Sexual Marketplace Evolution

[Manure Spherian]

Your mind has been f-cked more raw than Danny Masterson's anus by now. You have my(And I'm sure everyone else here's)pity

So ****ed I raise children, have a home, a wife, an advanced degree, a profession, close friends and family members, and am built better than nearly men my age.

I might actually be little ****ed up, but not from reading the aforementioned authors. F. Roger Devlin’s Sexual Utopia in Power is one of the best books I ever read. I wish I had it at sixteen years old.

 

[kavi]

To me its very clear whats going on and where we are headed.

IMO the bottom line is that higher quality men and women will soon evolve past the marriage system. As the world becomes wealthier and materially more advanced, the requirement or role of husband and wife will become rather meaningless once children are above infancy. So if a guy gets marries he can have 5+- good years with a wife raising kids, butoutside of those years, the traditional marriage relationship lacks meaning. In the old days a couple would stay married as generating wealth and building a family legacyma have meant something. But now with the material advancement of the world this may not be the most efficient set up.

The difference between now and the trad world shoud be considered. The opportunities today for legitimate learning and personal development are huge. Should a man be expected to stay with a mother and some children once he is not needed anymore. Maybe he can start another family or do other stuff.

Well I think the idea of being married to one person for life doesnt make sense anymore in the future unless they are living in some country town. But with globalisation, travel, opportunities for personal and professional development,a dynamic dating market etc the life of a above average male will be different to the trad system.

For the female perspective, they are running the game with the major goal of locking a man down for resources and marriage. But it will only take a shift in the economy for prices to go down, things to get cheaper, easier to raise kids etc, then women will understand they dont need to lock a man down for life but only a few years and then they will get real and easier to deal with.

But atm too many women are trying to be trad and lock a man down but also fcking around casually on the side and its all abit of a sh1tshow. The females just need to understand its not a game of trying to lock a man down, or any of that stuff, they just have to be nice to higher quality guys and stop asking for men to pay or be beta cos then which is what they are doing now they can only get loser beta husbands and those men are nothing.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Maybe he can start another family or do other stuff.

We would worsen fatherlessness even more and thereby all the social deviance that comes with it. What you describe is matriarchal mating, the way of the slum/ghetto and jungle.

 

[kavi]

We would worsen fatherlessness even more and thereby all the social deviance that comes with it. What you describe is matriarchal mating, the way of the slum/ghetto and jungle.

I dont think fatherlessness should be a problem. What does a father have to do anyway, teach their children morals and manners, like the average guy knows anything about that, personally I think the gov can do a better job. Then you have internet social media etc. What can a father do take their kids to sports, tell her daughter be a good girl? I mean these things will be discussed at a societal and global level whether dating relationships, educations, finances etc so a fathers pov wont be competitive with tech, gov and globalisation.

Then if more and more people live in urban environments without cars etc then children can walk around and be safe and i think fathers wont have much of a job or to be too worried.

Then with woman what is happening is we are at a tail-end of a generation of women fearing not having children and marriage, but now more females are getting over the anxiety of not having children or marriage so in the future if less women esp urban middle class women stop worrying about that so much and then the birth rates go down further and even fewer roles for husband provider guy.

Personally i wanna see the end of the husband provider beta male who is given some special or higher status in society when most of these men i know dont know anything about women or Game or anything about life. Its just pathetic for a woman to be trying to make her and her man/husband look good when he is just a provider nobody with no game or life knowledge, and he thinks he is some winner but the female finds herself in a weird position because in the modern world she will interact with other men, and loser provider husbands can make a women look desperate or needy to have him around when dealing with higher people.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I think the gov can do a better job.

Go to any slum in the US and see if it does.
Clearly you are ignorant on this topic.
Nearly all incarcerated men are fatherless.
Fatherless children are 37 x at greater risk for being runaways.

 

[kavi]

Thats more of an American issue I think. Some other western countries are more stable. Obviously you are talking about the ghetto and all races there but Middle Classes also get divorced and single parents but they dont have those issues.

It will depend on making those environments safer and better. Really those problems shouldnt exist in modern society and there should be safer environments hence many females prefer to live in urban areas rather than suburban areas. Gated communities and safety should be made more important.