Should I go to a legal brothel to get more experience?

[RBK]

Sex god method is a fairly decent book for ideas. My only advice is do whatever it takes to make her ***... usually you get repeat sessions this way... otherwise have fun.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Should I go to a legal brothel to get more experience?

There is a huge difference in winning a Lamborghini at the lottery because you bought a lottery ticket and buying a Lamborghini with the money your earned by yourself through your hard work.

In the first scenario the Lamborghini will tell you every time you see it "Hey loser, you didn't buy me and you cannot afford me you fvcking tw@t!"

While the second scenario the Lamborghini will reaffirm and tell you that:
"Hey, you're awesome and doing great because you made it" which will give you a huge confidence booster every time you see it.

Same thing with girls and prostitutes:
One requires effort and is hard to get, but once you get it you will be boosted to new level while the other will just reaffirm that you're a sore fvcking loser and total wanker because you just paid yourself the easy way out.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

There is a huge difference in winning a Lamborghini in the lottery because you bought a lottery ticket and buying a Lamborghini with the money your earned by yourself through your hard work.

In the first scenario the Lamborghini will tell you every time you see it "hey loser, you didn't buy me and you cannot afford me you fvcking loser"; while the second scenario the Lamborghini will reaffirm and tell you that you're awesome and doing great because you made it which will give you a huge confidence booster every time you see it.

Same thing with girls and prostitutes:
One requires effort and is hard, but once you get it you will be boosted to new level while the other will just reaffirm that you're a sore fvcking loser and total wanker because you just paid yourself the easy way out.

I don't disagree, but you have to take it for what it is. You are paying for an attractive girl to drain your balls or impress your bosses at a work dinner event. You are exchanging currency for no wasted time and no risk. Now a normal girl can boost you but also lower you as well. Now you can go and conquer this girl, but this same girl can divorce you, cheat on you, rob you of your time and money, bait and switch you, and etc, so who is the fvcking loser at the end of the day? The guy that paid money for a hot escort or the guy that lost years, money, and his sanity to toxic women lol?

 

[isasda66]

Just go ahead and get it out of your system. Some like it, some dont. Youll never know unless you try.

Never tell chicks you were with an escort.

I dont know what it is about this but women seem to be disgusted and dread at the same time. I guess they know subconsciously that their pvssy is easily replaceable. If the guy's gone one he can go again.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Just go ahead and get it out of your system. Some like it, some dont. Youll never know unless you try.



I dont know what it is about this but women seem to be disgusted and dread at the same time. I guess they know subconsciously that their pvssy is easily replaceable. If the guy's gone one he can go again.

its because they low key see them as unfair competition. Every girl is an escort, either directly or indirectly.

 

[2Rocky]

You could try an older woman instead. They might be easier + will like to teach stuff. It's still real sex though, not a pay-to-win situation.

Lower your standards. you aren't looking for a life partner here.
Look for interest signals from women.
Lock in logistics
Locations should be low end meat markets. Not high end clubs. Think dive bars and hotel bars. Think women who are out of town on vacation.
Frame your inexperience as "pursuing passions other than women"
Build your social skills to put HER at ease and carry on conversation with ease..

 

[SW15]

My recommendation is to solve the problem without paying directly for it. All men do pay for sex, whether directly or indirectly.

Cold approaching seems too cringy for me and it doesn’t seem to have much of a success rate, making the jump and signing up for OLD seems better, but I know its gonna suck and I’ll have to go through a lot of matches before one of them leads to an in person encounter.

Most dates arranged through swipe apps are complete shiit. They aren't worth attending. Most are of the "one date, no sex, no second date" variety.

Cold approaching is not cringe. It is difficult, which is why you need to be testosterone focused. You need to eat healthy foods, lift weights, and not masturbate/watch porn to put yourself in a better position to succeed. Even with doing that, success rates are low. It is a royal pain to be a cold approacher though.

 

[2Rocky]

I was interested until I seen the price it was going for.

Free pdf download?

 

[RickTheToad]

I think I posted this years ago from my old account, I used to have another SS account years ago, but I forgot my login credentials so I abandoned that account and made this one. So I live close by Nevada, where prostitution is legal at state licensed brothels. I occasionally check the brothel websites to see what girls are there and in 2019, I came across an escort who was actually pretty cute and one of her specialties is adult aged guys who are inexperienced. For those of you that haven’t seen my other posts where I’ve mentioned it, I’m almost 29 and have never been in a relationship and my only sexual experience is one hookup 5 years ago and oral with another girl 2 years ago.

