Should I go to a legal brothel to get more experience?

[Fruitbat]

You will not get experience. You will get easy sex (because you pay for it) and her job is to lie to you about everything. It will skew your reality in a not good way.

It's like porn on steroids in how bad it is for you. You're 28 dude. If you were 55 I'd say give up and go to a prostitute, but you have time on your side. Even if you're extremely overweight rn (which you aren't) you have the time and youth to drastically turn it around.

i used them before - mainly when I was high AF on stimulants. this was when young.

One thing I would say is that I always felt shame afterwards. It can be a wee bit seedy.

i would say he has to choose well, as on the rare occasions I’ve been too drunk or whatever then they generally aren’t patient and basically want you to rail them and go. It’s quite rare to find one who wants you to take your time and enjoy it. That would be higher tier who cost tons of money (thousands)

it may be good for a man who just has no idea whatsoever. If so, I’d recommend finding a good one and seeing her many times so he can build confidence. If he’s lacking, the whole “in and out” business like nature of it might be intimidating.

plus it will miss the nuance of real women who are interested. It’s nowhere near as good as real sex with a motivated partner.

the nightmare scenario is getting a taste for being the boss type thing and getting addicted to the fact you don’t need to do sh*t but pay. It can get intoxicating.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

You could try an older woman instead. They might be easier + will like to teach stuff. It's still real sex though, not a pay-to-win situation.

 

[Mike32ct]

I’m not a big fan of hiring professionals. I also think it might be very expensive.

One thing that sucks for a guy trying to get experience is the (time-related performance) pressure involved. You are either “on the clock” for an hour with a pro (due to the cost), or it’s a similar fast paced “put up or shut up” with a ONS with a regular chick.

The only way around this is to date a chick.

I tend to agree with firstbornunicorn. Maybe meet an older chick online and go on a few dates. Just play the “dry spell” card if the topic of your experience (or lack thereof) comes up. You had sex before, but it’s been a few years due to COVID, busy with work, etc. Then destroy some MILF puzzy. She’ll let you stay over and probably do it a few times.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Escortmaxing should be for when you already have experience with women not to make up for it. I’ve gotten to the point of my life where I don’t need some nagging bish on my arse and an escort makes more sense. You haven’t experienced this yet, so I would recommend lowering your standards and go on OLD or something.

 

[RBK]

Sex god method is a fairly decent book for ideas. My only advice is do whatever it takes to make her ***... usually you get repeat sessions this way... otherwise have fun.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Should I go to a legal brothel to get more experience?

There is a huge difference in winning a Lamborghini at the lottery because you bought a lottery ticket and buying a Lamborghini with the money your earned by yourself through your hard work.

In the first scenario the Lamborghini will tell you every time you see it "Hey loser, you didn't buy me and you cannot afford me you fvcking tw@t!"

While the second scenario the Lamborghini will reaffirm and tell you that:
"Hey, you're awesome and doing great because you made it" which will give you a huge confidence booster every time you see it.

Same thing with girls and prostitutes:
One requires effort and is hard to get, but once you get it you will be boosted to new level while the other will just reaffirm that you're a sore fvcking loser and total wanker because you just paid yourself the easy way out.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

There is a huge difference in winning a Lamborghini in the lottery because you bought a lottery ticket and buying a Lamborghini with the money your earned by yourself through your hard work.

In the first scenario the Lamborghini will tell you every time you see it "hey loser, you didn't buy me and you cannot afford me you fvcking loser"; while the second scenario the Lamborghini will reaffirm and tell you that you're awesome and doing great because you made it which will give you a huge confidence booster every time you see it.

Same thing with girls and prostitutes:
One requires effort and is hard, but once you get it you will be boosted to new level while the other will just reaffirm that you're a sore fvcking loser and total wanker because you just paid yourself the easy way out.

I don't disagree, but you have to take it for what it is. You are paying for an attractive girl to drain your balls or impress your bosses at a work dinner event. You are exchanging currency for no wasted time and no risk. Now a normal girl can boost you but also lower you as well. Now you can go and conquer this girl, but this same girl can divorce you, cheat on you, rob you of your time and money, bait and switch you, and etc, so who is the fvcking loser at the end of the day? The guy that paid money for a hot escort or the guy that lost years, money, and his sanity to toxic women lol?

 

[isasda66]

Just go ahead and get it out of your system. Some like it, some dont. Youll never know unless you try.

Never tell chicks you were with an escort.

I dont know what it is about this but women seem to be disgusted and dread at the same time. I guess they know subconsciously that their pvssy is easily replaceable. If the guy's gone one he can go again.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Just go ahead and get it out of your system. Some like it, some dont. Youll never know unless you try.



