Promiscuity and Pair Bonding

[mbc0029]

I would say that living your own life and puting yourself first is most important.

I agree. Mental point of origin is where it all starts. It seems to set the foundation for everything else.

I still struggle with this at times.

 

[johnrambo]

I think by saying if a women has had sex with more then 1 dude or 20 you are basically saying they are malfunctioning droids from star wars.
Its a Really Fcked up way of thinking.
What about a business women who is 29 yrs old and has been to 50 countries and has 30 partners but has a functioning life and is just doing fine?

So shes fcked up? How the fck do you know without spending time with her?

Some of you guys are just RP be facists.
Maybe start a new wave Amish community. Lol

This mind set you all have comes from 1 Thought. FEAR OF BEING CHEATED ON.
Not healthy

The 29 yo who has 30 body counts in 50 countries may have a "functional life" but she can't pair bond. Look for those women with the "thousand c0ck stare". You can see that she is soulless. You are just another c0ck to her, nothing else. Go try for yourself and see whether it's true or not.

 

[Smooth_texter]

I think by saying if a women has had sex with more then 1 dude or 20 you are basically saying they are malfunctioning droids from star wars.
Its a Really Fcked up way of thinking.
What about a business women who is 29 yrs old and has been to 50 countries and has 30 partners but has a functioning life and is just doing fine?

So shes fcked up? How the fck do you know without spending time with her?

Some of you guys are just RP be facists.
Maybe start a new wave Amish community. Lol

This mind set you all have comes from 1 Thought. FEAR OF BEING CHEATED ON.
Not healthy

Yes, the example you have given is a woman that has lived too much life, and is also climbing the corporate ladder. I would be able to discern those things on the first date from a simple conversation.

How do I know this - I have had an STR with a Senior Management woman aged 30-31 years old, that also has travelled and has had enough partners and fun. She changed moods easily and was an emotional mess due to the many years of hedonism (in her personal life) and corporate stress. So now I know how to recognize and not deal with unnecessary bull**** from similar women.

I wouldn't try to enter an LTR with such a woman (I might have some fun), but that is my personal preference. You do you.

 

[soulforge]

When things go wrong then what is your plan?
How do they go wrong? What happens?
What is wrong and what is right?

It can be anything... Something major to something maybe not so serious.

But I'm under the impression that if she gone through lots of guys/relationships, she will be less likely to stay in her current situation and try resolve the issue

 

[Gamisch]

Wtf felllas.

Y'all be talking like a bodycount of 20 is out of the ordinary hahaha.

WAKE UP. Its 2023, not 1990. 20 is a number most women willl have way before they hit 20.

Unbelievable that even on a niche forum dedicated to study women and game , men are yet this naive.

20 boyfriends ya mean? Ah ,oke. Thats more realistic. A 27 y.o woman with 20 bfs means she's been dating since she's 15(REALITY) and had some "typical 3 months stints " some longer ltrs.

I've slept with WAY more than 20 women. As a Caribbean black dude in a predominantly white country. Let alone the damage a blonde hb8,5 woman can do , even if she doesn't want to.

Stop making a fool out of yourselfs and the entire community .

 

[soulforge]

When things go wrong then what is your plan?
How do they go wrong? What happens?
What is wrong and what is right?

To be honest I never ask a chick for her body count neither do I want to know.

 

[soulforge]

Wtf felllas.

Y'all be talking like a bodycount of 20 is out of the ordinary hahaha.

WAKE UP. Its 2023, not 1990. 20 is a number most women willl have way before they hit 20.

Unbelievable that even on a niche forum dedicated to study women and game , men are yet this naive.

20 boyfriends ya mean? Ah ,oke. Thats more realistic. A 27 y.o woman with 20 bfs means she's been dating since she's 15(REALITY) and had some "typical 3 months stints " some longer ltrs.

I've slept with WAY more than 20 women. As a Caribbean black dude in a predominantly white country. Let alone the damage a blonde hb8,5 woman can do , even if she doesn't want to.

Stop making a fool out of yourselfs and the entire community .

This is true. Expecting a low body count woman in 2023 is honestly delusional.

We simply need to adapt to the current dating market space.

It is what it is.

 

[Gamisch]

This is true. Expecting a low body count woman in 2023 is honestly delusional.

We simply need to adapt to the current dating market space.

It is what it is.

Yes bro.

Its disheartening I know..I'll make a thread on my homeboy whose Muslim and got married to a 18 y.o outta nowhere.

One more thing: the woman in the OP is obviously lying about her bodycount of 20.. the way she sounds its more like AT LEAST multiplied by 4. And that's me being generous and a gentleman.

 

[mbc0029]

Yes bro.

