Should I continue to post advice on Sosuave?

What should I do?

  • Continue to give advice and hope that one day I can save a clueless AFC?

    Votes: 22 52.4%
  • Stop posting advice, and stop caring about inexperienced guys who need help

    Votes: 20 47.6%

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I have noticed that, ironically, the only people on here that take my advice (or better said, believe in my advice) are the ones who don't need it because they are good with women already.

It seems like the guys who need my advice the most are just too stuck in their own socially awkward heads to BELIEVE in the changes that are necessary in order for them to be helped and to grow into real life players and don juans.

Should I even bother any more? Yes or No?
 

ARrocket

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Definitely keep on givin. Because I know that in the couple of years I've been here, I've learned TONS just from reading through different posts and absorbing the advice doled out by more experienced DJs. And thus others have and will do the same.
 

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I notice that people who would rather drift away in their lives is one of the things that bother you, from what i've read. What is it that makes you care about what they do or not? If I believe that in order to fix myself i'd need a 100% wiping-out amnesia, why does that discourage you from trying to help people that might actually follow your advice?
 

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new people come to this forum everyday just to lurk. most are just shy about posting their women problems. only a select few register and from that select few another select few actually makes a thread. so your advice is taken seriously by people you will never know about. so give freely unconditionally
 

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Nygard said:
I notice that people who would rather drift away in their lives is one of the things that bother you, from what i've read. What is it that makes you care about what they do or not? If I believe that in order to fix myself i'd need a 100% wiping-out amnesia, why does that discourage you from trying to help people that might actually follow your advice?
what discourages me the most is when I give really clueless guys advice, and they start to argue with me over really nerdy things, instead of believing in my words and trying to better their lives. I am not here to argue with nerds, it really brings me no pleasure, yet I continue to get into arguments with nerdy inexperienced guys who JUST DON'T GET IT, AND DON'T WANT TO GET IT, in nearly every thread that I try to post advice in.

I originally came here to help CHANGE nerds into something close to a don juan/player, one piece of advice at a time, but I am noticing that "listening and learning" is just not an option for all of these thick headed people.

I'll let the poll voting go on for a lil bit, im going to let the people decide whether i should continue to try to help nerdy guys turn into players, or if I should stop posting advice all together.
 

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You might be giving people the wrong idea with your so called "Advice."

You act arrogant and your attitude is extremely detrimental to what your trying to accomplish.

The way you give advice makes you come across as a douche I've seen some of your posts and instead of giving advice calmly and in a nurturing capacity you act arrogant and ****y and frankly noone wants to be given advice from a douche.

Instead of saying
"Hey you need to go out and talk to girl and forget about the consequences,"

Which is mostly all the advice anyone really needs your tone of voice makes it sound like...

"Hey dude you suck your not going anywhere and your stupid."

Your own posts confirm this...

"I don't understand why this know-it-all virgin scum keeps posting crap towards guys who GET IT, who GET GIRLS, who GET THE DATING PROCESS

why aren't you asking us how we do it instead of being a moron? Don't you want to LEARN how to get sex, you pvssified 27 year old virgin you?"

"virgin, I don't care that you can't see what I say - as long as everyone else sees it - I need to make sure to keep reminding everyone on this forum about what an advice-giving fraud you are, virgin"

You actually call someone "Scum," Haha that was funny but unnecessary especially from someone TRYING to be the beacon of advice on this forum.

Your second post you actually START and label the guy a "Virgin."

I didnt vote but good luck with whatever you decide your posts are funny to say the least :D .
 

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You offer a fresh perspective to threads that I often agree with.

From past posts I also know you and I share similar morals.

So I support your work
 

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Post # 1111!!! Yay!

What I like about your posts Rescue is that they're respectable, can be humorous, and are not sugar coated. For that, I commend you.

Always remember that you can lead a horse to the water but you can't make it drink.
 

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Just a Shot Away

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Rescue Mission said:
Should I even bother any more? Yes or No?
No. Your advice is "have a symmetrical face", which is garbage. Nobody here should be allowed to tell guys that they can't get certain girls because they aren't good-looking enough. So no, no more advice from you. That'd be great.
 

War Against Betaism

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I feel the same way. However, understand that at first a lot of people that actually need advice also need time absorbing all the information. It totally goes against their beliefs and it's going to be hard to actually convert; can't expect them to change overnight. Overtime though I think everyone eventually evolves and absorbs what is given to them here.
 

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i've known how to drive a care since i was 5 years old. turn the wheel. press the break to slow down. press the gas to speed up.

after years of experience driving i can drift, ride the clutch around turns, bob and weave in and out of traffic. i'm not saying i do that i'm just saying...

now you could have told me how to parellel park when i was 5, and i may have know what you meant.. but until i had developed the motor skills, hand-eye coordination, and everything else that comes with age and experience, it would have meant jack shit. my point is that experience and exposure in the field is just as if not more important than anything you or i could tell anyone.
 

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Stop asking for acceptance and craving for attention.

You know the worth of your own posts and if you want to stop posting, then stop posting, but don't make a fvcking poll about it... Make up your own mind instead of letting others make your decisions...

In the end, you were going to make your own decision anyway... No need to make a scene about it.
 

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I came across sosauve about 6 years ago, it was the first site Google turned up when I decided to overcome my problems with women. The good advice I found helped me a lot, it showed me what I was doing wrong, taught me to respect myself and basically to stop being whipped. I can't speak for anybody else, but to me it's worthwhile giving advice even if I only manage to help out 0.01% of the people that read it.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Rescue Mission said:
I have noticed that, ironically, the only people on here that take my advice (or better said, believe in my advice) are the ones who don't need it because they are good with women already.

It seems like the guys who need my advice the most are just too stuck in their own socially awkward heads to BELIEVE in the changes that are necessary in order for them to be helped and to grow into real life players and don juans.

Should I even bother any more? Yes or No?

dont forget the slient majority of visitors to the forum who take the advice and probably never post!

they are the ones who benefit, and unfortunately the internet and forums like this are an outlet for the vocal minority of idiots who have an amflified voice on it!

and you are funny!
 

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Once again a nimrod who finds some success thinks he's a god looking down on the little people while he still has glaring holes in other parts of his social skills.

Your advice is worth d1ck if you have no idea how to present it.
 
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Just a Shot Away said:
No. Your advice is "have a symmetrical face", which is garbage. Nobody here should be allowed to tell guys that they can't get certain girls because they aren't good-looking enough. So no, no more advice from you. That'd be great.
No stupid, my advice has NEVER been "have a symmetrical face", in fact that's the term YOU keep using over and over and over.

MY advice was to make your body look as good as possible, get the best hairstyle possible, best tan possible, best clothing possible, and make sure to walk with a swagger - fvck you and your facial symmetry :)
 
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alright everyone, seems like I should continue to post advice, I appreciate all of the positive and negative feedback (except for Maxtro and Just A Shot Away, but what they said follows what I said about clueless inexperienced guys continuing to not listen to advice).
 

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Rescue Mission said:
alright everyone, seems like I should continue to post advice, I appreciate all of the positive and negative feedback (except for Maxtro and Just A Shot Away, but what they said follows what I said about clueless inexperienced guys continuing to not listen to advice).
Dude get over yourself already!

mrRuckus said:
Once again a nimrod who finds some success thinks he's a god looking down on the little people while he still has glaring holes in other parts of his social skills.
^^
 

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