SMV and age difference

[Mike32ct]

My take: an older man who has good skin, hairline, health/fitness, style, etc with wealth+wisdom+charm will always have a higher SMV than a younger man…

Yes, but look at the above extensive list of items an older guy needs just to compensate for his age.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Yes, but look at the above extensive list of items an older guy needs just to compensate for his age.

When you first enter corporate America/whichever portion of the globe you live in as a young person, there are things you have to do to counter the charge "You just don't have enough experience" + Combat the perception that you're another airhead who gets all his intel from TV and BuzzFeed op-eds

This is called "life", regardless of what age you are

 

[Jor-El]

It can be done, my last lay was nearly 20 years younger,however,im slim muscular,head of hair,no belly. Unprompted,she remarked how fit I was for my age,compared to others she knows same age. "you really look after yourself" was the phrase. Ok,a "case study" of 1,proves nothing,but if you are prepared to put the work into the basics,grooming,fashion,etc,it can be done,iv done it a few times. You reap what you sow

 

[zekko]

Like I said here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/wing-cats-and-wing-dogs-work-better-than-wing-men.278968/

It's not every cat that is chill enough to hang around your shoulder out in public.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It's not every cat that is chill enough to hang around your shoulder out in public.

Plus women always want to come close and pet him.

 

[Clockwerk50]

It's not every cat that is chill enough to hang around your shoulder out in public.

I heard cats get fleas and a lot of people are allergic to them.

 

[DJ Novice]

Some women are genuinely attracted to older men. It’s just a case of finding them.

My current girlfriend married a guy at 18 when he was 28 (20 year marriage plus only one other 3 month relationship post divorce in her life besides me, a rarity these days). She has no interest whatsoever in guys younger than her despite looks, wealth etc. She’s just wired that way, I think in part because she is not close to her father and probably is attracted to father figures.

I asked her what celebrities she was attracted to and she named Richard Gere. She also named Lionel Messi but this was only because he met his wife when they were very young (she has a very romantic view of love and relationships, claims she will look after me when I am old and sick and will stick by me no matter what even if I lose my job). She was raised traditionally (she’s Vietnamese).

Conversely she has an attractive girlfriend a few years younger who is dating a guy 20 years older than her. The guy pays for her rent, spoils her etc. but she has no intention of living with him or getting married to him and actively solicits numbers from younger guys (as told by her to my girlfriend, the guy is clueless of course).

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Some women are genuinely attracted to older men. It’s just a case of finding them.

In most cases, they will find you. And you'll find out quick enough if they're looking for a mature man or a sugar daddy.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Yes, but look at the above extensive list of items an older guy needs just to compensate for his age.

What, basic skincare, haircare, and health/fitness? Yeah, I suppose for most men this is too daunting a task (or they think it's "beneath them"), so it's no wonder the older men who DO put the very minimal effort into these things will stand out among the other men their age.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I heard cats get fleas and a lot of people are allergic to them.

Well, I'm allergic to a lot of people and my circus needs more fleas anyway, so that all works out great.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Well, I'm allergic to a lot of people and my circus needs more fleas anyway, so that all works out great.

Yuck. Gross.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Yuck. Gross.

 

[darksprezzatura]

My options skyrocketed in number now when I’m early 30s. Yet, not a lot of 19 year olds approaching me like they used to in college anymore.

 

[itouchyou]

I say this every time the age topic comes up.

The only thing that matters is how you look for your age. If you aged well, your age is irrelevant.

On the flip side if you aged poorly, it is extremely relevant.

Not only that but damn near every male celebrity that women lust over is somewhere in their mid 30s.