I dated a girl that liked to cut, believe me it is a stress you really do not need.
It is a mental issue that nothing you can do or say can help, she has to deal with it, your not a shrink and even experts cant cure a cutter.
So exactly what the hell do you think you can do here?
I understand you may have feelings for her if she is a friend but trust me on this there is nothing you can do, also cutters mainly do it for attention and reliving stress, they say attention does not come into it, but eventually they reach out for sympathy from some-one knowing full well there problem is there’s alone.
The girl should not have burdened you with this extra stress.
Cutters are normally depressed ppl, or they have emotional issues, cutters are mainly female they use cutting to relive stress and anxiety, they see the pain as a release. Cutters don’t necessarily commit suicide but they have been know to, now knowing there is little to nothing you can do, how do you think now if she did go ahead and top her self, hard question but needs to be said, do you think you will be to blame since you did not help her stop? You see the problem, you are shifting responsibility here, this is not your problem and YOU can not sort it out for her, this is a stress and a burden most ppl cant deal with, since there is little to nothing you can do. Put akin to trying to get an addict of crack, you cant force them unless they try to stop for themselves, even using that line wont make a difference.
And you really think it is the BF making her cut, FFS get a grip you puzzy whipped Care bear, FFS she is playing with your nice nature and pouring her shi* onto you, no man can make some-one harm themselves beliving some-one else can more fool you tbh.
I would walk away from this whilst you still can, or at the very least avoid the subject, or tell her to go get some professional advice she has a diagnosed mental condition she needs prof’ advice not some kid/man with a do gooder sentiment.
Danjanbynature best advice tbh about it, problem is this sociaty will screw you over. Most wont see it though since they think words and nice sh** can sort this, but then again your we are not shrinks, dont think you know the answers to the worlds problems, fact is we dont, ppl are trained and payed for this stuff, dont be the di** with the big heart who is actually making things far worse.
