Should I continue to post advice on Sosuave?

[teacha]

Keep Posting Rescue Mission...i Like That Mentality You Got When It Comes To Women And Dating.

 

[Rescue Mission]

I still find it ironic that the guys who got their shyt together and don't need my advice are the ones who back me up all the way, while the guys who have not learned how to get pvssy, are the ones with negative things to say about me.

To the guys who need help and they know it - what do you have to LOSE if you DO listen to my advice? Clearly, you've been doing things the wrong way by ignoring any and all help i've offered.

Maxtro, looks ARE the most important thing FOR A SOCIALLY AWKWARD GUY. How would YOU feel if one day, a cute girl came up to you and told you "hey you're cute, my name is XXX"........ya think, maybe, just maybe, that would give you confidence and HELP you converse with her? Improving your looks to the utmost degree instantly boosts your confidence and how you interact with women, because all of a sudden, you start FEELING AND BELIEVING THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAN HER, YOU ARE THE PRIZE, AND SHE'S LUCKY TO BE TALKING TO YOU

 

[Maxtro]

Maxtro, looks ARE the most important thing FOR A SOCIALLY AWKWARD GUY.

No no no. I can't believe you actually said that.

The most important thing for a socially awkward guy is to try and improve his social skills. He has to talk to more people, try to make friends and put himself in situations that are outside of his comfort zone.

How you can even connect looks to being socially awkward is beyond me.

How would YOU feel if one day, a cute girl came up to you and told you "hey you're cute, my name is XXX"........ya think, maybe, just maybe, that would give you confidence and HELP you converse with her?

A girl coming up to me and telling that I'm cute will certainly be an ego booster. Then it's up to my skills to turn it into something more. Frankly though, the same thing could happen if a girl tells me that she likes my shirt or my shoes.

I don't need to look perfect to be able to talk to girls.

 

[Rescue Mission]

No no no. I can't believe you actually said that.

The most important thing for a socially awkward guy is to try and improve his social skills. He has to talk to more people, try to make friends and put himself in situations that are outside of his comfort zone.

How you can even connect looks to being socially awkward is beyond me.

A girl coming up to me and telling that I'm cute will certainly be an ego booster. Then it's up to my skills to turn it into something more. Frankly though, the same thing could happen if a girl tells me that she likes my shirt or my shoes.

I don't need to look perfect to be able to talk to girls.

you can't improve social skills if people think that you look weird/creepy/nerdy....you won';t even be given the chance to improve social skills by people in general

 

[Ease]

We only give advice to serve our own interests.

Whether that be ego or self assurance, i dont know.

Heres some advice, keep posting if you want to.

 

[Nygard]

How would YOU feel if one day, a cute girl came up to you and told you "hey you're cute, my name is XXX"

I'd have 123(emergency number here) in fast dial. Nobody ever does that and if they ever do, it's probably to scam me or to throw me a fistful of scopolamine.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

No no no. I can't believe you actually said that.

Really? Then you haven't been paying attention. This guy's fuckin' garbage, dude. He trots around crying about looks mattering all day long and how all the scientists are wrong with ZERO research, ZERO publications in respected scientific journals, and ZERO support from any respected member of the world of seduction. Anything is bound to come out of a guy's mouth like that, man.

The sooner you realize this, the sooner we can open the eyes of those who guys like Rescue Mission, Falcon 25 and others are desperately attempting to keep sewn shut for their own personal benefit.

I'd have 123(emergency number here) in fast dial. Nobody ever does that and if they ever do, it's probably to scam me or to throw me a fistful of scopolamine.

Well, it does happen. I had a girl a few semesters ago hand me a piece of paper after class that said "you're hot! lets hang out" with her name and number on it. I tried to bang her, but failed. I had her over at my house even but didn't get a second date. Weird, huh? Only to those who are uninformed about how sexual selection works. To me, this makes perfect sense since I lack confidence, the proper amount of masculine assertiveness, and dominance. Since these are the traits that women desire in a mate (contrary to what tabloids and various reality TV shows would have you believe), I did not get to nail this chick. This is information that only comes from personal experience and doing one's homework.

 

[game.r]

I haven't read any of your advice but judging by this ridiculous post I think you should stop regardless. Seriously, who asks this?

My sentiments exactly!!!!

 

[Nygard]

Well, it does happen.

Not to me, and that's the point. I don't deny that it happens to other people like yourself.
Also, I was born, grew and still live in a dangerous country and I developed a paranoia that might be keeping me alive but totally alone.

 

[Falcon25]

To me, this makes perfect sense since I lack confidence, the proper amount of masculine assertiveness, and dominance. Since these are the traits that women desire in a mate (contrary to what tabloids and various reality TV shows would have you believe), I did not get to nail this chick. This is information that only comes from personal experience and doing one's homework.

Or maybe you just have really bad body odor, bad breath, or do not know how to kiss a girl. Or maybe you are a scared little bitcvh. If any girl gave me a note like that, she would do the walk to her car in the morning with a very sore vagina.

 

[Voice]

We only give advice to serve our own interests.

Whether that be ego or self assurance, i dont know.

Heres some advice, keep posting if you want to.

Hehe, this is the only response the OP should have gotten.

 

[Rescue Mission]

He trots around crying about looks mattering all day long and how all the scientists are wrong with ZERO research, ZERO publications in respected scientific journals, and ZERO support from any respected member of the world of seduction.

