BaronOfHair
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Modify your choice of fashion statements like soI wear airpods in public to avoid people trying to interact with me for no reason
Modify your choice of fashion statements like soI wear airpods in public to avoid people trying to interact with me for no reason
This is the way people have to understand how easy it is to do this if you practice consistently people will be open to talk in social settings as long as you're not being a weirdo it's all about fun vibesI see a common theme to many posters that come here seeking advice. Most of you lack social skills and fear rejection. You don't know how to properly interact with others in a public setting. So how do you develop skills you don't have and push past fears that keep you from engaging others? YOU PRACTICE! And you can practice anywhere and everywhere. Your goal should be to have successful interactions with anyone, not to get some girls number.
Many years ago I was in a similar boat. I was recently divorced and didn't really enjoy talking to random strangers in public. I was't oblivious, but I had very little experience with women. I quickly realized that if I wanted to get girls I needed to change my mindset and improve my skills. So thats what I did. I pushed myself to engage all types of people wherever I went.
I practiced flirting with old ladies at the check out stand. I made many trips to the fragrance counter at Dillards just to interact with those girls as they were usually attractive. I'd strike up conversations with the guy at the deli counter and before I knew it I had a new friend.
I became a regular at a bar and got in with that social group and started playing volleyball and going to pool parties.
I spent a lot of time in strip clubs, my goal was to see how long I could keep a conversation going without paying any money. I made friends with the bouncers, front desk girl, dj, bathroom attendant and bartenders. Once the girls got to know me, they would always greet me and stop by for some conversation. I always felt really comfortable inside of a strip club so it made it easier to talk to the girls. Strippers tend to me more open and forthcoming than girls you might talk to at a regular bar. I could practice my conversation skills on 10 girls a night and not even get out of my chair. After a while I learned what made women tick, and what topics were most engaging. I ended up dating several strippers once I figured out the recipe.
One night a friend and I approached 10 girls in a bar district. We would walk right up to them and tell them they were hot and ask them if they wanted to make out. Some got pissed, some laughed, but there were a few that were willing. One of them my friend got her phone # and I ended up going out with her. That night we learned that approaching girls was no big deal, rejection was part of it, it was actually a lot of fun. Most of the time you will get shot down but thats with anything in life.
100.This is the way people have to understand how easy it is to do this if you practice consistently people will be open to talk in social settings as long as you're not being a weirdo it's all about fun vibes
Most guys here suffer because they don't have the charisma or rizz as Gen-Z calls it and want to approach women from an analytical POV, this is not how socializing or women work, once you put yourself out there and say **** it and willing to take chances you'd be surprised of the things that can happen!
Another BIG one.I wear sunglasses after dark, and it improved my life tremendously.
Making a move on a married woman (or a woman with a boyfriend) makes it questionable whether the rejection "counts" (because if the broad was single, there's a chance you might have gotten her to drop her panties)100.
Most men (including yours truly) oftentimes forget that EVERY woman is approachable, heck, it's a vital part of their existence. Simultaneously doing approaches is vital.part of ours. You can approach Hillary Clinton ( if you are into that like @GoodMan32 LOL) and she'll soft -reject you telling you she is married while blushing.
everything happens after jumping into deep waters and taking a leap of faith. That's why I detest people complaining about " corporate folks "; it's mainly an NPC complaint. The NPC wants to live life free of risks while still benefiting from others. These times literally separating boys from men.
If you : don't wanna take risk
Don't wanna maxxx.
Don't wanna put yourself out there ect ect ect
You won't get ANY coochie. Period.
Notice these same men are obsessed with only fans, strippers, and celebrity women. They are living and projecting in their own echo chambers.Another major issue I see is that men in the last 10 years have become entitled just as the women they are complaining about, especially in manopsdhere/Red PIll spaces which has even translated into the real world. They think because they are a certain race(yeah I said it),"Good guys" or work a low-skilled job with no upward mobility that should garner them a gorgeous woman. They think it's others' fault that they're not getting the results that they feel deserve.
The reality is no man is gonna get handouts unless you grew up in a rich family and 90% of us didn't. As a man you're gonna have to grind . Go out and develop skills, and diverse yourself i.e. education, personal skills, finance, emotional skills, social mastery skills, etc. Things take time, effort and work. The reality is a lot of men want success right away and in life it doesn't work like that. I'm 40 and I'm now just starting to understand things in finances that I was ignorant of just less than 10 years ago. Some of us are going to have to bust our a$$ longer and harder than others.
The thing is you gotta take action don't worry about failing as long as you learn that's the key!
Yeah, no man gets handouts, and most will never amass kill counts comparable to that of Warren Beatty or Robert Evans, during their respective heydays. Same way most women will never be The It Girl of (Insert era), in fashion similar to Sydney Sweeney at presentAnother major issue I see is that men in the last 10 years have become entitled just as the women they are complaining about, especially in manopsdhere/Red PIll spaces which has even translated into the real world. They think because they are a certain race(yeah I said it),"Good guys" or work a low-skilled job with no upward mobility that should garner them a gorgeous woman. They think it's others' fault that they're not getting the results that they feel deserve.
