I know this may sound crazy,but even with all the AFCness you've shown her,it may be possible to still win her over.
I said may be.
But you'd have to do some things that I already know would be difficult for you to do.
For one,you'd have to put YOURSELF,that is your pride and self-respect as a MAN above sex.
You'd need to stop being controlled by lust and your desire for sex.
Your problem is you let the possibility of "getting some" make you act a fool in the girl's eyes.
It is possible to get her back,but you'll need to follow instructions that'll go against what your feelings are telling you to do.
And that's your weak point.
You've gotten advice on top of advice and you've ignored it all and followed how you felt,and that's why you're in this mess.
The other posters say that there are other girls out there who would appreciate you and treat you better.
I wholeheartedly DISAGREE.
Any other girl you pursue will treat you EXACTLY like this one did.
You know why? Because it wasn't the girl that was the problem,it was YOU.
If you go and pursue another girl,all you'd be doing is taking your AFCness from this girl to the next one.
In the beginning,the new girl would be open to you and may even give you some IOIs,but once she gets to know you,and your AFCness shines through as the "newness" fades away,you'll be right back in the same old ditch with a different girl.
Does this seems to follow you around from girl to girl? If so,do you know why?
It's because YOU TAKE IT WITH YOU FROM GIRL TO GIRL.
You go to this girl,act AFC,then wreck your opportunity.
Then you move on to the next one,things seem ok at first,you act AFC once again,run her off,then on to the next one to screw that one up.
And you know what the funny part of it is? You think it's the girl! :crackup:
Like I said,it may be possible to still win her over,but the actions you need to take will require you behaving like a MAN,not a horny,hormone driven sex-crazed adolescent.