How about coming across as a real man that has other women at his disposal and will walk rather than deal with disrespectful behavior? And then use silence and distance when need be.
Its not about just punishment for bad behavior. That is a passive aggressive approach. Do men of high value waste their time pouting around trying to punish a chick for bad behavior? Hell no......Its even more so about not having the time or desire to put up with bullsh!t. I know that I'm not going to stick around for it. I'll go find stuff to do that I like doing either with another chick, on my own or with friends. There is nothing butthurt about that.
That's the golden ticket to all of this.
Butt Hurt? I currently have a situation where I am applying silence & distance with a chick in my workplace.
Several flakes on her part, getting to the point of having sex became this huge obstacle with her.. I really felt an undertone of disrespect & lack of appreciation of my time. So I applied S&D and I don't care about wether she perceives it as Butt hurt.
I still smile & say hello when she sees me at work.. Other than that it's complete S&D
I don't have time for that kinda Bvll****.. If my time & my company isn't valued, then you get ZERO attention from me.
