Push and Pull - The Experiment

[exile663dfx]

wow - you're so f*cked in the head right now, kid. If you were over this girl, the least you could have done was to meet up with her and give her some kind of reason that had nothing to do with her on why you had to break it off with her, instead you had this enormous insecurity when she didn't pick up the phone and you broke up with her like a pissy little insecure child. Shame on you. The world and women are not out to get you, you are NO better then anyone else and you need to learn some compassion. You think you have confidence, but it's empty, for no reason arrogance. Seriously you should appologize to her for how you behaved. That would be the adult, man thing to do based on how you behaved.

This is seriously the saddest most pathetic reply I have ever seen on SS. Not only are you a pansy, but a sad excuse of a man if you are one. You justify compassion and frail emotion, but fail to see how replaceable you are and easily seen as just another foolish moron who thinks I should apologize for something I want to do in my life and have control over. I have no insecurities with her because I never was into her, I just wanted to end it. You justify infidelity, liars and can't see that I broke up with her because I wanted to. And people like you are the ones who always think about how SAD or BAD women feel so you should apologize.

Go apologize to your girlfriend that you're on this site, you feminist buttplug.

 

[Single4Life]

Yep, great thread. Good job.

Just sucks all of us men end up being cynical. Once you understand how women work, it's just depressing. I still keep hope alive in me, that I will end up with one of the legit ones, though. I've seen and spoken to intelligent, down to earth, sweet, 9+ women (only two of them in my lifetime)... and no they didn't have issues. They were just raised by a good family and actually had a good self-education.

You have to find the idealists who resist temptation, actually give a damn about edifying themselves, and have high morals. Combine that with 9+ looks, those exist in the world...

Anyway, Bro fist.

 

[Single4Life]

Gentlemen its over.

I finally pulled the plug tonight after I busted balls at the gym. Feel great :box:

Ok seriously a situation came up where I couldn't help myself but do it.

Here's what happened.

So we were supposed to hang out around 7:00pm tonight when I called her she ignored my call. Yes IGNORED my call.

Text:

Me: You know it's rude not to answer right before were supposed to do something.

Her: Im sorry my phone is going to die.

Me: Yeah? Give it CPR, it takes a minute.

Her: But my friend is going to call so I can tell her something important!

Me: Sounds good to me, whenever you're done with your friend, please remember NOT to call me.

Her: Huh?

I dont text.



She calls two minutes later.

Her: What do you mean baby?

Me: I mean i'm single and you are too.

Her: You serious?

Me: My phones gonna die (Hang up)


2 minute text later.

Her: Are you kidding me right now?? Why???
Her: Hello???
Her: ?????

Calls.
Calls.
Calls.


I know this is unorthodox, cruel whatever. I'm done with her anyway, had a plate on the side just in case, gonna come handy tonight.

Good night, fellas, keep it DON!

I gotta say, this is perceived as childish, the way you broke it off.

You made it seem like "what? don't pick up my call? im out of here anyway".. and over the text/phone?

You should have just broke it off during a dinner or something, having a normal conversation with her and act like it's no big deal and your time together in the sun has passed. She would freak out still, but it keeps your value high and will make her miss you even more.

 

[exile663dfx]

I gotta say, this is perceived as childish, the way you broke it off.

You made it seem like "what? don't pick up my call? im out of here anyway".. and over the text/phone?

You should have just broke it off during a dinner or something, having a normal conversation with her and act like it's no big deal and your time together in the sun has passed. She would freak out still, but it keeps your value high and will make her miss you even more.

You make a solid point, only if I wanted to spend money and my time to actually do this. Yeah right, come to dinner with me and just so you know this is the last dinner i'll be taking you to, so eat up. Boom crying bltch scene at the restaurant. No thanks.

Dude my point is not EVERYTHING is picture perfect and movie like. You can't base things of as what's right from wrong. You should only know that you're willing to trust yourself and do things because you want to.

Peep this and remember it. MEN are DISPOSABLE. We are the ones TRYING to make everything work, go after them, open,close whatever crap. Even the NO CONTACT trying and win her back is utterly bullshlt. It's still trying by us. I look at it the opposite, them trying for once.

I'm disgusted that I see reply from guys telling me that I was a child, criticizing my own decision to protect her. What the hell is wrong with you?:nono:

 

[AlphaNate]

I don't think he's particularly worried about whether or not she misses him more, bro...

**** the haters, exile. I learned some things from this. Strangely, I completely agree with pretty much everything you've said as well. Great minds think alike?

Keep improving you. You're fantastically good at this for your age. Hell, for any age.

EDIT: Ninja'd by OP.

 

[yuppaz]

Your just mad at the world, kid and out to get revenge on girls that didn't do anything to you because you were too weak handed before. It's very small of you and it shows how immature you are. This girl dodged a bullet with you & I feel bad for your next victim. Btw what you did was not push & pull at all, it was @sshole game. It can work very well on lse girls but psychologically healthy girls won't put up with it. Congratulations on turning into a duchbag. Sosuave posters can learn a good lesson from this on how to be a scared little boy and how to lash out vs. Being a man.......

