?" as I'm texting and then proceeds to tell them about my sexually frustrated female friend who I could **** and we bring up an inside joke by saying "She has an arsenal of dildos".

Katalyst & Distant Light
It's always hilarious winging with katalyst because when he ****s up his fury builds...today he wanted to be pushed into harder sets so I roll with him and throw him in sets. There weren't any HOT table sets so I looked for the most swirly wirly dancers who are just oozing female polartiy...He goes in a few times and friend ****blocks or they wouldn't run with it and we'd be cracking up as were on opposite ends of the rooms, having a blast...
- I winged him on the dancefloor of a 2set...he goes in and the friend locks up so before she can even react to what happens, I pop out of no where and spin her hard and pull her in...haha. Katalyst did something wrong and I just hear him building the FURY!! Hahaha

- I jump into a single set dancing and he comes telling me to jump into this 5set that blew him out maybe 3 times...I'm having fun with my girl but he insists, so I tell her I'll be back and I go over there claw one chick. Then I look at the friend across from me, pointing and saying "YOU I WANT!" and claw her...she is STUNENED and I start hip bumping, I then realized I met these chicks before, haha, I actually escalated hard on the 3rd chick who pointed it out. The FUNNIEST THING though was this could've went VERY BAD and CREEPY but I had that 100% belief and assurance in whatever I was doing, so they had to buy into it.

Insight #64: Reality is all SUBJECTIVE so if you just believe in everything you do, people will have to buy into it because your not reacting or needing any external feedback to get assurance that your reality is RIGHT

- I grab this chick and start singing "I kissed a girl" in her ears, her friend takes pictures and a 3rd chick jumps in...haha...It was purely offering value and just having fun.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Seven: Dec 05 (Part Two)

Interesting Interactions
Every so often I do and see stuff that was interesting to me and keep as a mental note to find the lesson learned in it. I learn the most from interesting sets and it's usually how I end up adding stuff to my personality or certain behaviors...
- I approach this 2set, the way I approached was interesting (****ing forgot) but I do get the idea to befriend the friend...Mix wings me, but is actually chatting the target so I just chill with the friend. The friend is COOL, not my type of girl but COOL. She's from LA and we were talking about acting and just vibing. I bring warlock in who really likes her.

- I approached this chick 3 times and got 3 different results...first time it went well but I guess I ejected, second time she gave a fake smile and kept dancing with her friend, third time she was walking by and I just grabbed her and she then tells me I met her before, I didn't remember and then she does some callback humor.

- I approached this 2set which started off forced...I could feel it so I reminded myself to stick to the gameplan and BOOM I start Offering Value and my chick opens up and is loving it all of a sudden. I actually tell her I like her now because at first she was boring but now she's fun. I'm escalating hard and kiss her but I don't think I should've done that infront of the friend. Majority of the time I'm having her find out how to get me attracted to her...it finishes when I try to bounce and realize there waiting for there friends because there with a bachelorrette group.

- The 2set who I would later on talk to her friends on the dancefloor, appears and I just go on her QUICKLY forget with what but it was very interesting...Quickly Offering Value and next thing I know I'm making her figure out how to attract me and boom were doing eskimo kisses. I introduce her to warlock and then I stop doing much because I go ADD...

- ...A chick by the bathroom VERY Stylish and girle...I strike a pose and she does the same and I go right up to her and basically I should've madeout with her but instead she starts doing some very sexual dances to try and get me going. She is a milf who still has it...but it's her turn for the bathroom so it doesn't go nowhere.

High Value Comes FIRST!!!
I'm worked on myself SO MUCH...that I now fully realize I come off super high value, which is why I'm actually glad 70% of the things I do is purely qualification based. Once you're high value in her eyes she will be receptive and open to escalation and a connection. You don't have to "DO" anything. Something I realize is when I kino ping (Sequeeze and chicks hand when holding hands) they always give me like double sequeezes and ****...total secret society, conspiracy like ****...haha...
- I open this norwegian chick who happens to be with two other chicks that mix was talking too...this chick has a PRETTY FACE, ok body. Again I forget what happens but I opened HARD, because 5secs later I'm 5inches away from her face...again kiss...talk about norway and just offering value. Friend's end up pulling her away.

