To me its very clear whats going on and where we are headed.
IMO the bottom line is that higher quality men and women will soon evolve past the marriage system. As the world becomes wealthier and materially more advanced, the requirement or role of husband and wife will become rather meaningless once children are above infancy. So if a guy gets marries he can have 5+- good years with a wife raising kids, butoutside of those years, the traditional marriage relationship lacks meaning. In the old days a couple would stay married as generating wealth and building a family legacyma have meant something. But now with the material advancement of the world this may not be the most efficient set up.
The difference between now and the trad world shoud be considered. The opportunities today for legitimate learning and personal development are huge. Should a man be expected to stay with a mother and some children once he is not needed anymore. Maybe he can start another family or do other stuff.
Well I think the idea of being married to one person for life doesnt make sense anymore in the future unless they are living in some country town. But with globalisation, travel, opportunities for personal and professional development,a dynamic dating market etc the life of a above average male will be different to the trad system.
For the female perspective, they are running the game with the major goal of locking a man down for resources and marriage. But it will only take a shift in the economy for prices to go down, things to get cheaper, easier to raise kids etc, then women will understand they dont need to lock a man down for life but only a few years and then they will get real and easier to deal with.
But atm too many women are trying to be trad and lock a man down but also fcking around casually on the side and its all abit of a sh1tshow. The females just need to understand its not a game of trying to lock a man down, or any of that stuff, they just have to be nice to higher quality guys and stop asking for men to pay or be beta cos then which is what they are doing now they can only get loser beta husbands and those men are nothing.