SMV and age difference

[characternote]

@characternote did not elaborate on the context of how he met that much younger woman. Most guys at some point have done something a bit sketchy in order to have sex lol, don't kid yourself. Stuff like pressuring a girl to have sex when she doesn't want to, leading women on, telling them what they want to hear, etc.

I'm not saying what he did is right or wrong, but so long as he wasn't doing anything illegal, not sure where he lives, there really is no harm in it. The woman found him attractive and was eager to bang, no reason for him to have potentially shot himself in the foot because he didn't correct her about his true age.

age of consent is 16 where i live. We don't have any age gap laws at all. I could be 120 and sleep with 16 year old girls if I could afford it! lol
I actually met her at a club (you need to be 18 to club here) but she managed to basically sneak in. No bouncers on the door as it was a Sunday night and quiet.
When it comes to lying to girls, it's Each to their own as far as i'm concerned.
We all have our own morals when it comes to that stuff haha. I do it a fair bit about all kinds of stuff (If I think the truth will ruin the lay)

if you're not her type, 'persuing your passions' will NOT have the side effect of her 'throwing herself at you' lol

 

[BaronOfHair]

A guy that is 35+ is not going to be pulling women under the age of 25 readily

I won't try to persuade anyone that their "Woe is me mindset" shapes their behavior, which in turn renders them unattractive. Suffice to say, I'm 35+ myself, and ALL the women I snag are a decade or slightly more younger than myself, and there are many guys here at SS much older than me who do likewise

 

[sangheilios]

I won't try to persuade anyone that their "Woe is me mindset" shapes their behavior, which in turn renders them unattractive. Suffice to say, I'm 35+ myself, and ALL the women I snag are a decade or slightly more younger than myself, and there are many guys here at SS much older than me who do likewise

I didn't say you couldn't pull younger, I specifically said that a guy that is 35+ is not going to be readily landing women that are UNDER the age of 25. A guy that is 38 pulling a 28 year old or a 45 year old dating a 32 year old is not that ridiculous. However, a guy that is 35-40 pulling something as young as 21 or 22 for instance is ATYPICAL and not the norm at all.

As for the other posters, have you ever stopped to consider that they are just trolling?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Attracting younger women as an older man requires uncommon charm.

 

[characternote]

As for the other posters, have you ever stopped to consider that they are just trolling?

 

[SW15]

Perhaps your general pattern you had previously noted (having a hard time pulling broads 10+ years younger than you) is slowly eroding (which, in your case, is awesome...seeing as you prefer younger)

No one is specifically arguing that it is impossible to date as you get older, the whole god damn thread is about your SMV as you get older, big age gaps, etc. A guy that is 35+ is not going to be pulling women under the age of 25 readily. This can and does happen, but it's not the norm for the overwhelming majority of men in this age bracket and very atypical.

Seriously, a lot of delusional middle aged men on here living in some fantasy land that become defensive whenever these ideas are challenged.

I try to remove myself from analyses as much as I can. The general man has difficulty seducing 10+hi years younger. There are enough men who achieve it but plenty of men fail to achieve it despite their desire to do so.

@sangheilios said essentially the same thing that I did.

 

[sangheilios]

@characternote

I'd like to take @AmsterdamAssassin to college bars near places like ASU or LSU, where they have a bunch of hot blonde sorority girls. I'm betting he could pull kittens left and right lol.

Oooooppppppps...........did I just say that?!?!?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I'd like to take @AmsterdamAssassin to college bars near places like ASU or LSU, where they have a bunch of hot blonde sorority girls. I'm betting he could pull kittens left and right lol.

I prefer students from the University of Amsterdam.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I didn't say you couldn't pull younger, I specifically said that a guy that is 35+ is not going to be readily landing women that are UNDER the age of 25. A guy that is 38 pulling a 28 year old or a 45 year old dating a 32 year old is not that ridiculous. However, a guy that is 35-40 pulling something as young as 21 or 22 for instance is ATYPICAL and not the norm at all.

As for the other posters, have you ever stopped to consider that they are just trolling?

Didn't you also spend an entire thread insisting that formal eduaction(provided one majors in a field that's in demand, interns while at uni, etc etc)WILL NOT get a man further a long in life monetarily, even after Pierce, BeExcellent, and several others posted links to hard data which demonstrated the exact opposite?