- Open a chick from like missouri telling her I like her style, I'm just escalating as she is qualifying her self. She has to get her drink, and I don't feel like waiting around so I leave...

- mixed 3set of 2 guys and 1 girl...I claw the girl saying I liked her style and she is loving it but it's obvious one of these guys are the BFs, so I engage them and the beauty of how I do things, they couldn't even tell what was going on so they were super cool to me. It turns out there were actually leaving. So I say goodbye and claw the gf again...it all looked like I was just "fun man"

- I open this 3set of MILFS, there STUNNED, I mean imagine three 7 year old girls huddling to hear a cool story...they were waiting to see what I'd do next and BOOM...I'm offering value, come to find out there married chicks but they still want to run with this...I SKY ROCKET MY VALUE BY MISTAKE, because they ask me where I'd be if I wasn't here, I tell them a place and they ask why, I say "because there known for having eastern european models which I'm highly attracted too...This spawned, "OMG I can really see you with chicks like that...you look like a guy who are with women like that...So you came up to use because were the last few chicks here for the night, we see," I basically just keep OFFERING VALUE...Me and my girl do a improv of being aged lovers, what my life is like, food, etc...I then chill and overhere the friend saying "I asked her if she'd ever cheat on her husband and she said no, so I said good...but she had a cutie, just like you have a cutie right now"

Distant Light's Ideal "Lifestyle"
For those who don't know, I'm working on myself HARDCORE until I actually hit 21 work on building my lifestyle. So I'm experimenting and playing with lots of **** for the next YEAR and a half. But more and more I see a little experience that looks exactly how I see my life later on down the road...

Here I am walking and this chick is just sitting there, so I open "OMG why are you so bored...You should see yourself..." I do an impression and I go to sit. She says she wasn't bored, find out she's leaving NY tomorrow afternoon and how her friends are on the dancefloor dancing. I also introduce myself...

OFFERING VALUE!!! Were talking about how I'm a superhero who saves women, joking about her broken car in germany, my broken phone, flying a helicopter and how it wouldn't work because we'd be all on each other, talking about food, talking about how she probably took the tour bus in NY, how she's cheating on me with her husband, talking about her type of music, her finding out I go to acting school and thinking this whole thing was an act, telling her I was shy and it took alot of courage to approach her.

Note: It's funny how when I joke saying I'm shy, they die laughing because they just look at my hair and know that a shy guy would never have there hair like that.

FLIRTATION & ESCALATION!!...I'm joking around saying she set me up because she played bored knowing I'd come talk to her and certain things she says that I like, I'd start going crazy and be all over her, throw in some push/pull, establishing boundaries, blaming her for attracting me and how if she meets certain things she'll end up attracting me...What ends up happening is me ALL OVER her...I'm holding her hands, rubbing her legs, embracing her, cupping her ass as we chat...

I spot spongeworthy who says "Are you being nice to my friend?" It's hilarious because I had told her I was actually going to my friends but she ended up attracting me to stay here...then a chick starts saying "I know you!! I think I know you!!", then I start remembering and were going crazy trying to remember...BOOM it's the girl who ****blocked adonis when him, summa and I was in a set and basically ****block wanted me to **** adonis's girl but it was his ideal girl and he refused to switch...I'm so happy to see her because I wanted to #close her first time we met because she's super cool, but my phone is broke. She hangs with us but they tell us we need to get up because the table is reserved...This part is a blur because I think I went ADD and went to go wing someone but then I ended up going back to ****block and my girl who ended up leaving because ****block said she "scared her"...

So I hang with ****block who introduces me to her sister, gay friend, and 2 other friends...she tells me about that day and was like "Yep I remember it, you were suppose to **** my friend because she really liked you...But you kept making adonis talk to her...she's coming back in a few months so I'm bringing her here to meet you" She loved that summa ****ed her other friend, and then her and her sister started telling me about how incredible there friend is...some call back humor, chatting with ****blocks sister, and then I feel the need to dance so I eventually leave.