 

[exile663dfx]

Your just mad at the world, kid and out to get revenge on girls that didn't do anything to you because you were too weak handed before. It's very small of you and it shows how immature you are. This girl dodged a bullet with you & I feel bad for your next victim. Btw what you did was not push & pull at all, it was @sshole game. It can work very well on lse girls but psychologically healthy girls won't put up with it. Congratulations on turning into a duchbag. Sosuave posters can learn a good lesson from this on how to be a scared little boy and how to lash out vs. Being a man.......

Yes because this is considered murder and every girl is a victim. Revenge, victim, dodged a bullet, mental abuse? Haha dude you're a complete syfy idiot. Guys like you make me sick to my stomach, old man.

 

[pyros]

Hi.

I think this is just out of the norm. First because she's a 9.5 and second, because your a Disc Jockey. So you make a lot of money, go to a lot of parties, you're kind of famous and you work a lot. Good. She's happy to be with you because of your 'fame'. That is what makes you desirable. I hope you do not change work so you're a gardener...

 

[loveshogun]

Yes because this is considered murder and every girl is a victim. Revenge, victim, dodged a bullet, mental abuse? Haha dude you're a complete syfy idiot. Guys like you make me sick to my stomach, old man.

To be fair, you don't exactly sound like a happy guy.

But hey, whatever. It's the internet. And at least she's still good looking.

 

[exile663dfx]

To the above, yes it is. I am extremely happy with my life, I dont think it could get any better. I do what I love, and I have a good career. Since the heart attack I had it's been even better. Can't complain that im still breathing.

 

[yuppaz]

You have a lot of growing up to do little guy.

 

[exile663dfx]

You have a lot of growing up to do little guy.

Opinions are like asshoIes, everyones got one, but you are the biggest asshoIe there is, old guy.

 

[Man of Awesome]

Interesting experiment, but the ending was so random and cruel. Treating people like sh1t → someone's gonna treat you like that as well...law of the universe.

 

[exile663dfx]

Like you say, it is cruel. You've been warned from the first post, but your opinion does not matter. I've done this experiment for you guys to see how hot women work and how to keep them working for you. How it ended shoulnd't be your concern. Anyway it could always been worse.

 

[loveshogun]

Like you say, it is cruel. You've been warned from the first post, but your opinion does not matter. I've done this experiment for you guys to see how hot women work and how to keep them working for you. How it ended shoulnd't be your concern. Anyway it could always been worse.

Again, you are an angry dude. You don't care, which is fine, but you seem perplexed at some of our reactions.

If it helps, some of us feel that there's a difference between being a p*ssy AFC, and being an independent, strong male.

Most of us wouldn't call that difference "being an psychopath."

Well, at least you're not boring.

Go and reproduce the results.

 

[youngmack]

exile663dfx....You are a freaking genius, and trust me hes right, we guys are too freaking replaceable to females.. i got my heart broken by this girl over a year ago and im still not over her as of yet. I've tried everything to..i still even sometimes cry myself to sleep..I want to become like you exile663dfx instead of always becoming infatuated,emotional, and being clingy to girls

 

[bigneil]

You have to find the idealists who resist temptation, actually give a damn about edifying themselves, and have high morals. Combine that with 9+ looks, those exist in the world...

Wishful thinking I'm afraid. The only difference between the sweetheart and the douche bag is that the sweetheart is attracted to you.

 

[DJ Bax]

Very intresting experiment, very intresting results, I also find the different reactions very intresting. I dont completely agree with how you ended it however you never showed her that you deeply cared about her or anything like that. So its not like she deserved any special type of break up, you handled the break up the same way you handled the entire relationship.

 

[Young Juan]

START RANT:

I really don't get why so many guys are acting like surrogate emotional tampons for this hot broad they never even met or know?!?! Half of this board, nah, f-that, 3/4's of the replies since the break up post sound like a bunch of pvssy feminists rights broads. Where the F are your testicles and testosterone?

Dude said from post 1 EXACTLY what this was! Now you're mad because it actually happened? STFU and Get the F out of here with that sh!t! You knew what it was, you knew what the point of it was, so why did you continue to read and follow it if you knew you didn't like it? I mean, you guys are acting like he was the nicest guy in the world for 4 months and then all of sudden broke up with this broad out of the blue?!?! Come on man! He was an arse from the jump to the finish! If anything, you should be applauding his consistency!

He didn't dump her because of the phone call, he was looking for ANY reason to dump her (that chick was on damn good behavior up until then) and used the phone call as an excuse when the broad thought she was too big for her britches and tried to test him again. Could it come off as insecure, etc? In a vacuum? Yes. In the context of the entirety of this thread? No

How did so many "men" all of a sudden become captain save-a-hoe's? C'mon bruh, you ziggans are actin like a bunch of hoes!

On the other side, there's also a bunch of dudes actin like this is the Pearl Harbor of the war against hot b!tches. Ya'll dudes is actin out ya'll arses too!

It is, what it is: a behavioral experiment you got to observe. Some like the technique, some disagree with the technique, but the point of it is read the results. If you dislike the method, you should STFU unless it you think the method somehow skewed the results, which I don't see.

HOT damn this board has become a bunch of grown ass pvssy boys. Get offline and save your own hoes!

END RANT

I mean, can't we all just get along?