In the interest of not dragging this out any further, I'll grant you 1/1000th of a point, Sangh: No, not EVERY young woman will be receptive to a man significantly older than herself, just as not EVERYONE is receptive to the work of a stand-up comic who works both very blue and extremely macabre. All available evidence dictates that most young women actually PREFER older guys though https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/older-men-younger-women/ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a38870/why-do-we-like-older-guys/

 

[Manure Spherian]

Seriously, a lot of delusional middle aged men on here living in some fantasy land that become defensive whenever these ideas are challenged.

Also mentioning the most desirable men in the world. A typical RP talking point: “Heehee, Genghis Khan, King Louie the Great, Clooney, DiCaprio. All da powerful old greezers in history got all da honies.”

I remember the RP madman and motor mouth Michael Sartain talking about what a sexy fella he has become in his 40’s. Too bad the plastic-and-silicone-infused, alpha-widowed, and brain-rotted (consequence of repeated alpha-widowing) women he and the RP crowd go with require slavish self-improvement while the studs they screwed at fifteen (or younger) got first dibs decades ago just by existing. Haha!

 

[Clockwerk50]

Also mentioning the most desirable men in the world. A typical RP talking point: “Heehee, Genghis Khan, King Louie the Great, Clooney, DiCaprio. All da powerful old greezers in history got all da honies.”

I remember the RP madman and motor mouth Michael Sartain talking about what a sexy fella he has become in his 40’s. Too bad the plastic-and-silicone-infused, alpha-widowed, and brain-rotted (consequence of repeated alpha-widowing) women he and the RP crowd go with require slavish self-improvement while the studs they screwed at fifteen (or younger) got first dibs decades ago just by existing. Haha!

Some of us need to accept the fact that most women with an HB greater than 7 were being pursued and banged by men who hadn't put in much effort, who had little more than good genetics and some social clout. These men were "there with her" while we were off playing Final Fantasy or whatever.

It is what it is.

 

[GoodMan32]

I don't know, I personally know 6 couples off the top of my head that have an 8 to 20 year age difference. However, it's usually guys who are married a second time

I'm probably biased because I personally prefer an older woman (I get that most men want a woman closer in age to him. I just think a wife 8 years younger is a bit much. As far as I know, it's his 1st marriage by the way)

And I suppose there's another thing that doesn't help the "strange" factor regarding the 34/26 marriage at my work: They hid their relationship for ages. Then, right before getting married, he mysteriously transferred to a different department. When the broad ended up changing her last name to his, we all figured out what was going on.

The deception they carried out isn't cool.

 

[Clockwerk50]

It's like one of my good friends, he is 40-41yo, grey beard, he looks like 40. He always challenges me about women, he never cold approached a girl in his life, only relies on OLD with very little success, he got laid a lot but always with the botton in terms of girls: trash single mothers, tattooed expired bartenders, gringos diggers in cuba, etc.

I live in a university dormitory in Prague (Im not Czech), there is a student pub downstairs filled with 20-21 czechs and slovaks, a lot of cute girls, all sitting in groups with guys their age, speaking czech. Yet he thinks he could go there and pull girls, like it's nothing. He knows Im good with women but he doesnt understand why I dont pull any and I keep telling him that he would try to talk to one she would reject him so hard, then the bouncer would tell him to stop harrassing customers.

The reason why I dont pull at that pub? I dont try because I know its not gonna work, its called social intelligence, I would just embarrass myself. They are 20, czech, in group, Im 38 not czech.

Are Dating Apps really that bad right now

Because it is all a fugazi at the end of the day. The woman is either attracted to you initially and you don't screw up, you find a ***** that doesn't give AF, or you find a girl in a bad emotional state. I'm sorry you have to live in such a disappointing place.

www.sosuave.net

We are still waiting for Mr. Amsterdam's receipts. Apparently, he’s capable of performing acrobatic, bondage-style Kama Sutra positions while pulling a bunch of numbers in a college bar full of 19-20 year olds, all while walking with a cane.

 

[BeExcellent]

Yeah well his cat is very VERY cool. I'm sure that cat is honestly the best wing ever. Seriously.

