Should I continue to post advice on Sosuave?

[Maxtro]

I'm completely surprised that people think you actually post advice. The vast majority of your posts are you insulting somebody. When you try to actually give some advice, the only thing you ever focus on is looks. I know you think looks are the most important thing, but they aren't. Anybody can post the "advice" you give, most people know better not to.

Unfortunately some people think the "tough love" approach is good so they like you because of it. Everybody else can't stand you.

Frankly I'm amazed you haven't been banned yet. Usually the accounts you make never make it past a month.

 

[Rescue Mission]

I'm completely surprised that people think you actually post advice. The vast majority of your posts are you insulting somebody. When you try to actually give some advice, the only thing you ever focus on is looks. I know you think looks are the most important thing, but they aren't. Anybody can post the "advice" you give, most people know better not to.

Unfortunately some people think the "tough love" approach is good so they like you because of it. Everybody else can't stand you.

Frankly I'm amazed you haven't been banned yet. Usually the accounts you make never make it past a month.

Huh?

Your issues in real life shine through on this forum - you are too sensitive, you have NO CLUE how men talk to each other, you take everything as insulting!! DUDE, I talk like this to my friends too......i call them pvssies, morons, idiots and so on when they deserve it, but they are not so sensitive like you, and they know how to take criticism - they call me a pvssy too sometimes.......so what???

Socially awkward inexperienced guys are usually the ones who are hyper-sensitive and take things as insults too much - get out of your own head and realize the reality that you are living in, and change YOURSELF.

 

[Maxtro]

Your right, I don't have a clue how men talk to each other. It's been several years since I had any guy friends. I rarely spend any time talking to guys as I much more focused on girls. Yes I know that's an issue.

Talking about social skills and being over-sensitive is much more helpful than constantly mentioning looks and style. Having a perfect hair, body and clothes will not suddenly get women to like him. It's all about how he interacts with men and women, and the willingness to take risks.

 

[bukowski_merit]

If you want to post - post....

No need to let us make a decision for you. And no need to seek our validation (this whole thread comes off like you want attention; same as the people who constantly post that they'll never be good with women, just so they can argue with people for 5 pages. Is that the group you want to be lumped in with?).

Do what you want.

 

[boomerick]

RM---

You know that you know what you are talkin about....

You can only put it out there and let them chew on it...

If they spit it back in your face THEIR LOSS!!!...

Like addicts some get it and with the help of others turn their lives around...

Some never really buy into the idea that they have a problem in the first place and ignore those trying honestly to help...

They continue to choose, and to justify, failure...

As far as you being too rough on the boys....

What a bunch of whiney p*ssies.....PLEASE!!!!......

B!tches ....man up and grow a pair!!! .....

That's usually their core problem in the first place......

Keep giving advice and don't worry ....

Over and out.

 

[CaptainJ]

Your right, I don't have a clue how men talk to each other. It's been several years since I had any guy friends. I rarely spend any time talking to guys as I much more focused on girls. Yes I know that's an issue.

Talking about social skills and being over-sensitive is much more helpful than constantly mentioning looks and style. Having a perfect hair, body and clothes will not suddenly get women to like him. It's all about how he interacts with men and women, and the willingness to take risks.

So you openly admit that you suck at The Game, yet you still ignore his advice? How deluded are you? You've been on this forum for years and you've learnt nothing, and now that you have a lot of posts to your name, you think you can actually talk sh1t back at people who know what works and what doesn't. Shut up and take a backseat to what people are saying here, don't act like you know how it works, otherwise you wouldn't have so many problems with your life.

To Rescue Mission, I like your advice, it's a breath of fresh air, and i like my advice nicely blunt and to the point. Keep advising, because for all the hundreds of people who ignore it, there's always a few who take heed and actually follow it.

 

[Capodeciña]

Wtf, Keep posting man,

The tough love approach is what is needed here. Rescue isn't asking for attention. His posts are awash with the truth and somebody who has infield experience on all aspects.

