Promiscuity and Pair Bonding

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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/6n4csz


The OP (woman) is Bipolar and has a notch count of 20+. She basically warns other women not to be 304's. Her ability to pair bond with other men has taken a huge hit. Seems like most of the women in the forum who reacted to her have some common sense.
 

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10 signs a woman lost the ability to Pair bond

-She a size queen-If a woman asks you if you got a big one she is done
-She is sexual of the bat
-She sends you nudes ASAP
-She says she's picky has been single for a long time but she always has sex
-She swallows your load the first night or lets you bareback her
-She wants you to slap her during sex
-She is ok with you videotaping or taking pictures of the sex right away
-She comes to your house for the first date
-She tells you she is only looking to hook up (yes promiscuous women do that in 2023 believe it or not)
-She has an Onlyfans account
 
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The OP (woman) is Bipolar and has a notch count of 20+. She basically warns other women not to be 304's. Her ability to pair bond with other men has taken a huge hit. Seems like most of the women in the forum who reacted to her have some common sense.
A few years ago there was an official study which showed a direct correlation between the number of partners that a woman has had and the probability of her filling for a divorce (if she enters a marriage). Basically how probable is for her to get bored.

It stated that if a woman marries her first, the probability of staying together was like 85%, and after the sixth or seventh partner the probability for her to stay in a long marriage was like 15%.

Look it up.
 

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Pair Bonding is like Frequencies vibing and harmonisizing together. If your playing in tune and beating together it is a bond. If you are just together it dont mean ****. Everything is about frequencies vibing and harmonizing. If a DJ mixes two songs together correctly then it sounds good but if it aint in time it breaks down.

If you wanna bond you have to vibe and harmonise and be in tune, producing complex, exciting and fun patterns.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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The video that is mentioned in that reddit thread:
Its not bad all, she has some good points.
 

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I have not looked into this enough but im suspect of this body count destroying pair bonding. I dont buy into it simply because women are made not found.

You will NEVER know her true count. The smart ones know this
True, but there are subtle cues.

Like for example - how good is she in bed, is s*x a big deal for her, does she like partying (even at 30+), is she addicted to social media (specifically - is she 24/7 on Messenger/Viber/etc.) and so on.
 

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I have not looked into this enough but im suspect of this body count destroying pair bonding. I dont buy into it simply because women are made not found.

You will NEVER know her true count. The smart ones know this
Even if it does, I see no point in focusing on her ability to do it in the first place. This used to be a topic brought up here all the time, again I just don't see why, bond or not she's gonna react negatively to your behaviour if it's bad and good if it's good.

I suppose we all can't be bullet proof all the time but I mean if she is gonna leave you because you broke the egg yolk or something like this why are you even wasting time with it
 

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A few years ago there was an official study which showed a direct correlation between the number of partners that a woman has had and the probability of her filling for a divorce (if she enters a marriage). Basically how probable is for her to get bored.

It stated that if a woman marries her first, the probability of staying together was like 85%, and after the sixth or seventh partner the probability for her to stay in a long marriage was like 15%.

Look it up.
Through observation, this holds up. Hits close to home :lol:

Conclusion: Don't Marry/LTR 304's. They're too risky.

You think it would be simple, but most guys don't see it.
 

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I have not looked into this enough but im suspect of this body count destroying pair bonding. I dont buy into it simply because women are made not found.

You will NEVER know her true count. The smart ones know this
I have no direct evidence, only anecdotal evidence (take as you will); mother, grandmother, family friends, cousins, etc.

I do believe there's a correlation between Body Count and ability to pair bond, at least w/ a guy. If nothing else, if becomes way more difficult, and she has to put effort into the pair bonding.

Tying to find out a woman's body count is pointless imo. Women are duplicitous, manipulative and cunning by nature, even if they're a "good girl". They're never going to directly reveal. The only thing you can do is look at her behavior, and how she talks (read between the lines). You can take a good guess, and analyze the risk.

What about a woman's ability to attach to her child, or love their child? Does promiscuity affect that?
 

