Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 15, 2004
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Yeah? What the fvck do you want?Calling Des and Rollo!
I know, I know
Not much more to say really, except why would anybody want to "get more serious" with a woman who doesn't meet the high standards that they set for themselves? You're selling yourself short and settling for "good enough" instead of "fantastic". I'd continue to date her, but keep my options open for a woman who would treat you good AND have no kids.
Women deserve a chance to meet your list of qualifications for an ideal woman to have a LTR with. When she doesn't meet one of your qualifications, she should immediately be tossed into the "only for fun or sex" category. Most of the SMs I met were immediately disqualified from dating me the moment they mentioned they had offspring. I knew the ones I dated who did have offspring were only temporary since they didn't meet my high standards.
You should be fussy with women you want to "get serious" with. Just because she wants to "get serious", it doesn't mean it's a good idea. Any woman you "get serious" with is a potential for more, including marriage. All those things you didn't like about her when you started dating her will become permanent fixtures in your life.
Also, if you let a woman dictate the direction of the relationship without you agreeing 100%, you've just handed your nuts over to her. Also, if you were certain that she was a good woman without any doubts, you wouldn't be asking us for our opinions.