Why are other guys on here complaining about the "way" a guy posts his threads or comments. The only reason you wouldn't say this to you're prof or tutor is because you visibly see his "achievements" and take that as an authority to be disiplined by him. I can see in Rescue's writing that he has the same achievements or experience a prof would have at a state uni or campus. Thats the type of bytching that seperates the men from the boys or the djs from the fake dj's - didn't you see War against Betaism's sig? "He who cares the least - wins"

Stop caring.

 

[Real Talk]

I've read Rescue Mission's posts and he doesn't sound as respecful as a man should when he says something in a public domain to people he doesn't know personally. In my opinion "Tough Love" is not the same as name calling and blatant direspectful attacks.

RM, my man, we can only judge you by the posts you make here, and you might really be a cool guy in RL that I would get along with. But I don't think any of my best teachers (in the classroom, or on the athletic field) ever resorted to the form of "tough love" you profess to use. If you were on a football team, would you want to follow the example of the starting quarterback who talks to you like that all the time? Or would you, RM, think they are a dipsh!t? think about that

 

[Bladerunner]

Took me around two years for things to really start sinking in. Don't give it up just because a few people don't understand right off the bat!

 

[Victory Unlimited]

Yo Rescue Mission,


Stop for a moment and contemplate your screenname:

RESCUE MISSION

Apparently, it's "in you" to want to join the ranks of what we like to call around here "Captain Save-a-Bro's". And I believe this is a GOOD thing.

Only YOU know your motivations for posting, so only YOU can judge whether or not it's worth it to you to continue to post. However, the flipside of the posting issue is COMPLETELY out of your hands.

In other words, only the recipients of your advice can JUDGE the value of the advice that they receive from you, or anybody else. Again...this is out of your hands.

I can only leave you with this:

When you reach the point where the public opinion about the positive impact of what you post is NOT as important to you as the PROCESS and SATISFACTION that you get from sharing what you know------then that's when you'll have NO NEED to even type the question that you've asked in the title of this thread.



I say: If you believe your motivations to be good---

----then Rescue ON, my friend.


VU

 

[Just a Shot Away]

No stupid, my advice has NEVER been "have a symmetrical face", in fact that's the term YOU keep using over and over and over.

You've consistently maintained a "looks are very important" attitude. Scientists have defined an attractive face as degree of symmetry. I use this term because the top minds in the field of biology use this term.

MY advice was to make your body look as good as possible, get the best hairstyle possible, best tan possible, best clothing possible, and make sure to walk with a swagger

Oh, so you're an "APPEARANCE and CONFIDENCE matters" guy now. Welcome back to Earth, buddy. It's good to have you back on the side of reality.

- fvck you and your facial symmetry

Don't hate me because I am the living, breathing antithesis of your ill-advised opinions and tabloid derived ideals. My facial symmetry does you no harm to the scraps that you attempt to squirrel away from the real DJs out there. I'm more concerned about my organic chemistry final tomorrow. So no, Rescue Mission. Fuck...you. I might also add that Maxtro and I are far from the only detractors of the garbage that you refer to as "advice." Nineteen people also vote that you stop spreading your self-limiting propaganda bullshit all over the forum like an infectious disease. I just happen to be more vocal than most because you and those of your ilk damage the forum unnecessarily.

 

[handle]

I haven't read any of your advice but judging by this ridiculous post I think you should stop regardless. Seriously, who asks this?

 

[Falcon25]

Who are you? I think the real question should be "Is Just a Shot Away" gay?

 

[Joe Stud]

Keep it up rescue. I have personally benefitted from your advice. And if you look, you will see that you are one of the very few that I have actually repped. I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for your services to this forum...

 

[ThunderMaverick]

This screams attention. Don't be such a baby. Those who care will take your advice. Those who's don't care won't. No higher being bestowed the power of showing people how to live better on you. Just remember you're not perfect and not every formula is solid. People are different. Situations are different, and everyone's motivations for the most part, to them personally, are different.

Not everyone is going to agree with you.