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10 signs a woman lost the ability to Pair bond

-She a size queen-If a woman asks you if you got a big one she is done
-She is sexual of the bat
-She sends you nudes ASAP
-She says she's picky has been single for a long time but she always has sex
-She swallows your load the first night or lets you bareback her
-She wants you to slap her during sex
-She is ok with you videotaping or taking pictures of the sex right away
-She comes to your house for the first date
-She tells you she is only looking to hook up (yes promiscuous women do that in 2023 believe it or not)
-She has an Onlyfans account
Looks like I will be staying single forever. FML
 

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Pair Bonding is like Frequencies vibing and harmonisizing together. If your playing in tune and beating together it is a bond. If you are just together it dont mean ****. Everything is about frequencies vibing and harmonizing. If a DJ mixes two songs together correctly then it sounds good but if it aint in time it breaks down.

If you wanna bond you have to vibe and harmonise and be in tune, producing complex, exciting and fun patterns.

Yeh but the DJ has a sync button these days.
 

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If I'm only wanting sex or fun (short term), it's not a big deal either way. She can be a massive 304 for all I care.

The issue comes down to the long term (LTR, family).
 

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The more bodies she has, the more likely she is to leave you.. I mean it's just another dik, just another experience, one of many experiences.

It's a familiar process right.

This dude isn't working out, let's start again. I have experience of starting again, as I have started again 12x already, so it's not unfamiliar its not even scary, I'm going to roll the dice once again.

Disney can't be wrong? My prince is waiting, I just need to get outhere. There is someone for everyone right?

If she has had lots of practice... My personal opinion is, she will leave.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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I have no direct evidence, only anecdotal evidence (take as you will); mother, grandmother, family friends, cousins, etc.

I do believe there's a correlation between Body Count and ability to pair bond, at least w/ a guy. If nothing else, if becomes way more difficult, and she has to put effort into the pair bonding.

Tying to find out a woman's body count is pointless imo. Women are duplicitous, manipulative and cunning by nature, even if they're a "good girl". They're never going to directly reveal. The only thing you can do is look at her behavior, and how she talks (read between the lines). You can take a good guess, and analyze the risk.

What about a woman's ability to attach to her child, or love their child? Does promiscuity affect that?

My ex told me her body count without me even asking, just in a conversation.

10 bodies, age 24... You can bet your azz that more like 18 bodies.

They don't count the random blow jobs, the odd one night stand.
 

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Smart men would not put a ring on this in the first place. Its still on the guy. Sry man its just the way it is.

Guys ask yourselves this. Would you rather be with a girl who is 100% oberdient with a 20 body count or a girl with 1 that is a complete kuntt at every turn?
If you can even find out. You always go by her behaviour and how she treats you. Obedient women are the best women. The cronically obstinent ones are the ones to discard.
Fair point.. I choose the obedient one, however when things go wrong (which they can do) due to her experience with many other men, she might dik hop to the next dude to the familiarity of experiencing many men and Many diks.
 

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She might be like:

"What does 'body count' really mean?"

It sounds stupid simple, but I think that's how women are when it comes to figuring this **** out :lol:
 
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Smart men would not put a ring on this in the first place. Its still on the guy. Sry man its just the way it is.

Guys ask yourselves this. Would you rather be with a girl who is 100% oberdient with a 20 body count or a girl with 1 that is a complete kuntt at every turn?
If you can even find out. You always go by her behaviour and how she treats you. Obedient women are the best women. The cronically obstinent ones are the ones to discard.
Of course you would not put a ring on such woman, and most times should also not even get into an LTR with.

I get your point, but on average, the 20 body count woman statistically is going to be less submissive/attracted than the woman with a body count of one.

And by that I mean submissive to an average or slightly above average man, not the tall and jacked multi-millionaire that is always referenced in red pill examples.

Why bother attracting or "taming" a high body count woman in the first place (even if she is obedient), if you can find a submissive low body count woman?
 

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When things go wrong then what is your plan?
How do they go wrong? What happens?
What is wrong and what is right?
I like these questions. Forces you to think about the situation.

Spin plates, abundance mindset, mental point of origin. When something does go wrong, it won't hit you as hard.

Looking in the mirror (not lying to yourself about your value), introspection. Understanding that men and women view love and respect differently than men. Women view love opportunistically, and respect is given. Men view love idealistically, and respect is earned.

I think we sometimes forget the fundamentals or the variables involved (for lack of a better word). Maybe our emotions or **** clouds our judgment.

Promiscuous women lose value to men who value themselves.

Broke, weak men
have no value to women who value themselves.

I think Rollo Tomassi said this, but men are the true romantics disguised as pragmatists. Whereas women are the true pragmatists, disguised as romantics.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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