drift_king
Don Juan
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ok i followed the advice which u guys gave me and i walked away from this girl.
when i was suppose to meet her monday and pick her up at 8pm, i already had seen her earlier in the day to confirm the time but her b1tchy friend was there.
anyway when i went to pick her up she didnt answer her phone, then i tried again then someone turned her phone off. so i go up to her dorm room to get her and her friends are in there and 1 of them goes crazy on me telling me to come back tomorrow saying the girl im seeing is ill and she slams the door in my face. i thought wtf? at 1st and left then i thought given the whole commotion of the event maybe she was ill so i went back to see if she was ok and her friend went mental on me so i swore at her friend cos she was being f-ing rude at me.
anyway the next day i saw my girl and she looked displeased, i was p1ssed too cos i thought this was a whole bullsh1t elaborate stunt to get rid of me. it turns out she wasn't ill but she passed out from drinking 2 hours before seeing me and her friends her in her room looking after her.
when they relayed the info back to her she only heard their side that i swore at her friend and unsurprisingly her friend never told her that she slammed the door in my face. now obviously the girl im seeing will side with her friend, and her friend gave her an ultimatum of if she ever sees this guy (me) again, she'll never talk to her again. emotional blackmail knowing she'll definitely choose her best friend on campus over me.
we had words and she told me staight out 'i dont like u anymore' i was like 'i dont like u anymore either, i cant be with someone who treats me this way and makes me feel bad'
she suggested something along the lines of not seeing each other for a few days just to clear the air so she has time to think. but realistically this could just be a delayed prolonged break up for her to maybe see if i'll come back so she knows she can have me anytime. or she just said that so she could leave the situation yesterday and go back to studying.
anyway my hot female friend told me to text her that night and say to forget the not seeing each other thing for a few days and just end it there cos it would surprise her.
she concocted this plan of making her jealous cos she said that if i act in different after this and have a new hot girl to make her jealous so quickly and cos i sent that surprising text it'll either a)make her contact me later or b)show that she was never interested in the 1st place.
am i too far gone for this to happen?
when i was suppose to meet her monday and pick her up at 8pm, i already had seen her earlier in the day to confirm the time but her b1tchy friend was there.
anyway when i went to pick her up she didnt answer her phone, then i tried again then someone turned her phone off. so i go up to her dorm room to get her and her friends are in there and 1 of them goes crazy on me telling me to come back tomorrow saying the girl im seeing is ill and she slams the door in my face. i thought wtf? at 1st and left then i thought given the whole commotion of the event maybe she was ill so i went back to see if she was ok and her friend went mental on me so i swore at her friend cos she was being f-ing rude at me.
anyway the next day i saw my girl and she looked displeased, i was p1ssed too cos i thought this was a whole bullsh1t elaborate stunt to get rid of me. it turns out she wasn't ill but she passed out from drinking 2 hours before seeing me and her friends her in her room looking after her.
when they relayed the info back to her she only heard their side that i swore at her friend and unsurprisingly her friend never told her that she slammed the door in my face. now obviously the girl im seeing will side with her friend, and her friend gave her an ultimatum of if she ever sees this guy (me) again, she'll never talk to her again. emotional blackmail knowing she'll definitely choose her best friend on campus over me.
we had words and she told me staight out 'i dont like u anymore' i was like 'i dont like u anymore either, i cant be with someone who treats me this way and makes me feel bad'
she suggested something along the lines of not seeing each other for a few days just to clear the air so she has time to think. but realistically this could just be a delayed prolonged break up for her to maybe see if i'll come back so she knows she can have me anytime. or she just said that so she could leave the situation yesterday and go back to studying.
anyway my hot female friend told me to text her that night and say to forget the not seeing each other thing for a few days and just end it there cos it would surprise her.
she concocted this plan of making her jealous cos she said that if i act in different after this and have a new hot girl to make her jealous so quickly and cos i sent that surprising text it'll either a)make her contact me later or b)show that she was never interested in the 1st place.
am i too far gone for this to happen?