I dont know what it is about this but women seem to be disgusted and dread at the same time. I guess they know subconsciously that their pvssy is easily replaceable. If the guy's gone one he can go again.

its because they low key see them as unfair competition. Every girl is an escort, either directly or indirectly.

 

[2Rocky]

You could try an older woman instead. They might be easier + will like to teach stuff. It's still real sex though, not a pay-to-win situation.

Lower your standards. you aren't looking for a life partner here.
Look for interest signals from women.
Lock in logistics
Locations should be low end meat markets. Not high end clubs. Think dive bars and hotel bars. Think women who are out of town on vacation.
Frame your inexperience as "pursuing passions other than women"
Build your social skills to put HER at ease and carry on conversation with ease..

 

[SW15]

My recommendation is to solve the problem without paying directly for it. All men do pay for sex, whether directly or indirectly.

Cold approaching seems too cringy for me and it doesn’t seem to have much of a success rate, making the jump and signing up for OLD seems better, but I know its gonna suck and I’ll have to go through a lot of matches before one of them leads to an in person encounter.

Most dates arranged through swipe apps are complete shiit. They aren't worth attending. Most are of the "one date, no sex, no second date" variety.

Cold approaching is not cringe. It is difficult, which is why you need to be testosterone focused. You need to eat healthy foods, lift weights, and not masturbate/watch porn to put yourself in a better position to succeed. Even with doing that, success rates are low. It is a royal pain to be a cold approacher though.

 

[2Rocky]

I was interested until I seen the price it was going for.

Free pdf download?

 

[RickTheToad]

I think I posted this years ago from my old account, I used to have another SS account years ago, but I forgot my login credentials so I abandoned that account and made this one. So I live close by Nevada, where prostitution is legal at state licensed brothels. I occasionally check the brothel websites to see what girls are there and in 2019, I came across an escort who was actually pretty cute and one of her specialties is adult aged guys who are inexperienced. For those of you that haven’t seen my other posts where I’ve mentioned it, I’m almost 29 and have never been in a relationship and my only sexual experience is one hookup 5 years ago and oral with another girl 2 years ago.

After I came across her, I became very tempted to contact her and make an appointment to see her at the brothel. Especially because she said that she has no problem telling inexperienced guys what they’re doing wrong in bed and will give honest feedback and she’ll also go on a practice date with you in order to help teach you how to act on a date since the brothel has a bar and restaurant to do that at. Then the pandemic happened and she left that line of work, but just last night I discovered that she got back into it as the pandemic has eased, so once again I’m tempted.

That’s why I’m interested to hear what you guys think I should do, especially because I’ve always felt self conscious about my inexperience. If I do go through with it, I think I’ll end up doing the girlfriend experience since that’s the service she mentioned is the best for inexperienced guys and I’ll probably book an overnight visit with her since I’ve never spent the night with a girl and it would be nice to do that, even if its with an escort. I might do it if most of you guys think I should. But I’m also wondering if I should just use OLD to get experience instead, especially since that’s free and with regular girls.

Good way to catch HPV, STD or worse. It's really not that hard. Play with her cl!t, kiss and caress her erogenous zones and stick you member in. Bonus if you rub her cl!toral hood while inside.

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[needimprovement250]

Good way to catch HPV, STD or worse. It's really not that hard. Play with her cl!t, kiss and caress her erogenous zones and stick you member in. Bonus if you rub her cl!toral hood while inside.

31 Erogenous Zones: How to Touch Genital or Nongenital Areas

The human body is filled with erogenous zones waiting to be explored. Find out which touchpoints could use a little TLC during partner sex or masturbation.

www.healthline.com

Well since its a legal brothel, the girls are required by law to be STD tested on a constant basis and you’re required to wear a condom for everything, even a BJ. Like I said in my earlier replies, doing this is not my first choice and I’m only even considering it because there’s no effective way to meet a regular girl who’s not a pro.

 

[needimprovement250]

My recommendation is to solve the problem without paying directly for it. All men do pay for sex, whether directly or indirectly.



Most dates arranged through swipe apps are complete shiit. They aren't worth attending. Most are of the "one date, no sex, no second date" variety.

Cold approaching is not cringe. It is difficult, which is why you need to be testosterone focused. You need to eat healthy foods, lift weights, and not masturbate/watch porn to put yourself in a better position to succeed. Even with doing that, success rates are low. It is a royal pain to be a cold approacher though.

I’m not a big fan of hiring professionals. I also think it might be very expensive.

One thing that sucks for a guy trying to get experience is the (time-related performance) pressure involved. You are either “on the clock” for an hour with a pro (due to the cost), or it’s a similar fast paced “put up or shut up” with a ONS with a regular chick.