Its disheartening I know..I'll make a thread on my homeboy whose Muslim and got married to a 18 y.o outta nowhere.

One more thing: the woman in the OP is obviously lying about her bodycount of 20.. the way she sounds its more like AT LEAST multiplied by 4. And that's me being generous and a gentleman.

Sad, but true.

 

[johnrambo]

WAKE UP. Its 2023, not 1990. 20 is a number most women willl have way before they hit 20.

You are right. That's why civilization is doomed and the divorce rate is so high.

 

[Smooth_texter]

Wtf felllas.

Y'all be talking like a bodycount of 20 is out of the ordinary hahaha.

WAKE UP. Its 2023, not 1990. 20 is a number most women willl have way before they hit 20.

Unbelievable that even on a niche forum dedicated to study women and game , men are yet this naive.

20 boyfriends ya mean? Ah ,oke. Thats more realistic. A 27 y.o woman with 20 bfs means she's been dating since she's 15(REALITY) and had some "typical 3 months stints " some longer ltrs.

I've slept with WAY more than 20 women. As a Caribbean black dude in a predominantly white country. Let alone the damage a blonde hb8,5 woman can do , even if she doesn't want to.

Stop making a fool out of yourselfs and the entire community .

As I have said before, the things that I say or have experienced may differ from the experiences of other men here.

I do not live in the US, or even in a western country for that matter. Although traditional values were shattered here during the last 30 years, currently there are still women that have (relatively) low body counts (4-6). Some of them even do not have new sex partners outside a relationship. The high body count women here usually have had between 10-20.

That is why in the above example that I gave, I said that I do not want to deal with 20+ body count women in LTRs.

I do agree on your arguments for the US and the west as a whole.

 

[Gamisch]

As I have said before, the things that I say or have experienced may differ from the experiences of other men here.

I do not live in the US, or even in a western country for that matter. Although traditional values were shattered here during the last 30 years, currently there are still women that have (relatively) low body counts (4-6). Some of them even do not have new sex partners outside a relationship. The high body count women here usually have had between 10-20.

That is why in the above example that I gave, I said that I do not want to deal with 20+ body count women in LTRs.

I do agree on your arguments for the US and the west as a whole.

Ah oke yes i agree that outside of the west it's unheard of to have more than x number of (bed)partners for a man.(edit I meant women/woman!!)

Unfortunately in the west we stimulate women to "find themselves " by sleeping with a copy of a copy of a copy until they're burned out and indeed,unable to pair bond .

They'll sleep with the same basic bytch azz degenerate Chad/Tyrone clone ,BUT we as men must also look in the mirror as WE are the ones chasing and worshipping these Jezebels.

 

[johnrambo]

Unfortunately in the west we stimulate women to "find themselves " by sleeping with a copy of a copy of a copy until they're burned out and indeed,unable to pair bond .

I like this analogy of "sleeping with a copy of a copy of a copy". Mathematically, it'll be like f(f(f(f(f(x)))) She gets numbed in the end and develops the "thousand c0ck stare", a totally soulless NPC robot.

 

[pipeman84]

WAKE UP. Its 2023, not 1990. 20 is a number most women willl have way before they hit 20.

Unbelievable that even on a niche forum dedicated to study women and game , men are yet this naive.

You make 2 big claims, therefore you need to bring some solid evidence to substantiate them.
1. That young women are more promiscuous now than in 1990.
2. That women fvck 20 guys by the time they hit 20yrs old. Man, I went through high school and college, trust me that would've been something I would've heard. You know, slut shaming and all that. Furthermore, that sounds high even for webcam and OF girls (I researched some on YouTube). For a bit of perspective, Jenna Jameson (famous pornstar) on her Wikipedia page is quoted as saying in 2004 that she had off screen sex with 30 men by the time she was 30.

 

[Gamisch]

I like this analogy of "sleeping with a copy of a copy of a copy". Mathematically, it'll be like f(f(f(f(f(x)))) She gets numbed in the end and develops the "thousand c0ck stare", a totally soulless NPC robot.

Yup. They fall for a certain type and make the same mistake over and over again .

There was a time when I tried to be this basic Tyrone-ish person as it seemed easier to get laid than being" lil complex me".

Now I'm rather yelling: " is THIS your leader? Is THIS your king? If yes ,PLEASE follow him as, you(she) is unable to recognize a true ..valuable man like me for what i am.

It is what it is.

 

[Gamisch]

You make 2 big claims, therefore you need to bring some solid evidence to substantiate them.
1. That young women are more promiscuous now than in 1990.
2. That women fvck 20 guys by the time they hit 20yrs old. Man, I went through high school and college, trust me that would've been something I would've heard. You know, slut shaming and all that. Furthermore, that sounds high even for webcam and OF girls (I researched some on YouTube). For a bit of perspective, Jenna Jameson (famous pornstar) on her Wikipedia page is quoted as saying in 2004 that she had off screen sex with 30 men by the time she was 30.

