Picky chick says, "I don't like anything about any of the people I'm meeting, or talking to, or going on dates with"

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There was probably like one guy in the last like two months that I kind of liked ... and he's just like not in a place to date anybody right now or be in any kind of relationship ...
It's 10 o'clock ... I mean I could do anything with my night ... I'm just getting sick of being by myself all the time ... it's the second week of January and I have gone on a date each week so far so you can't say I'm not trying ... and this guy I didn't even meet on a dating app ... I met him in person last weekend, but he's just boring (tee-hee)
How will I ever afford a house by myself ... that's like the main issue ... fück being single forever ... but I don't wanna be homeless"
my opinion of her future:

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"Nothing feels right!!" decries the delusional narcissist in the time-stamped section

What do these women have in common? ALL of them are heavy Koolaidholics. They all drink it to some degree, but the ones who slam it straight from the bottle are obvious, as in the video.
 

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This is a common event for women. Women are getting fussier than ever as they now have more options than ever.
 

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It ain't our job, as men, to fix scatterbrained b-tches like those in these videos. As to why men don't attend singles mixers... Same reason truly prosperous people don't frequent networking events. This s-it doesn't pan out, when everyone walks in with bloated expectations
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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Her whiny voice is enough to turn me off.
 

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As to why men don't attend singles mixers... Same reason truly prosperous people don't frequent networking events. This s-it doesn't pan out, when everyone walks in with bloated expectations
I've attended singles mixers. They are generally a waste of time. Most men don't get any first dates out of attending them, let alone quality first dates.

Most business networking events are also a waste of time. They rarely lead to new job interviews for those seeking jobs or new business deals closed for sales reps seeking new business.
 

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my opinion of her future:

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Perfect example of a woman who has options but her options aren't good enough to her, even the option that would be great boyfriend material or a decent guy she deems as "boring" when she does meet the guy she "likes" he will he just pumpNdump her.

A lot of women in 2024 have over-estimated their market value due to being pumpNdump by the men they really want and then end up making TikTok videos like this, she probably has a plethora of great guys who make great boyfriends or husbands or have potential to be but those guys aren't the ones she wants
 

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I've attended singles mixers. They are generally a waste of time. Most men don't get any first dates out of attending them, let alone quality first dates.

Most business networking events are also a waste of time. They rarely lead to new job interviews for those seeking jobs or new business deals closed for sales reps seeking new business.
Both are the equivalent of a stand-up comic instructing The MC to introduce him with words to the effect of "This is guy is f-cking hilarious, so prepare to piss yourself laughing". When we walk into a scenario with hard and fast expectations, and are highly attached to those expectations, we almost always end up disappointed in the results
 

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Probably because she is going out with lame dudes that are her doormat, dudes with no job, no car, no future or weirdos. That's 90% of what's on OLD
 

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It ain't our job, as men, to fix scatterbrained b-tches like those in these videos. As to why men don't attend singles mixers... Same reason truly prosperous people don't frequent networking events. This s-it doesn't pan out, when everyone walks in with bloated expectations
Actually, the one place where I have had luck in dating in the USA had been singles events. :eek: Of course, while a chick that has gone a while without a date will lower her standards a bit, eventually she thinks to herself, "am I so desperate I need to date this short guy?", and then it is OVER for me. :mad::mad::mad:
 

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Probably because she is going out with lame dudes that are her doormat, dudes with no job, no car, no future or weirdos. That's 90% of what's on OLD
I can personally attest to the fact that having a job, car & future is not enough to get a (childless, non-obese) woman. :mad::mad::mad:
 

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I can personally attest to the fact that having a job, car & future is not enough to get a (childless, non-obese) woman. :mad::mad::mad:
“That I find attractive” should be stuck on the end of your post. You’re most likely trying to swing above your average.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Actually, the one place where I have had luck in dating in the USA had been singles events. :eek:
Never asserted a fella CAN'T find women at such functions.... The flings and unions which ensue are generally nowhere near as fulfilling as those one gets out of women you meet at art shows and the like though

Analogy: It's possible to still have a relatively happy life remaining in South Central LA, rather than moving up in the world to Beverly Hills. You're chances of living to be a ripe old age, instead of getting gunned down in your own living room, are much higher if you switch locations
 

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Perfect example of a woman who has options but her options aren't good enough to her, even the option that would be great boyfriend material or a decent guy she deems as "boring" when she does meet the guy she "likes" he will he just pumpNdump her.

A lot of women in 2024 have over-estimated their market value due to being pumpNdump by the men they really want and then end up making TikTok videos like this, she probably has a plethora of great guys who make great boyfriends or husbands or have potential to be but those guys aren't the ones she wants
You can almost hear the affirmations running through her head.
 

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At the same time she’s probably on three apps trying to find love but bringing guys back to her place after the first date
 

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my opinion of her future:

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She's in the cute range. A solid looking prospect. I'm thinking she's late 20s/early 30s.

On looks alone, she would be appealing to a lot of men.

She was in a bad headspace when that video was made. It was made in January and it's now July so perhaps she's in a better spot to date right now.

She would have some good options on the market now.
 

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She would have some good options on the market now.
Except for critical thinkers who dislike whiny women.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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