Over 30 and living at home? You are in good company in Italy.

[corrector]

Italy sounds like a coolest place in Europe. I was shocked at one farmer, who was successfully self-employed, could not leave his mother's home because of her good cooking. Do you think these guys are probably slaying left right and center. They have more time to do so since they are not employed.

 

[Clockwerk50]

To avoid any personal risks, let’s just say someone I know lives with his parents in his late 20s. He had a girlfriend for seven years or so, and they met in college. While she moved into her own apartment, got her own car, and started working for a big firm downtown of my city, he still lives at home, often arguing with his parents and contributing little financially. He claims he’s saving for a house, despite earning $80K a year.

Although he’s good-looking and 6'2", for those that care about heights, I assume she broke up with him because his life was stagnant. She likely found someone whose life was more aligned with hers but this is an assumption since I do not know her. Even though he’s single, he occasionally goes on trips and attends bachelor parties, but most weekends, he stays home. I doubt he’s dating much.

Take that as you will, Mr. “I get laid a lot.”

 

[corrector]

 

[Gamisch]

Same country that has one of the lowest birthrates in the world.

Most south European men have the tendency to be mama boys for life ( same in Muslim cultures) ,where the "normal" route is to stay at home and only leave home once they get married. Basically those men won't ever touch a stove or a broom. But...


Those days are OVER. Women don't want this deal anymore, and the "system " hasn't adjusted yet ( think parents /fathers that tell their sons ti "just wait untill a princess comes along).

Also shows how the gigs( Gras is greener) . Black guy wants to be Italian, Italian guy wants to be white, white guy wants to be black ect ect.

 

[corrector]

Same country that has one of the lowest birthrates in the world.

I thought that was Japan and/or South Korea

Most south European men have the tendency to be mama boys for life ( same in Muslim cultures) ,where the "normal" route is to stay at home and only leave home once they get married. Basically those men won't ever touch a stove or a broom. But...

That's interesting.

Those days are OVER. Women don't want this deal anymore, and the "system " hasn't adjusted yet ( think parents /fathers that tell their sons ti "just wait untill a princess comes along).

Depends if the princess can cook as good food as their mother....otherwise, mother's food is better. How many women do you know personally that can cook a great meal?

Also shows how the gigs( Gras is greener) . Black guy wants to be Italian, Italian guy wants to be white, white guy wants to be black ect ect.

Do explain how that works more? I'm mixed Black (Caribbean) and Italian. So you are saying that I want to be Black, Italian or White? I don't think that way....but I live with my folks and am loyal to my mother (ie I'm her caregiver too).

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Corrector,
Yeah you are right,Gamisch too,Italian Guys over here often live with their People......Guy I know well,we called the Italian stallion, is now 67,lived out the whole cycle,ended up supporting His Mum till last year when she passed on....After 35 or so he gave up on Ladies,though he had many chances...All considered not the worst option LOL.

 

[Ricky]

What about women in their 30s who live with their parents.

i know two now that are mid 30s and back with parents both post breakups to save money

 

[Gamisch]

I thought that was Japan and/or South Korea



That's interesting.



Depends if the princess can cook as good food as their mother....otherwise, mother's food is better. How many women do you know personally that can cook a great meal?



Do explain how that works more? I'm mixed Black (Caribbean) and Italian. So you are saying that I want to be Black, Italian or White? I don't think that way....but I live with my folks and am loyal to my mother (ie I'm her caregiver too).

Italian men were hyped up for the longest time. But (look up birthrates, Italy is in the same boat as S Korea, Japan and Canada) , the numbers don't lie....

It doesn't matter if princess can cook. Princess first gotta stay with the Stallion, and for some reason they don't even want that no more.

 

[Gamisch]

What about women in their 30s who live with their parents.

i know two now that are mid 30s and back with parents both post breakups to save money

Unfortunately the game is unfair like that. A 30 y.o woman living at home is actually viewed as a good thing because she is sheltered by living with her parents and it might even be a crash course "how to wife" .

A 30 y.o man with the same conditions is viewed as a loser.

 

[corrector]

A 30 y.o man with the same conditions is viewed as a loser.

Except for chads.

 

[Gamisch]

Except for chads.

Wrong!

If any country is known for having Chads is Italy. Yet they have (repeat) one of the lowest birthrates. Things are hardly ever what they seem.

Being a broke Chad in THIS environment will only take you so far. You'll get your share of punani, sure. But they won't stay.