Now another part that was sort of a blur and I was probably in ADD mode, as I'm with ****block and her friends...a chick opens me saying "Oi" she's with some guy, I get up and pull her in close, then at the same time the original chick comes and introduces me to her friend...I'm assuming I did a **** move and just blew them off after saying hi, because I don't remember saying anything after nor even a thought about moving around with them.

I see them later on and she's using lots of call back humor, is dancing a bit and having fun. I'm joking around saying I can't go to germany because we'd be in trouble and have her telling me how she'd sneak me into germany, she says I need to say I'm swedish...haha...I then say some **** about how it sucks that she's leaving tomorrow because we could've had so many great adventures and how I'm actually leaving now, same time I'm sequeeze her ass HARD!! she loves the whole thing because she's married, her friend is right there and she can't see what just happened...haha...

OVERALL lots of stuff learned and it was the first time EVER that I had a gameplan that I was following...it makes me able to just self-express but not fall off track of going from open to close...Also liked the fact that I could just see a chick, have fun, then hanging with chicks I knew while getting approached by random chicks and able to go and have a blast and come back to the group.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Eight: Dec 06 (Part One)

This is the second time out after breaking my whole way of being and gameplan down to the ****ing psyche of it all. It really makes me believe in what I'm doing because I now know why I did it back in the situations that I did do it. I'm a HUGE believer now, that...
- I can always get into a set, and CAN'T get blownout instantly
- I can NEVER run out of things to say
- I know exactly how everything works as far as them becoming into me and being able to move it forward

This enabled me to go CRAZY!!! My phone is broken so I'm not even thinking about #closing, I'm solely focused on just testing out the gameplan and following it...The results...I SAW WHAT MY LIFESTYLE WILL BE LIKE WHEN I HIT 21.

In a quick nut shell...EVERY CHICK either knew me or wanted to know me, I got opened and reopened SO many times, chicks wanting to take pics, cool guys wanting to hang with me, I could've hung out at atleast 4 different tables of groups because the loved me...and best of all every mixed set I went into had no problem giving me there girls.

The ironic thing is...I had a HEADACHE...no phone to take notes so most of it was a HUGE blur since everything around me was happening so fast.

Kick-Off The Night
Since my phone was broken I had to meet adonis at a specific part at a specific time...I chat to some chick in the meantime just joking around about toronto, new york, buried treasure, how I manage to get 1 gold coin down there, and snow...Adonis shows up and I leave her.

We go right past the line at the night venue but waiting for the elevator because it's PACKED down there...basically I just open this mixed 5set, BOOM, it's opened and they have a chick who's been to NY for the first time...Then BOOM another 5set who are LOUD and CRAZY, find out one of the chicks is from The Congo, were vibing...Then BOOM this mixed 3set of 2 guys and 1 girl were joking around...Then in the elevator I'm with the LOUD 5set and there are 2 other girls from Cali who I merge with the 5set...CHAOS already.

I have such a big smile on my face because of how packed it is and since this is my second night doing stuff and I can't be STOPPED. This whole place is my playground and for my taking...I ALREADY KNOW..I ALREADY KNOW I CAN GO AND TAKE WHATEVER I WANT...Meet back up with Adonis, he's with Warlock...I go CRAZY again...

Grab this chick and cut space INSTANTLY, basically I can makeout right then and there but I purposely hold back to **** with her a bit, we chat for about 5mins...Two chicks are eyeing me and I give them the little rascal wave and they talk about my hair...ADD in me kicks in and I switch sets, next thing I know I'm making it with one of the two girls, then it gets a bit crazy as the friend is doing a gameplan as to whether or not she's ****ing me tonight...she comes back and I hear warlock saying wall slam, so for the hell of it I do it...The thing that was hilarious was that the 2nd time we made out (We madeout 3 times) people passing by were cheering and I look at them saying "Yea it's NY and Toronto connection"...Some guys who are with them pulls her away, I'm glad because I wanted to leave that...I really have been trying to stop making out with all these chicks, especially now since I have the chance to get MANY makeouts.