I have my old friend who I've known 35 years who regularly can pull girls much younger. He is wicked smart, has charm that would spellbind anyone (he literally charmed his way to great success with no college degree in Las Vegas), is Mensa intelligent, funny, and has the most IDGAF attitude you've ever seen but he weilds that attitude with maturity, kindness and amused mastery. He is incredibly socially calibrated.

And he is 56 & has no problem attracting women in their 20s. He hasn't dated anyone within 20 years of his age in over a decade.

And he is only 5'8" and has a belly. Nice face & smile, legs like a Greek statue, but belly & short. He has great hair and facial asthetics but it is his wit, charm and personality that stands out.

He most certainly is an outlier.

 

[BaronOfHair]

This conversation goes to a larger, more recurrent question: "If I'm not getting the women I want, should I change in some way?". And the answer remains no less obvious:
"Yes!!! If you're not achieving your goals in life, it behooves you to notice whatever traits are hindering you from achieving them, then either modify or eliminate those traits. We don't hesitate to vary up our act when we want to progress in our careers, so it's f-cking bizarre that we're resistant to doing likewise when it comes to dating and mating"

As pertains to this conversation: Attracting younger women when you're out of your 20s can be simply a matter of not dressing like a teen anymore + Speaking in Plain Language, instead of jargon, buzzwords, and slang. Simple as this may sound, walk out of your front door, and notice how many guys look like low-rent imitations of Logan Paul, and sound like an Alt-Right adjacent version of the dunderheads J. Carville tears a new anus here

Each time they attempt to formulate a sentence

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

The reason why I dont pull at that pub? I dont try because I know its not gonna work, its called social intelligence, I would just embarrass myself. They are 20, czech, in group, Im 38 not czech.

Did you check out Club Cross?

We are still waiting for Mr. Amsterdam's receipts.

You can wait for a long time.

 

[sangheilios]

Didn't you also spend an entire thread insisting that formal eduaction(provided one majors in a field that's in demand, interns while at uni, etc etc)WILL NOT get a man further a long in life monetarily, even after Pierce, BeExcellent, and several others posted links to hard data which demonstrated the exact opposite?

In the interest of not dragging this out any further, I'll grant you 1/1000th of a point, Sangh: No, not EVERY young woman will be receptive to a man significantly older than herself, just as not EVERYONE is receptive to the work of a stand-up comic who works both very blue and extremely macabre. All available evidence dictates that most young women actually PREFER older guys though https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/older-men-younger-women/ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a38870/why-do-we-like-older-guys/

No, I made a thread stating that income/money does not make a difference in regards to dating life unless you are exceptionally well off OR willing to spend like you are. The overwhelming majority of men earn incomes that are somewhat comparable, making 70k vs 50k vs 100k is not going to result in a massive difference here. I also stated that only a tiny number of people are making very high incomes OR have very high wealth, as in well into 6 figure territory, who are relatively young. The big exceptions are those living in very high cost of living areas, such as NYC or LA, where an income of 200k isn't going to go that far. I also said that being under the age of 35-40, let alone in your 20s, AND not living in a high cost of living area making this money is incredibly rare. Even those with degrees in nuclear engineering aren't pulling this, you are basically looking at high level people in business and people in advanced healthcare, which literally takes YEARS to get to.

Those 2 posters you mentioned are huge trolls btw lol.

You don't get it. No one is saying that women don't like older men, but it's also very unusual for women to go for men that are close to a decade older than they are, let alone 15 years or more. That's been the whole point of this thread, you just don't seem to understand that.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I'm sure that cat is honestly the best wing ever

Like I said here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/wing-cats-and-wing-dogs-work-better-than-wing-men.278968/

 

[Clockwerk50]

Did you check out Club Cross?


You can wait for a long time.

@CornbreadFed called you out and by ignoring him you basically said that you have none smh

 

[BaronOfHair]

You don't get it

You're trying to convince yourself, not me. Same way a d-ckless loon on staff at Yale starts invoking buzzword heavy catechisms like "You don't understand Restorative action", in their pathetically feeble attempts to justify being offended by the Cliff Booth/ Bruce Lee duel, in Once Upon A Time In Hollywood