The only way around this is to date a chick.

I tend to agree with firstbornunicorn. Maybe meet an older chick online and go on a few dates. Just play the “dry spell” card if the topic of your experience (or lack thereof) comes up. You had sex before, but it’s been a few years due to COVID, busy with work, etc. Then destroy some MILF puzzy. She’ll let you stay over and probably do it a few times.

I can see that because girls get so many matches from the swipe apps that you’re easily forgotten about or used for free food and drinks. It really does seem cringy to me, I’ve watched countless non scripted YouTube videos on it and it hardly goes well. I think based off of what everyone has said so far, this should be seen as a last resort option and I should aim to meet regular girls first and see how it goes, especially since I’ve never put any serious effort into it before. And also like Mike32ct said, it will be expensive since I would plan on it being an overnight stay with the escort and I’m sure the cost of that will be in the thousands. I would definitely prefer a regular girl over an escort and I still wouldn’t get all the experience I’m looking for from that encounter, you can’t get relationship experience from paying an escort.

 

[RickTheToad]

Well since its a legal brothel, the girls are required by law to be STD tested on a constant basis and you’re required to wear a condom for everything, even a BJ. Like I said in my earlier replies, doing this is not my first choice and I’m only even considering it because there’s no effective way to meet a regular girl who’s not a pro.

Skin-to-skin viruses, such as HPV and HSV are not included with a standard STD panel test. The only one's which they are required to test for are Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, HIV, Hep B & C. That leaves the following that are not tested:

HSV 1
HSV 2
HPV
Chancroid
Crabs
Molluscum Contagiosum
Scabies
Trichomoniasis
Cytomegalovirus

Don't be stupid.

 

[SW15]

I can see that because girls get so many matches from the swipe apps that you’re easily forgotten about or used for free food and drinks. It really does seem cringy to me, I’ve watched countless non scripted YouTube videos on it and it hardly goes well. I think based off of what everyone has said so far, this should be seen as a last resort option and I should aim to meet regular girls first and see how it goes, especially since I’ve never put any serious effort into it before.

Many men get used for food and/or drinks on dates.

Yes, if you haven't put serious efforts into pickup, you need to do that first before considering the other path.

it will be expensive since I would plan on it being an overnight stay with the escort and I’m sure the cost of that will be in the thousands. I would definitely prefer a regular girl over an escort and I still wouldn’t get all the experience I’m looking for from that encounter, you can’t get relationship experience from paying an escort.

Even if you chose non-overnight quantities of time, it would still be expensive for a man who lives with his parents. It's a better idea to find a way to use funds to secure even an adequate 1 bedroom apartment, which will help in getting laid longer term.

You can get sexual experience by paying directly for sex. You're right that you won't get relationship experience in that scenario. If you're not getting everything you're looking for, then a different path must be considered.

 

[needimprovement250]

Skin-to-skin viruses, such as HPV and HSV are not included with a standard STD panel test. The only one's which they are required to test for are Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, HIV, Hep B & C. That leaves the following that are not tested:

HSV 1
HSV 2
HPV
Chancroid
Crabs
Molluscum Contagiosum
Scabies
Trichomoniasis
Cytomegalovirus

Don't be stupid.

Well I mean you could get any of those, plus the tested ones from a girl you match with on Tinder too, but I would rather not go down this path like I already said. I would rather meet a regular girl, but I don’t know where to besides OLD so I just gotta give that a try first and go from there I guess.

 

[Mike32ct]

Well I mean you could get any of those, plus the tested ones from a girl you match with on Tinder too, but I would rather not go down this path like I already said. I would rather meet a regular girl, but I don’t know where to besides OLD so I just gotta give that a try first and go from there I guess.

I met my first online. I was 28. She was 26. We dated for about six weeks and maybe did it like 5 times.

It was totally worth it. Fun and no pressure at all. I seriously considered hiring a pro, but I’m so glad I didn’t.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Skin-to-skin viruses, such as HPV and HSV are not included with a standard STD panel test. The only one's which they are required to test for are Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, HIV, Hep B & C. That leaves the following that are not tested:

HSV 1
HSV 2
HPV
Chancroid
Crabs
Molluscum Contagiosum
Scabies
Trichomoniasis
Cytomegalovirus

Don't be stupid.

then nobody should have sex! If you really think your typical bar thot that practically throws herself at Chad and Tyrone and even prostitutes herself on OLD is any safer then you are delusional.

An escort will most likely be screwing people like OP or older married men with low partners so lower exposure. Your typical hypergamy girl is screwing around with Chads and Tyrone’s who could have 100s of partners and she’s probably screwed a couple of lesbians down low too.