SMV and age difference

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I’m 56 and currently gave an Asian girlfriend about 10 years younger than me but she prefers older guys. I’ve found Asian women often prefer much older guys to date. You have to weed out the gold diggers though.

There will be outliers who by a combination of wealth, status, looks, physique, game etc. will have success with dating much younger women as they age but even they will hit their SMV peak. If you think the average guy can still regularly pull 20 and 30 year olds at 60 then you are living in fantasy land.

Your energy and testosterone levels will decline as you age. Sleep becomes more appealing than hitting bars at 2am in the morning. Once you bust your nut you may not feel like doing so again for quite a few days or longer. You can’t get as hard or last as long as you used to. All the effort you have to put in to bed a new girl becomes less and less appealing especially when you intuitively know from past experience that the excitement of new p*ssy will wear off quickly.

At some point you have to cash in your hand. Whether that’s an LTR if you find someone who is genuinely into you, accepting being single most of the time and dating around your own age (probably more so for companionship as you age) or going the pay for play route if you want to keep sleeping with much younger women, the choice is yours. If you think you can emulate Leonardo Di Caprio into your 60s and beyond then good luck to you.
 

sangheilios

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I’m 56 and currently gave an Asian girlfriend about 10 years younger than me but she prefers older guys. I’ve found Asian women often prefer much older guys to date. You have to weed out the gold diggers though.

There will be outliers who by a combination of wealth, status, looks, physique, game etc. will have success with dating much younger women as they age but even they will hit their SMV peak. If you think the average guy can still regularly pull 20 and 30 year olds at 60 then you are living in fantasy land.

Your energy and testosterone levels will decline as you age. Sleep becomes more appealing than hitting bars at 2am in the morning. Once you bust your nut you may not feel like doing so again for quite a few days or longer. You can’t get as hard or last as long as you used to. All the effort you have to put in to bed a new girl becomes less and less appealing especially when you intuitively know from past experience that the excitement of new p*ssy will wear off quickly.

At some point you have to cash in your hand. Whether that’s an LTR if you find someone who is genuinely into you, accepting being single most of the time and dating around your own age (probably more so for companionship as you age) or going the pay for play route if you want to keep sleeping with much younger women, the choice is yours. If you think you can emulate Leonardo Di Caprio into your 60s and beyond then good luck to you.
The thing is, a 10 year age gap of 56 vs. 46 is nothing remotely close to say a 30 year old man with a 20 year old. With the relationship you are in, both of you are more or less in similar phases of your life, you are both middle aged and well past the partying stages of your life and very likely focused on your careers.

I agree with everything else you wrote though. I'm still pretty young, but the idea of chasing women and hitting up bars never really did much for me, I can think of so many other things I'd rather do with my time. My biggest priorities right now are my health, sleeping well, eating well and staying in fantastic shape. However, I also prioritize my wealth/wealth building and also my hobbies, traveling and honestly the peace and quiet of enjoying my own company and free time. Chasing crazy women is detrimental to all of these things lol.
 
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