What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Hey man.
Don't worry man, our bet is still on and you're gonna loose!Originally posted by Julian
in the end all that matters is putting that advice to use. if you dont apply the program then you arent gaining anything. Have you been applying it or are you one of those lazy bums who buys it but doesnt do anything?
Jw
Originally posted by thebsharp
Did you read the book?
This is all wonderful stuff. I am going to try a little experiment. I too, have modified my diet, lots of lean protein, fresh veggies, tons of water, and no sodas, fast food crap, ect, about 1800 calories per day, low, low fat, and low carbs. Eating several times a day instead of three. Indeed, I am already down to 185 from 204. My goal is a LEAN and MEAN fighting machine, 168 by April 6th. I am going to get on a few good supplements, and of course, I am upping the cardio, doing it at least 4 times a week, and hitting all body parts in the weight room HARD 3-4 times a week, working out with intensity, and intelligence, I want the muscles to grow, and I want low body fat, so they show, with cuts and striations, so that the ladies and the comp can take a gander with their fuc*ing mouths agape. I'm gonna go the whole 9 yards, including the tanning salon, and a body wax. I want to walk into a certain place in April, wearing a "wife beater" and I want every lady there to turn her head. There is another place I wanna go dancing at, where "anything goes" and I fully intend on losing that wife beater on the dance floor. All this can happen if I stay motivated and focused, and stay disciplined. I'm not worried about chasing women, I'll let them chase me.Originally posted by icepick
See! Looks DO matter! But for men, looks is not just 'natural', we must WORK for our looks. We should be happy that they DO matter. The body (for men and women) is probably the most important sexual attractor. Me and some of my friends went 'camping' last summer, while we were fishing, one of my friends (football player, QB, not too big, but fairly testosteronized with low bf%) had his shirt off to get a tan. Two girls walked by (about 8 and 7) and were making whistiling noises at him (geez girls can get so horny
Well, later on that night, we ran into these girls again. They were all over this kid. Of course, since this type of thing happens all the time for him, he pretty much did his thing, not really noticing the girls but not really ignoring them. This played out, and he ended up sleeping with BOTH of them.
This is not to say that skinny scrawny guys can NEVER attract hot chicks. One of these girls friends (7) was giving me some hints, but I was too stupid (AFC) to realize.
Yeah, can't say anything about this program. (Still waiting.) But I noticed that when I started eating alot and working out, I did have to shave more often. I used to be able to go for a few days, but now it grows like a forest!
Eating alot DOES seem to make me feel more energetic, and more 'full of life'. Eating alot means many small meals. I start to get lethargic and loose energy when I haven't eaten in 4 or 5 hours.
Oh, and I did order the program based on the advice in this thread. (Thanks Drex, Pook) After working out for 4 months normally and not seeing great gains (but still decent gains, I have real arms now, not toothpicks
OOPS! Sorry "Pook Man" I did not see this until I wrote this reply, and as you can tell, I already ordered the program.
But I do appreciate your massive post!
I don't know about you guys, but when I first started this whole Don Juan thing 7 months ago , I had two insecurites in my life: girls and my scrawny 'beer gut' body.
The first was eliminated quite easily. The second will actually take some work, but I will get there.
It will be interesting to see some of the responses I will get from friends when I tell them that I have stopped smoking and drinking! And the responses of my parents as I chow down massive quantities of food and begin to 'fill out'.