 

[Maxtro]

So you openly admit that you suck at The Game, yet you still ignore his advice? How deluded are you? You've been on this forum for years and you've learnt nothing, and now that you have a lot of posts to your name, you think you can actually talk sh1t back at people who know what works and what doesn't. Shut up and take a backseat to what people are saying here, don't act like you know how it works, otherwise you wouldn't have so many problems with your life.

To Rescue Mission, I like your advice, it's a breath of fresh air, and i like my advice nicely blunt and to the point. Keep advising, because for all the hundreds of people who ignore it, there's always a few who take heed and actually follow it.

Fool, stop thinking that you know me. You don't know shit about what my issues are.

The vast majority of RM's advice posts are about looks. If you think stuff like that is helpful, then that shows how much you understand about this game. If you do realize that looks aren't that important and you think that RM has actually made some helpful posts, then link them.

 

[DonGorgon]

eh i didnt vote cause it does not matter.. what is meant to be will be...

 

[CaptainJ]

Fool, stop thinking that you know me. You don't know shit about what my issues are.

The vast majority of RM's advice posts are about looks. If you think stuff like that is helpful, then that shows how much you understand about this game. If you do realize that looks aren't that important and you think that RM has actually made some helpful posts, then link them.

If you don't think looks are important, then why are you doing weight training? Surely it's just a waste of time if looks don't matter, hell why don't you stop buying clothes or stop grooming yourself, if they don't make much difference. Sorry mate, but how you look is important, just like how charismatic you are and how social you are.

You've shown a picture of yourself before and tbh, you look like the regular guy who had nothing going for himself, you we're skinny, had bad hair, ill fitting dull clothes and your had an expression of surrender. I doubt much has changed since then.

The truth is women care how a man looks, if he doesn't take care of himself, then he doesn't respect himself, which seems likely in your case. Being good looking isn't about having the perfect facial features, but about being well groomed, clean, having stylish hair, good fitting clothes and looking strong and muscular. This is what we mean when we say looks matter, not any of this facial symmetry bullsh1t. Genetics play a small role in how attractive you look.

Stop trying to claim you know more than people around here, you know very little and apply even less of what you know in social situations. It's good that you are weight training, that is a positive step, but don't make claims when you have no credentials to back yourself up.

 

[Maxtro]

I know that looks matter, the error is believe that they are the most important aspect. If I looked like a model and had a perfect body with a great wardrobe but still had my personality and social skills nothing about my situation would change. Sure I may have one or two girls throw themselves at me but overall, I'd be living the same life that I am now.

On the contrary, if I boost up my social skills, let go of my bitterness, have fun, get a social life and take more risks, my game will shoot up. I'll have many more success. I've already improved my looks to the point where they are no longer a detriment. Any further improvement will really only make me move up one point on a 1-10 scale. While the previous things I mentioned will have a much bigger impact.

You've shown a picture of yourself before and tbh, you look like the regular guy who had nothing going for himself, you we're skinny, had bad hair, ill fitting dull clothes and your had an expression of surrender. I doubt much has changed since then.

The picture you are talking about was taken in December 2008. I was at an office Christmas party, bored and sitting next to a girl that I had oneitis for but knew I didn't have a chance with her.

A lot has changed since then. My style has greatly improved (even though in that picture I'm simply dressed in office attire) and I've gained almost 20 pounds, most of it muscle.

I'm weight training for myself. I'm tired of feeling small and weak because I'm only 5'6. I wouldn't be surprised if others saw me that way as well. I know for certain that women don't want a man who they think is weak.

I know a great deal of things about life, pick up, social dynamics. I also know that there are many concepts that I don't fully understand and struggle to implement them into my own life.

I know for certain that anybody who thinks that looks are the most important factor, is missing the bigger picture.

 

[CaptainJ]

RM never says looks are the most important thing, he just says they are important, so in that aspect you are both in agreement.

Glad to hear that a lot has changed since that picture.

But if you know a lot about social dynamics and the game etc, then why aren't you applying your knowledge and doing something like DJ bootcamp. You said before that DJ bootcamp isn't something that is suited for you. How do you know that if you haven't tried it? It sounds to me that fear is holding you back and stopping you from improving.