I tell warlock lets leave before she comes back and as we walk to the bar I see a chick in a mixed set with a feather boa...First time in my life seeing one so I jump in set and Claw her and put the boa around me too, her friend pulls out another accessory and I double claw...Another friend is watching and pulls out the camera snapping pictures. I tell her I'll be back, and I setup some sort of callback humor.

Catch up with warlock and adonis who are in set, I say "Hi" but then I hear a song I like and I'm off to find a chick...BOOM I'm in a 6 mixed set of 5 guys and 1 girl. This chick loves me and then one of the guys I say what's up too...he gives me a free drink and says I seem like a cool guy, we chat for a few mins and then I'm off drinking...BAD MOVE!!! HEADACHE ENSUES!!!

Adonis tells me that Brad and Ryan was doing a bootcamp...I realize he's right because two random guys who look pretty cool says Hey to me and then adonis points out who brad is...I was in set with this english chick, again another set where I could've madeout but I purposely don't do it, and at the sametime I'm saying "Hi" to random chicks...She has a friend and I hang with her for maybe 10mins, Ryan passes by so I say what's up and I introduce him to my chick who he then chats with for awhile and then leaves...I forgot how I stop talking to these chicks...

This is where my memory starts going out because everything was going so fast...

Getting Opened and Reopened...
Honestly I don't know how many girls kept opening me and reopening me...people started wondering who the hell I was because I kept hearing callback humor and random people just coming up to me. I honestly couldn't stay in set because there were just TOO MANY choices...
- There was one girl who I opened in a 2set who everytime she sees me we'd pose and touch each others vest...we were part of the vest crew...

- Another chick who also had a vest I brought into the vest crew, who then made up that were international strippers, so everytime we'd see each other we'd do a big hug

- Belgium chick I met in like a mixed 5set...Our rule was that anytime we see each other we'd have to say "NY and Belgium unite" and then hi-five and hug.

- 4set of 3 guys and 1 chick who I opened...everytime she saw me she'd tap me and jump into my arms, the guys were TOTALLY cool with me.

- A chick that I went crazy with on the dancefloor, everytime she saw me she was SUPER HAPPY...

- A chick I met in a mixed 7set kept opening everytime she saw me

- Escort chick that I met a long time ago, I always playing around like I need her and I'm super desperate, she's always slapping my ass and ****ing around with me...

- Black chick with a FAT ASS...back in the day this would've been my IDEAL CHICK, she slaps my ass as I walk by and I just start messing with her for a bit...

- Congo chick and her crew reopens me and she takes pictures with me, were going crazy

- Two girls I brought into what I call "The regular" crew...kept opening and reopening me. It's hilarious because the guys who were all over them would just stand there.

- Some chick who had a BF right around the corner kept opening me when she was by herself...hahaha...

- Two chicks sitting down opens me up with there stare and points out that they see me all over the place chatting to chicks...I chat with them for awhile

- Unknown amount of chicks just walking up to me saying "Hi"

Insight #65: This was all based off what I call "Working the Venue" where in reality I would be attempting to #close each chick that I liked. Basically I go in Offering Value and moving it forward atleast to the #.

Overall It was CRAZY...I was in no situation to even think about staying in one set, I ended up going all over the place. Not one chick even attempted to blow me out, even this one chick who I came in WAY TOO HARD on she got so shook that she couldn't even interact she had to sit and just watch me.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Day Twenty-Eight: Dec 06 (Part Two)

Living The Lifestyle
With all the stuff that was happening, it really looked exactly how I always imagined my life ONCE I'm finished doing all this MAJOR experimenting...HAVING FUN, getting #s, and at the end of the night pulling a girl that I really find attractive. As you may know the reason I live is for LIFE EXPERIENCES and I'm surely experiencing life...I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL I'M 21!!!!

Besides getting opened and reopened there were moments and people who I REALLY liked as a person and wouldn't have mind adding to my social circle...Other stuff is just crazy situations that ends up becoming an adventure for me. At the end of the day I want to be having a big smile on my face because of what I experienced...
- I opened these two chicks and started singing "I kissed a girl", my target was from las vegas, both of them started kissing right in front of me while I have a double claw on them. Would've done a 3way makeout but wasn't feeling the friend and I'm DONE making out with every chick...hahaha...