After I came across her, I became very tempted to contact her and make an appointment to see her at the brothel. Especially because she said that she has no problem telling inexperienced guys what they’re doing wrong in bed and will give honest feedback and she’ll also go on a practice date with you in order to help teach you how to act on a date since the brothel has a bar and restaurant to do that at. Then the pandemic happened and she left that line of work, but just last night I discovered that she got back into it as the pandemic has eased, so once again I’m tempted.

That’s why I’m interested to hear what you guys think I should do, especially because I’ve always felt self conscious about my inexperience. If I do go through with it, I think I’ll end up doing the girlfriend experience since that’s the service she mentioned is the best for inexperienced guys and I’ll probably book an overnight visit with her since I’ve never spent the night with a girl and it would be nice to do that, even if its with an escort. I might do it if most of you guys think I should. But I’m also wondering if I should just use OLD to get experience instead, especially since that’s free and with regular girls.

Good way to catch HPV, STD or worse. It's really not that hard. Play with her cl!t, kiss and caress her erogenous zones and stick you member in. Bonus if you rub her cl!toral hood while inside.

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[needimprovement250]

Good way to catch HPV, STD or worse. It's really not that hard. Play with her cl!t, kiss and caress her erogenous zones and stick you member in. Bonus if you rub her cl!toral hood while inside.

31 Erogenous Zones: How to Touch Genital or Nongenital Areas

The human body is filled with erogenous zones waiting to be explored. Find out which touchpoints could use a little TLC during partner sex or masturbation.

www.healthline.com

Well since its a legal brothel, the girls are required by law to be STD tested on a constant basis and you’re required to wear a condom for everything, even a BJ. Like I said in my earlier replies, doing this is not my first choice and I’m only even considering it because there’s no effective way to meet a regular girl who’s not a pro.

 

[needimprovement250]

My recommendation is to solve the problem without paying directly for it. All men do pay for sex, whether directly or indirectly.



Most dates arranged through swipe apps are complete shiit. They aren't worth attending. Most are of the "one date, no sex, no second date" variety.

Cold approaching is not cringe. It is difficult, which is why you need to be testosterone focused. You need to eat healthy foods, lift weights, and not masturbate/watch porn to put yourself in a better position to succeed. Even with doing that, success rates are low. It is a royal pain to be a cold approacher though.

I’m not a big fan of hiring professionals. I also think it might be very expensive.

One thing that sucks for a guy trying to get experience is the (time-related performance) pressure involved. You are either “on the clock” for an hour with a pro (due to the cost), or it’s a similar fast paced “put up or shut up” with a ONS with a regular chick.

The only way around this is to date a chick.

I tend to agree with firstbornunicorn. Maybe meet an older chick online and go on a few dates. Just play the “dry spell” card if the topic of your experience (or lack thereof) comes up. You had sex before, but it’s been a few years due to COVID, busy with work, etc. Then destroy some MILF puzzy. She’ll let you stay over and probably do it a few times.

I can see that because girls get so many matches from the swipe apps that you’re easily forgotten about or used for free food and drinks. It really does seem cringy to me, I’ve watched countless non scripted YouTube videos on it and it hardly goes well. I think based off of what everyone has said so far, this should be seen as a last resort option and I should aim to meet regular girls first and see how it goes, especially since I’ve never put any serious effort into it before. And also like Mike32ct said, it will be expensive since I would plan on it being an overnight stay with the escort and I’m sure the cost of that will be in the thousands. I would definitely prefer a regular girl over an escort and I still wouldn’t get all the experience I’m looking for from that encounter, you can’t get relationship experience from paying an escort.

 

[RickTheToad]

Well since its a legal brothel, the girls are required by law to be STD tested on a constant basis and you’re required to wear a condom for everything, even a BJ. Like I said in my earlier replies, doing this is not my first choice and I’m only even considering it because there’s no effective way to meet a regular girl who’s not a pro.