1) you are clinically insane, to think that nerdy scientific research is needed to figure out whether a hot bytch likes a good looking dude over a bad looking one.

2) Respected member in the world of seduction? They are business people who want to make $$, so of course "looks don't matter" is what they will tell every nerd, creep, geek, and goober out there!! If they told the TRUTH, they'd just be helping create business for gyms, clothing companies, tanning salons, and hair stylists lol.

3) I don't need nerdy science for this, nor do I need to read this SHYT in any publication.......I have been in the dating game for 10 years (and you can count the first 3 years when I was a creepy virgin who looked like crap, and never had any girl interested in me). I have REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE to back up the reality of the situation, and not just REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE, but I have POSITIVE and NEGATIVE experience, ya understand that?? I have made out with girls at clubs just 3 seconds after making eye contact, because they thought I was hot........at the same time I was pushed away by girls at clubs who thought I was too ugly to even have a chance

4) Stop being an ignorant know-it-all who never has sex........try CHANGING your point of view, and maybe that will help change YOUR SUCCESS!

 

[Nygard]

I have made out with girls at clubs just 3 seconds after making eye contact, because they thought I was hot........at the same time I was pushed away by girls at clubs who thought I was too ugly to even have a chance

RC, you complain that you're tired of getting into arguments with people that don't share your POV, that attack you and that they're filthy nerds that will likely kill themselves in a basement someday and whatnot. Okay, yes, we got the point. But it also takes two to dance, and you are acting there like a damn good dancer. Do you want to stop getting into arguments? Stop answering them back.

 

[Rescue Mission]

RC, you complain that you're tired of getting into arguments with people that don't share your POV, that attack you and that they're filthy nerds that will likely kill themselves in a basement someday and whatnot. Okay, yes, we got the point. But it also takes two to dance, and you are acting there like a damn good dancer. Do you want to stop getting into arguments? Stop answering them back.

I prefer to shut them up with logic so that they understand that their thinking is wrong and they need to change.

 

[Nygard]

I prefer to shut them up with logic so that they understand that their thinking is wrong and they need to change.

Do you really, really believe that arguing with them is gonna make them change their opinion? If anything, they'll believe you even less.

 

[Trader]

I have noticed that, ironically, the only people on here that take my advice (or better said, believe in my advice) are the ones who don't need it because they are good with women already.

It seems like the guys who need my advice the most are just too stuck in their own socially awkward heads to BELIEVE in the changes that are necessary in order for them to be helped and to grow into real life players and don juans.

Should I even bother any more? Yes or No?

Why are you asking us if you should keep on posting? Unless you just want more validation

Just continue posting if you want to

 

[GetOveIT]

Seriously guys you need to get laid, get a hobby or something or you will eat each other out...

 

[Falcon25]

1) you are clinically insane, to think that nerdy scientific research is needed to figure out whether a hot bytch likes a good looking dude over a bad looking one.

2) Respected member in the world of seduction? They are business people who want to make $$, so of course "looks don't matter" is what they will tell every nerd, creep, geek, and goober out there!! If they told the TRUTH, they'd just be helping create business for gyms, clothing companies, tanning salons, and hair stylists lol.

3) I don't need nerdy science for this, nor do I need to read this SHYT in any publication.......I have been in the dating game for 10 years (and you can count the first 3 years when I was a creepy virgin who looked like crap, and never had any girl interested in me). I have REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE to back up the reality of the situation, and not just REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE, but I have POSITIVE and NEGATIVE experience, ya understand that?? I have made out with girls at clubs just 3 seconds after making eye contact, because they thought I was hot........at the same time I was pushed away by girls at clubs who thought I was too ugly to even have a chance

4) Stop being an ignorant know-it-all who never has sex........try CHANGING your point of view, and maybe that will help change YOUR SUCCESS!

Very well written and great points. It's not that an ugly guy can't get a woman. But it's the fact that a good looking man doesn't even have to try. He has to show up and smile. An ugly guy has to try. But any man can look good if he takes care of himself. LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING. ESPECIALLY INITIALLY. The way you stand, the way you look, how big your muscles are, how your clothes fit you. How tall you are. How overweight or skinny. Girls look at these FIRST.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

1) you are clinically insane, to think that nerdy scientific research is needed to figure out whether a hot bytch likes a good looking dude over a bad looking one.

I don't NEED it. I have personal experience for that. The experts in this field merely back it up.

try CHANGING your point of view, and maybe that will help change YOUR SUCCESS!

You're right about this one. I definitely need a perspective overhaul. I have no self-esteem or confidence, which is why I don't get girls. I already know that I'm physically attractive to women. Walking around thinking I can get girls just because I'm physically attractive really isn't going to do the trick.

I prefer to shut them up with logic

So wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait....you dismiss scientific research as "nerdy" and question the validity of it in favor of opinions, hunches, and theories but then turn right back around and begin beating the logic drum? You can't have it both ways, deary. Pick a side. What's it gonna be? Science and Logic or Theories and Conjecture?

LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING.

:crackup: Wow. Just...wow.

The way you stand, the way you look, how big your muscles are, how your clothes fit you. How tall you are. How overweight or skinny. Girls look at these FIRST.

You're still confusing appearance with looks? You have a real problem with reading comprehension. I've been explaining this very simple concept to you for months.

 

[GetOveIT]

Please dont turn this thread into another Looks matter/dont matter.






Pretty please?