Manure Spherian
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 16, 2023
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- 45
Thanks. As I’ve said, “girlfriend and boyfriend,” to me, is some vague designation of vague situation. Are these people serious life partners? Do they have similar long-term life aims and living together? In that case, I guess we can apply the gf-bf term, but that’s more similar to a marriage, just without a license. That I understand. The rest I believe are in the relationsh-t category, simply two adults screwing each other on borrowed time as there is no serious relationship aim.He keeps saying this and he has a great point.
As I’ve said elsewhere, what other men do in this area is not my business. My experience and observation tells me that most gf-bf situations are worthless. Hence my hierarchy of relationships stated elsewhere, in order:
1. Family formation/marriage (and yes, I recognize marriage as a social institution in its current form has been thoroughly degraded). Nuclear family that is, with close ties to extended family and in-laws. Alternatively something resembling marriage as described above.
2. MGTOW.
3. Casual sex.
4. Legal escort.
5. Girlfriend.
Personally I’ve gotten deep satisfaction and joy from marriage and children. But if I were a single middle-aged man the above is how I’d look at things. I see few or maybe even no reason why I would commit to a vague scenario with my time, emotion, money, energy, etc.