Skin-to-skin viruses, such as HPV and HSV are not included with a standard STD panel test. The only one's which they are required to test for are Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, HIV, Hep B & C. That leaves the following that are not tested:

HSV 1
HSV 2
HPV
Chancroid
Crabs
Molluscum Contagiosum
Scabies
Trichomoniasis
Cytomegalovirus

Don't be stupid.

 

[SW15]

I can see that because girls get so many matches from the swipe apps that you’re easily forgotten about or used for free food and drinks. It really does seem cringy to me, I’ve watched countless non scripted YouTube videos on it and it hardly goes well. I think based off of what everyone has said so far, this should be seen as a last resort option and I should aim to meet regular girls first and see how it goes, especially since I’ve never put any serious effort into it before.

Many men get used for food and/or drinks on dates.

Yes, if you haven't put serious efforts into pickup, you need to do that first before considering the other path.

it will be expensive since I would plan on it being an overnight stay with the escort and I’m sure the cost of that will be in the thousands. I would definitely prefer a regular girl over an escort and I still wouldn’t get all the experience I’m looking for from that encounter, you can’t get relationship experience from paying an escort.

Even if you chose non-overnight quantities of time, it would still be expensive for a man who lives with his parents. It's a better idea to find a way to use funds to secure even an adequate 1 bedroom apartment, which will help in getting laid longer term.

You can get sexual experience by paying directly for sex. You're right that you won't get relationship experience in that scenario. If you're not getting everything you're looking for, then a different path must be considered.

 

[needimprovement250]

Skin-to-skin viruses, such as HPV and HSV are not included with a standard STD panel test. The only one's which they are required to test for are Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, HIV, Hep B & C. That leaves the following that are not tested:

HSV 1
HSV 2
HPV
Chancroid
Crabs
Molluscum Contagiosum
Scabies
Trichomoniasis
Cytomegalovirus

Don't be stupid.

Well I mean you could get any of those, plus the tested ones from a girl you match with on Tinder too, but I would rather not go down this path like I already said. I would rather meet a regular girl, but I don’t know where to besides OLD so I just gotta give that a try first and go from there I guess.

 

[Mike32ct]

Well I mean you could get any of those, plus the tested ones from a girl you match with on Tinder too, but I would rather not go down this path like I already said. I would rather meet a regular girl, but I don’t know where to besides OLD so I just gotta give that a try first and go from there I guess.

I met my first online. I was 28. She was 26. We dated for about six weeks and maybe did it like 5 times.

It was totally worth it. Fun and no pressure at all. I seriously considered hiring a pro, but I’m so glad I didn’t.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Skin-to-skin viruses, such as HPV and HSV are not included with a standard STD panel test. The only one's which they are required to test for are Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, HIV, Hep B & C. That leaves the following that are not tested:

HSV 1
HSV 2
HPV
Chancroid
Crabs
Molluscum Contagiosum
Scabies
Trichomoniasis
Cytomegalovirus

Don't be stupid.

then nobody should have sex! If you really think your typical bar thot that practically throws herself at Chad and Tyrone and even prostitutes herself on OLD is any safer then you are delusional.

An escort will most likely be screwing people like OP or older married men with low partners so lower exposure. Your typical hypergamy girl is screwing around with Chads and Tyrone’s who could have 100s of partners and she’s probably screwed a couple of lesbians down low too.

 

[needimprovement250]

Many men get used for food and/or drinks on dates.

Yes, if you haven't put serious efforts into pickup, you need to do that first before considering the other path.



Even if you chose non-overnight quantities of time, it would still be expensive for a man who lives with his parents. It's a better idea to find a way to use funds to secure even an adequate 1 bedroom apartment, which will help in getting laid longer term.

You can get sexual experience by paying directly for sex. You're right that you won't get relationship experience in that scenario. If you're not getting everything you're looking for, then a different path must be considered.

I agree, I think this idea comes from the fact that I perceive my inexperience as a major disadvantage and that this will help me catch up, but it won’t help all the way since there’s no way to get relationship experience from an escort, like I already said and you acknowledged. So while it might help me learn more about what to do in bed, I could see myself still being concerned about not having any relationship experience afterwards, so it won’t completely solve things for me.

