Sh1t tests do NOT exist

[Bigpapa]

Tests do no exist when she has high interest and she´s not bitter/jaded.

if you look like a guy that is good with women, yoh will get sh1t tests to see how interested you are, or if you are a simp or not

Guys who do not experience this for sure they are not that good with women

 

[HaleyBaron]

They exist. Another title for it is just simple women interaction. If I were to analyze it, I would say it is just women using tactics that they use on other women to establish the pecking order. Those who fall out are put into the lower class. Those who stand up or even surpass the bullying are considered a strong opponent or even a high ranking officer to her. That is why men get surprised sometimes when a woman gets disobedient cause she mostly talks with other women. She sees only a woman in the mirror and only knows how to think like a woman.

**** tests are natural but passing them should be just as natural cause we men should really be treating them like kids still in grade school when they pull all that stuff. Even something like accusuations of rape and assault that are false is considered a sh*ttest, and one of the biggest ones to pass. Which if this happens to you, you should be on the offense, not the defense. Put her in her place and make a counterpoint cause everyone will be going after you. And women submit when they are under pressure from possible being false.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

When a girl likes you, there will be a ‘spark’
If they aren’t giving you that spark, it’s low interest

the spark occurs before any test

Girls go out with guys they have low interest in ALL the time. For clout, free meals, curiosity, boredom. Avoid this.

 

[kavi]

The Game exists once you move beyond meaningless short term relationships. All long term 'relationships' will have sh1t tests and other types of issues.

 

[BadBoy89]

**** tests are natural but passing them should be just as natural cause we men should really be treating them like kids still in grade school when they pull all that stuff.

Never understood this type of thinking.

PUA sites say treat all women as “silly and cute” and “don’t pay attention to her words” and if she says “we are not having sex to tonight!” it means “you are having sex tonight.”

OK, well the Supreme Court of United States takes her seriously with words when she testifies in court, But layman on Sosuave making a very very basic salary are supposed to not take them seriously?

Rock on.

 

[RangerMIke]

Yeah... I've never bought into the whole idea of 'sh1t tests' or for that matter 'compliance tests'.

What is called 'sh1t tests' are just women expressing disinterest. What is called 'compliance tests' is just a woman pushing to see how far they can get and testing boundaries.

Calling these "tests" is just PUA BS. Indicating this is something you can pass or fail. The reason why PUAs teach this is that it is an old holdover from coaching in the 90s when PUAs were teaching men to be successful with drunk chicks in clubs. They were rude... because they were drunk... and you could turn a rude drunk chick around back then if you were a decent looking dude and she was looking to hock up that night.

Compliance tests are just normal female behavior pushing your boundaries to see what they can get away with... any woman that is in a relationship with a man will do this until either one is dead. There is no passing this test and the only way you fail is if you keep letting the woman you are with get away with stuff you do not like. You don't 'pass' this test to get and keep the chick, because to be perfectly honest if you draw a line and set boundaries, and the woman isn't into you, she'll just fvcking find another dude. You set boundaries to keep yourself happy and sane and screen out chicks that are really only interested in just using you. You do it for you: not the woman.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Sh1t Tests are given to guys that aren't on the top of her options. Only guys that she has to settle for or pushing out gets SH1t tests.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Never understand this type of thinking.

PUA sites say treat all women as “silly and cute” and “don’t pay attention to her words” and if she says “we are not having sex to tonight!” it means “you are having sex tonight.”

OK, well the Supreme Court of United States takes her seriously with words when she testifies in court, But layman on Sosuave making a very very basic salary are supposed to not take them seriously?

Rock on.

F*ck the Supreme Court. None of them have probably had any kind of sex in ages. None of them, man or woman, going out and hitting on the younger crowd. Who cares what they think. In fact, who cares what women think.

Yes I will treat them like kids. Not because of what some PUA said. But because that is what I deduced over my life and has worked. Constantly. A woman doesn't deserve to be treated on my level cause none of them are, even the career ones who pretend to be logical.

 

[CornbreadFed]

F*ck the Supreme Court

 

[Gamisch]

Perhaps the thread title should be something like sh1ttest SHOULDN'T exist is YOUR life .

A sh1ttest is always a symptom of an underlying issue. Mostly fading or lack off attraction. Mind you, the latter couid also come from the man. When a man is in doubts about a woman she might also sh1ttest him. Love bombing is a great example of this.

So unless two people are a perfect fit(whcih hardly ever happens) there will be tests, or situations that feel like you are getting tested. E.g slow responses. She won't necessarily e=mc2 a strategy to feck you up,but her lack of 100% sincere interest wil make it seem like she does.

If you dealt with enough of them, a sh1ttest won't scare you. It's part of the game. Again, either she knows or suspects you have a higher smv than she does( which is a symptom of you having dated better women than her in the past, regardless of your perceived smv), or she suspects that she is "your best (possible)lay ever.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

Perhaps the thread title should be something like sh1ttest SHOULDN'T exist is YOUR life .

A sh1ttest is always a symptom of an underlying issue. Mostly fading or lack off attraction. Mind you, the latter couid also come from the man. When a man is in doubts about a woman she might also sh1ttest him. Love bombing is a great example of this.

So unless two people are a perfect fit(whcih hardly ever happens) there will be tests, or situations that feel like you are getting tested. E.g slow responses. She won't necessarily e=mc2 a strategy to feck you up,but her lack of 100% sincere interest wil make it seem like she does.