- The guy who gave me a free drink earlier in the night...all his female friends he introduced me too, we were having a blast joking around and just overall hanging with his group...This made me realize that even if I was ever ALONE I'd be in groups having a blast with them. The guy was cool with me taking any of the girls.

- One of the girl's that knows "The Guy" I did a bit of dancefloor with her and she was into me, so I bring her too meet my friends and then leaving her there as I go crazy some more...Turns out I find Kydd, and Pythag with the English chicks I met from earlier, I leave her there as I chat with the English chicks a bit more, do some picture taking with them and then leave...Kydd ends up kissing the girl that I had brought... (It's funny because it's from him that I started taking the whole merging sets and rolling with chicks from, so I ALWAYS have no problem introducing him to chicks)

- Dancy, Dancy chick...She was with a mixed 5set of three guys and two girls, basically I did some serious dancefloor stuff with her. I LIKED HER a lot, very cool chick, she doesn't live in NY though, we ended up kissing each other goodbye at the end of it but the whole dancing and then watching this pro dancer do his thing, getting her friend to get up and start going crazy with us. We caused a party right there and had every table around us just spectating...

- The 3set that Adonis was in that had the gay guy, and two girls...VERY COOL PEOPLE. The first gay guy I ever met that was COOL as ****, the guys sense of humor was insane, the friend was SUPER positive and my girl was CRAZY in a good way...haha...

- Random chicks wanted to take pictures with me...while I was doing hardcore dancefloor stuff, people were just snapping pictures, this one group of girls who I was singing "I kissed a girl" too, they randomly bust out the camera and all these chicks just jumped in the camera...hahaha...

- Random mixed 2set, chick bolts over and jumps on me and the guy is totally cool with it, me and her are going crazy and she's saying how she loves me. Then I start chatting with the guy for a bit. This was SO
unexpected and fun.

- This 7mixed set at a table made a mistake bouncing from one hot chick to a not so hot one, who ended up doing crazy dancefloor stuff to me and ALL her friends were hot...later in the night she said I should've hung with them all night because her friends loved me and wanted to hang with me...

Interest Interactions
Most of this FR wasn't about the actually learning but to just illustrate the example of how I want my life to be like. This whole skill of being able to get women should BLEND into my lifestyle. But there were some interesting interactions that I'll point out...
- The 3set adonis was in, that had the two girls and the gay guy...The girl INSTANTLY clawed me and says I'm the first sane person she's met. I tried making out with her but that was a big mistake doing it infront of her friend's as she says, she's not that easy so I get a half-assed kiss. So were just holding each other as we feel each other up discreetly...Until I tell her a story about working with that porn director and she thinks I'm a porn star all of a sudden, Pythag had met her before so I sort of left eventually...

- I was telling warlock how I don't see my type tonight, but he points out TWO chicks...**** YEA!!! I didn't do it at that moment though because I know that area I'd lose the set instantly due to all the movement...My dumbass see's them later on and ended up opening THERE!!! There my type and from TURKEY!!!...HOT!!! I claw one in and I'm on her hard, joking around but then the guy tells us we can't stand around here and it all just crumbles!!! I don't see them anymore and don't see chicks that HOT for the rest of the night...

- There was a 3set of some very stylish chicks...I see the one who stands out more and CLAW HIM!!!??? The dude says he's from venezuela in his regular voice which still sounds feminine but it turns out it was a GUY. I'm just like "I see" and I'm gone, shocked!!!

- There was a bolivan chick that I opened she was on me HARDCORE and I liked her...my 2nd ideal type "Built Like a Ford Truck" look aka "built for ****ing". Basically were all over each other but tells me she's with her Mother and Grandmother...I can't do all this infront of them, I tell her it sucks because we'd be acting so crazy having our adventures, and I leave.

Next week I'm playing around with two more areas of this whole gameplan...I'm REALLY REALLY loving this whole thing and actually glad my phone broke, while I do need a knew phone, I'm not even really worried about #closing these chicks.