I’m not sure if you saw any of my comments where I mentioned it, but I abruptly quit my job and the temporary job that I do every summer is the only employment I have right now, so this isn’t even something I could do right now because there’s no way I’m gonna spend all the money I’m making from my temporary job on this, that would just be plain stupid. The cost of living is also super high in my area, so lately I’ve become more open to the idea of moving into a shared house with some roommates. My uncle did that for awhile and it was very affordable, you can get your own bedroom and you’re usually assigned your own fridge and cabinet space in the kitchen. I just don’t know where to look for a place like that, maybe Craigslist?

The one silver lining to me considering this is that I haven’t been thinking about that girl I mentioned in my other thread as much ever since I got this idea, just goes to show that I need to find another girl, even if it is an escort.

 

[BadBoy89]

Especially because she said that she has no problem telling inexperienced guys what they’re doing wrong in bed and will give honest feedback and she’ll also go on a practice date with you in order to help teach you how to act on a date since the brothel has a bar and restaurant to do that at. Then the pandemic happened and she left that line of work, but just last night I discovered that she got back into it as the pandemic has eased, so once again I’m tempted.

That’s why I’m interested to hear what you guys think I should do, especially because I’ve always felt self conscious about my inexperience.

WTF.

What girl in a brothel will tell a guy that or do that with a guy? A brothel girl can get nice clothes, nice shoes, can do her hair nice, to get picked up in a car by the guy, go to a restaurant with a guy, order whatever she wants from the guy, to show the guy how to act on a date in case he gets one with a real girl? Does that make any sense?

Just do the same thing you did with those girls 5 years ago and 2 years ago. Women haven’t changed since then.

If I do go through with it, I think I’ll end up doing the girlfriend experience since that’s the service she mentioned is the best for inexperienced guys and I’ll probably book an overnight visit with her since I’ve never spent the night with a girl and it would be nice to do that, even if its with an escort. I might do it if most of you guys think I should. But I’m also wondering if I should just use OLD to get experience instead, especially since that’s free and with regular girls.

Girlfriend experience isn’t spending the night.

Girlfriend experience is buy her whatever she wants, have her abuse you because you are not rich and famous, serve her to no end, give her the option to take half your stuff if she is living with you, give her the option to sue you, give her the option to withhold sex for any reason.

You are debating between spending thousands of dollars on a brothel girl. or a few dollars on a normal online girl.

Sounds very very strange.

 

[needimprovement250]

WTF.

What girl in a brothel will tell a guy that or do that with a guy? A brothel girl can get nice clothes, nice shoes, can do her hair nice, to get picked up in a car by the guy, go to a restaurant with a guy, order whatever she wants from the guy, to show the guy how to act on a date in case he gets one with a real girl? Does that make any sense?

Just do the same thing you did with those girls 5 years ago and 2 years ago. Women haven’t changed since then.



Girlfriend experience isn’t spending the night.

Girlfriend experience is buy her whatever she wants, have her abuse you because you are not rich and famous, serve her to no end, give her the option to take half your stuff if she is living with you, give her the option to sue you, give her the option to withhold sex for any reason.

You are debating between spending thousands of dollars on a brothel girl. or a few dollars on a normal online girl.

Sounds very very strange.

Because she acknowledges that it’s a learning experience for inexperienced guys who want to be prepared for when they get the chance to be with a regular girl and that they’re paying her for honest feedback. The brothel she’s at has a restaurant onsite, so that’s where it would happen and you don’t go off the property for that. The girlfriend experience is also something that only happens at the brothel in a private room for overnight clients, she doesn’t come to your house and you go your separate ways when your time is up.

I didn’t do anything to get those girls 5 years ago, the first one came into me and made all the moves, including asking me out and initiating sex and the second one was a friend of my friend who helped arrange it because it was during the pandemic and neither of us have had sex in a long time. From the way people here have described OLD, they’ve made it sound like something that nearly hopeless and that you’ll be on there for several months before you even get a first date, that’s why this idea appealed to me.

 

[needimprovement250]

I met my first online. I was 28. She was 26. We dated for about six weeks and maybe did it like 5 times.

It was totally worth it. Fun and no pressure at all. I seriously considered hiring a pro, but I’m so glad I didn’t.

That’s exactly what I would like to happen to me, and its encouraging that it happened to you at the same age as me, it shows that maybe having no experience at this age isn’t a death sentence like I thought it was and that maybe people here are over exaggerating how bad OLD is a little bit. I think I really should give that a try first and see what happens, maybe it won’t be so bad. Hopefully what happened to you will soon happen to me as well.