Look bro. I am a FAN of your train of thought and posts in general. No lie.

But you disappoint me with this one. If you simply grew up with a woman you should know that 20 partners is nothing. And that's assuming you're my age and grew up in a era before there was internet. After OLD...c'mon. Yesterday i went on a dated
With this conservative girl without tattoos who goes to church. Even she said she used OLD when it just came out to "practice dating" to "overcome her shyness ".

I broke it down already but i will go more in detail: hypothetically;

15-20: a new bf every 3/6 months.
20-22; steady ltrs
22-25: happy single mingle party phase.
25-28: a string of ONS

Sprinkled with in between the constant presence of OLD and possible ONS with Chad/ Tyrone, orbiting colleagues/neighbors/friends of friends /gym dudes/party dudes/ vacation dudes/ introductions from bff's.

 

[pipeman84]

With this conservative girl without tattoos who goes to church. Even she said she used OLD when it just came out to "practice dating" to "overcome her shyness ".

But it's common knowledge that most women go on OLD for validation and no intention to actually meet men. I agree that some OLD female users are hoes, but that's a small percentage of already a small percentage of total woman population. Furthermore, isn't it generally accepted that few under 25yrs old women are on OLD because they don't need to, having access to guys in real life?

I broke it down already but i will go more in detail: hypothetically;

15-20: a new bf every 3/6 months.
20-22; steady ltrs
22-25: happy single mingle party phase.
25-28: a string of ONS

A girl can't do ONS and change bf's every couple months without having some serious mental issues and/or abuse alcohol and drugs. There are such girls, but my stance is that they are tiny minority with generally obvious demeanour and signs (tatts, injected lips, fake tits) whereas your claim is that the majority of girls are like that.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Pair bonding is not really important to me.

 

[Gamisch]

But it's common knowledge that most women go on OLD for validation and no intention to actually meet men. I agree that some OLD female users are hoes, but that's a small percentage of already a small percentage of total woman population. Furthermore, isn't it generally accepted that few under 25yrs old women are on OLD because they don't need to, having access to guys in real life?


A girl can't do ONS and change bf's every couple months without having some serious mental issues and/or abuse alcohol and drugs. There are such girls, but my stance is that they are tiny minority with generally obvious demeanour and signs (tatts, injected lips, fake tits) whereas your claim is that the majority of girls are like that.

Perhaps is because they confuse me with Tyrone, so i keep running in to women like this and my view is scattered.

Even then I still believe your claim that most women are "just normal" and nothing is going on seems also far fetched when literally major news channels reporting about the issues. Thats kinda confirms my statement about 1990 vs now.

Imo a woman having had more tham 20 partners is nothing. That's being 1 year on OLD while taking it slow. Even I can get 20 partners a year due to OLD. That's strengthening my other statement.

But oke...

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

It’s all over the place really. I know women (including my first husband’s mother) who only had one partner, her husband, was tragically widowed in her 30s. She was utterly unable to pair bond ever again and was the real definition of an alpha widow. She lost her virginity on her wedding night and after her husband (a fighter pilot & instructor) died she never had sex again. She was courted by a physician for about 3 years in her 40s but dropped the guy. Why? No one was ever going to measure up to her late husband.

My mother never had a single date after she and my dad divorced (and she had offers). Not all women are good time Sallies.

My son is dating a woman who is 20. He’s 21. She lost her virginity to him, has only ever been with him, and I expect will marry and “do life” together.

My 18 yo daughter has a LTR since her junior year in HS, they’ve been together now approaching 2 years. They too seem to be going in a life partner direction so far (it’s early yet). I know at least 10 couples who married as high school sweethearts and are still happy & together decades & several children later.

The 20 year old with 20 partners? A w h o r e to be sure. I didn’t lose my V card until 20 ffs.

Pair bonding ability also deteriorates for men who are promiscuous, it not only something that affects women. There are articles in psychological literature about that.

I know socially as acquaintances a couple of women who have slept with hundreds of men. It yuks me out and I do not closely associate with those women. Funny enough at least two who I know are now celibate in their 50s. They do not care about sex. Two others remain town bicycles and I find that gross.

The celibate 2 have never been married. The town bicycle 2 were both in 20+ year marriages and went hard core 304 post divorce. Those two are both pretty but very insecure and are both approaching 60! It’s sad honestly. These later 2 think that sex is going to capture a man. Nope. Doesn’t work that way, not with experienced men or high value men.

But I know some male player types who are perpetually spinning plates but lonely and unfulfilled too. They can’t pair bond for shjt either.

Cuts both ways.