she asked for a break for a few days i accepted then text her later to end things.

[Energizer]

I have a question, why on earth would anyone want to get to back with someone who has split up with them? Why would anyone want to get back with someone who has shown them so much disrespect? I read this thread and wanted to claw my eyes out of my tiny head.

You did the right thing by ending it, but when something ends it should stay that way. Why is it important to get back some moron who has been leading you up the apples and pears for too long? I don't know why you would want to get back with her, unless you want her back to salvage what little self esteem you have left? Is your self worth that low, that you'd rather be with someone who doesn't even like you, respect you or value you than be single and free to go about your daily business?

You're in a hole and you need to find some rope to get yourself out of it, because from where I'm sat you are digging yourself in deeper.

 

[slaog]

the problem is i suffer from anxiety issues where i cant deal with uncertainty, i've had therapy for it in the past but when it comes to girls i just cant seem to shake it, reading the bible does not help me cos logically it makes sense but in practise my anxiety takes over so me working on inner game just won't work until i can sort out these anxiety problems..

does anyone have suggestions how i could gear it to women specifically?

Why are you telling yourself things like this? You have alot of negative limiting beliefs about yourself that are nonsense and don't make sense. You're firmly stuck in your own little matrix. Until you get out of it nothing will change for you.

 

[Alle_Gory]

i suffer from anxiety problems where i cant deal with uncertainty that i had therapy for in the past but i have never been able to apply it to women.

Nobody can deal with uncertainty. We make up for that by having faith in ourselves, so that whatever happens around, we know to land on our feet.

You don't think like that. You're beating yourself up for some reason. That's what you should be getting therapy for. To at least figure out the problem if anything.

You don't have an anxiety problem. You have something else.