The reality is no man is gonna get handouts unless you grew up in a rich family and 90% of us didn't. As a man you're gonna have to grind . Go out and develop skills, and diverse yourself i.e. education, personal skills, finance, emotional skills, social mastery skills, etc. Things take time, effort and work. The reality is a lot of men want success right away and in life it doesn't work like that. I'm 40 and I'm now just starting to understand things in finances that I was ignorant of just less than 10 years ago. Some of us are going to have to bust our a$$ longer and harder than others.
The thing is you gotta take action don't worry about failing as long as you learn that's the key!
I practiced flirting with old ladies at the check out stand. I made many trips to the fragrance counter at Dillards just to interact with those girls as they were usually attractive. I'd strike up conversations with the guy at the deli counter and before I knew it I had a new friend.
Do you enter any social scenario with the intent of making friend?I made friends
Why not try to get a more individualised style? The surfer, the artist, the rastafari, the muscle man, the entrepreneur, the extrovert, the tattoo/beard man and MANY more examples. And preferably a combination of some of those.
My intent is usually just to socialize. Sure if its some attractive girl that i am interested in and I'm at a bar there is more driving that interaction, but my initial focus is on fun/interesting social conersation.This is interesting since I think I do this, but I would be very curious to hear the way you do it. What’s your intention?
Do you enter any social scenario with the intent of making friend?
If yes, how?
Do you present yourself as a friendly creature or with the mischievousness of a misterious man?
Absolutely!!Another major issue I see is that men in the last 10 years have become entitled just as the women they are complaining about, especially in manopsdhere/Red PIll spaces which has even translated into the real world. They think because they are a certain race(yeah I said it),"Good guys" or work a low-skilled job with no upward mobility that should garner them a gorgeous woman. They think it's others' fault that they're not getting the results that they feel, they deserve.
The reality is no man is gonna get handouts unless you grew up in a rich family and 90% of us didn't. As a man you're gonna have to grind . Go out and develop skills, and diversify yourself i.e. education, personal skills, finance, emotional skills, social mastery skills, etc. Things take time, effort and work. The reality is a lot of men want success right away and in life it doesn't work like that. I'm 40 and I'm now just starting to understand things in finances that I was ignorant of just less than 10 years ago. Some of us are going to have to bust our a$$ longer and harder than others.
The thing is you gotta take action don't worry about failing as long as you learn that's the key!
We can always put them in camps if there's no war going on...Absolutely!!
It makes my blood boil every time when I read comments talking about men don't wanna work because "the ceo gets rich" and because " women don't notice them but only the top 10%".
The irony is that if some of these things really mattered, they would've put everything on becoming and maintaining to be that man, or at least work very hard on it. Every man I know who is part of or close to the top10/ 15 % takes EXTREMELY good care of himself. No halfazzing, everything gotta be on point. All facets of the game regarding women and people in general. They will also demand respect from fellow men .
The reason why "that group of people " feels more entitled is because they grew up in a 2 parents household, but other groups will all have their own reason to why they'll feel entitled as well. In every other era many of them would've been send to a war and die, or die while doing some heavy hazardous labor six days a week. There never was a woman for evey man..ever.
Not even passport bro-ing will help them.
Well said. Which are jobs or career that could develop all those characteristics altogheter?Absolutely!!
It makes my blood boil every time when I read comments talking about men don't wanna work because "the ceo gets rich" and because " women don't notice them but only the top 10%".
The irony is that if some of these things really mattered, they would've put everything on becoming and maintaining to be that man, or at least work very hard on it. Every man I know who is part of or close to the top10/ 15 % takes EXTREMELY good care of himself. No halfazzing, everything gotta be on point. All facets of the game regarding women and people in general. They will also demand respect from fellow men .
The reason why "that group of people " feels more entitled is because they grew up in a 2 parents household, but other groups will all have their own reason to why they'll feel entitled as well. In every other era many of them would've been send to a war and die, or die while doing some heavy hazardous labor six days a week. There never was a woman for evey man..ever.
Not even passport bro-ing will help them.
The old lady concurs! ROFLMAOOld ladies have heard it all. They’re great banter partners. One in the city the other day gave me my credit card that I forgot at the capital grille the evening prior and I asked her if there was any money left on it. She told me she went out and bought herself a pair of shoes. I told her it was fair trade for her troubles. Old women can be fantastic sources of counsel as well.
SalesWell said. Which are jobs or career that could develop all those characteristics altogheter?
Speak of Beezelebub https://think.kera.org/2024/11/06/some-top-college-students-cant-get-through-a-novel/Same reason, as you say, many adults DO have to sharpen their reading proficiency by consuming literature meant for 1st and 2nd graders https://www.npr.org/2008/10/20/95894652/toppling-adult-illiteracy So often in life, we focus myopically on one thing (Be it playing football or Dungeons And Dragons), we fail to develop vital areas of life
Here in The US, over four decades of treating STEM ed as the be all and end all of our lives has created a population of folks(particularly men) who can build computers from scratch, yet barely comprehend the menu at Denny's or chat with the check-out girl at CVS. Even though the latter increases your chances of the staff going the extra mile for you
Of course, all this overlooks a more salient fact which rarely gets much discussion...