cordoncordon said:
Something is "off" or odd about this entire thread. I can't put my finger on it yet, but all is not as it seems, that I can promise you.
Oh stop it, you're going to break everyones heart. I bet you make alot of promises to women, and break them. Ouch.
The only odd thing here is the word odd in your meaningless reply. I can totally assure you, everything is true. I can promise you that.
floydb25, I appreciate your opinion
however, this girl is not what you describe. I never lowered myself to attract her, actually, she's lowering herself for my attention at this point. I just had to tweak a couple of things. Just because she's a hot babe does not mean she's worthless in any way, I have fun with this chick. Dont get me wrong floydb25, she's super hot banging bltch who attracts almost every guy that steps by her, but she also has a good personality and sense of whats right from wrong. Like every other woman, she has her share of shlt tests, and emotional roller-coasters, but oddly enough other than confidence, she's not much different than a 7 in terms of relationships. I'm just not the LTR type, I get bored of exploring the same cave over and over again.
I'm going to conclude this experiment soon. I think you've understood what I mean, if not here it is.
You have to deal differently with a 9.5 than a 7 or 8.
You have to tweak your approach, mindset, your life has to be more important to you than her. Remember this.
She will test you.
NEVER give in! Never! Do not respond to these tests at all, just pay attention to what you're doing and brush it off.
Difference makes a difference
Don't do what your friends do. (I didn't say ignore your friends) Be unique, do unique things everyday, not for her but yourself. Your life would get so much better.
Don't hate people, show off or act like a smartass
I've made 1 mistake with this girl (go figure im human) and that is I always thought I was better than everybody. I've been like this since I was a kid, always competitive. She saw that as childish behavior and call me out on it. She's used to guys showing off in front of her, so be unique.
Keep other women close
Yes, do not ignore other girls for her. If she show's emotional stupidity such as jealousy, strictly explain to her that you chose her for a reason
Guy friends
She might have more guy friends than girl friends (My gf does) Do not take this as a threat. Remind yourself that she's with you, and not them. If thoughts such as infidelity come across your mind, quickly move on to other things. This bring me to the most important point I think when with a hot babe
Do NOT be jealous
Ever, ever, ever, ever, ever! Learn to silence this emotionally destructive brain fart.
Gentlemen, my conclusion in this;
A 9.5 needs to be
dealt differently than a 7 or man 8, BUT, she's a woman and no different than them in emotional terms. Only difference is she has many more choices in the line of dating than a 7, AND her confidence that AFC's help boost, (as well as her ugly ass lack-of-confidence friends) might explode her into a overgrown ogre bltch.. at times. If you peel off the outer layer of her gorgeous looks and her exploding confidence, you will find that she is no more than a emotional husk with the same needs as any other woman. With that being said, do not overlook her personality as every woman is different. She WILL come to like you alot, maybe even love you. Just remember these points.
Be different.
Exceed her confidence, as well as your own.
Arouse her emotionally at times.
Cut out jealousy forever.
I dont wan't to explain any more to you but this. You need to get out there and bag yourself a hot babe, with a couple of tips I outlined, find your own way with them.
I'll see you guys soon.
Formally DR Exile (Now in prison for dissecting a blonde bltch)