If you dealt with enough of them, a sh1ttest won't scare you. It's part of the game. Again, either she knows or suspects you have a higher smv than she does( which is a symptom of you having dated better women than her in the past, regardless of your perceived smv), or she suspects that she is "your best (possible)lay ever.

if you have a higher smv than her, why would she test…that’s exactly what a girl wants

 

[Bigpapa]

Girls go out with guys they have low interest in ALL the time. For clout, free meals, curiosity, boredom. Avoid this.

rarely the case bro

if a woman goes out with you it means that she thinks that you are decent enough and is your job not to f8ck it up

if any guy could give her a free meal, why to go out with those that for sure she is not interested in?

women are very pragmatic when it comes to how spend the time best

this is black pill bullsh1t that you spit out

 

[Bigpapa]

if you have a higher smv than her, why would she test…that’s exactly what a girl wants

this higher smv bullsh1t only works with women bellow 7

with 7+ your high smv does not work to that extent ( unless you are this perfect guy that has everything maximized - but even then not to the extent that guys think )

if she has a lot of high smv suitors, the differentiation goes down to something else, namely game

one is to bang uglies and a totally different thing is to bang hotties

 

[Gamisch]

if you have a higher smv than her, why would she test…that’s exactly what a girl wants

I agree with @Bigpapa on this. If you ever had a woman with a similar (or slightly lower) smv you've had this happen to you. It aint that deep actually. For reference, from the 10 women I'll encounter this will be the case 3 or 4 times. 4 times it's the other way around with me being taken aback by her SMV. The other 2 cases are those rare moments of bliss when me and the woman are feeling equally.

A insecure woman will have to vent her frustration somehow. At some point she'll start testing you to see how dedicated you are.

Women,just like men, THINk they want higher smv than themselves. But when they have it all kinds of insecurities will com to the surface..

 

[CornbreadFed]

Guys go on dates knowing that the girl they are seeing is their only option or 4 max. Girls go on dates knowing that they can always screw their ex or 2-3 back up guys if they really need to. Just because a girl is on a similar smv on paper does not mean she sees it that way. This is why crying over the mythical Rich Prince Charming Chad is pointless because women will still manage to screw that up with their arrogance.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

I agree with @Bigpapa on this. If you ever had a woman with a similar (or slightly lower) smv you've had this happen to you. It aint that deep actually. For reference, from the 10 women I'll encounter this will be the case 3 or 4 times. 4 times it's the other way around with me being taken aback by her SMV. The other 2 cases are those rare moments of bliss when me and the woman are feeling equally.

A insecure woman will have to vent her frustration somehow. At some point she'll start testing you to see how dedicated you are.

Women,just like men, THINk they want higher smv than themselves. But when they have it all kinds of insecurities will com to the surface..

Cap
A healthy girl wants a her prince in shining armour, any girl meeting her favourite celeb will NOT sh1t test.
She will default to creating a spark aka sexual attraction.

Sh1t test/hold cold attitude = low interest or girl with mental health problems

 

[CornbreadFed]

Cap
A healthy girl wants a her prince in shining armour, any girl meeting her favourite celeb will NOT sh1t test.
She will default to creating a spark aka sexual attraction.

Sh1t test/hold cold attitude = low interest or girl with mental health problems

all it takes is one of her toxic friends or emotional thoughts to screw up any good situation. They mess with high value men constantly. Look at the shvt Tom Brady went through for example. Why don't these rich powerful men have dime piece wives then?

 

[SmoothSmooth]

Erm do you know how little high smv men there are in a woman’s world!
Even if she’s an 8, she doesn’t consider all her suitors 8s…the guy who’s captain of the team that she’s lusting for, that’s her 8, but the other good looking athletes on the team are just 6s to her. Guess who’s getting the sh1t test!

 

[Bigpapa]

Cap
A healthy girl wants a her prince in shining armour, any girl meeting her favourite celeb will NOT sh1t test.
She will default to creating a spark aka sexual attraction.

Sh1t test/hold cold attitude = low interest or girl with mental health problems

also celebs go to the most expensive places and do not pay anything. They actually take money from those places

this “ if I were a big celeb” is a lot of
Mental
Masturbation

 

[characternote]

From a purely cold approach perspective based on my own personal experience (and of gaming with various guys including chads)
I'd say it's like:

Approach a girl and she thinks you are hot enough to bang, and she's kinda interested, although you're not exactly her ideal. She will likely sh1t test you a bit, and if you don't mess it up, you'll likely get the lay

Approach a girl and say 'hi', and she knows she deffo wants to bang you. You are totally her type. She adores guys over 6ft 5 with blue eyes and tats. She doesn't sh1t test. She doesn't want to risk it and risk him getting offended or him assuming it's too hard work or whatever and hitting on a different girl and taking her home!

Approach a hot girl and say 'hi'. YOu're not her type. You are the godfather of game, but she doesn't care since she's not attracted to you. She'll basically ignore your opener etc, will show active disinterest, will reject any attempt at flirting and touch etc. Guys wrongly think of these as 'sh1t tests' and think they can turn the ship around if they have enough 'game' to pass the tests, although they are very missguided. These weren't 'tests'. She's just not into you and it's as obvious as she can make it without being super rude and taking a different kind of risk