Mindset using Online Dating Services
Online dating services have aroused curiosity for quite some time. However, some people have found it to be the best way to meet women. It takes away the burden of 1 on 1 contact. It eliminates the need to go up to a random girl, and start a conversation with her. It's all been replaced with a computer - something that is comfortable to the single person in question.
As a DJ, we've learned how to go up to a random female we find attractive, start a conversation, and get her digits. After all this, would a DJ want to try online dating services? My opinion, why not? However, we should not see it as a replacement for meeting women in person.
Ever have one of those nights, where you're up at 4:00 in the morning, just got off work, or you're having trouble sleeping? Can't go out and hunt for women at that time of night. Answer - online dating services.
However, as a DJ, the best mindset to have when trying these things out would be to use it as just another opportunity to meet women when other options are ruled out for the time being.
There's many options out there for online services. Go for the ones that are free. You don't need to pay money to meet women in real life, so why should you have to pay money to meet women online? You're already paying you're ISP, that should be enough.
When writing you're profile, use you're ****y+funny skills. This has been mentioned in David Deangelo's newsletters, and he's right on the money with this one. Be creative, and don't say too much about yourself - to keep mysterious. Don't write lovey-mushy 5hit to impress her (which should be a given at this site).
After you write your kick-ass profile, go read some of the guys profiles and laugh at them. This gives you a clear idea of what you're up against in the online world - not really any different from the AFCs in the real world. After reading some of these, you'll get a clear indication that most of these guys have absolutely nothing better to do than sit in front of the computer, and try the online version of what they failed at.
As for choosing a picture, it really doesn't matter what you choose, since you're written profile will be the decision maker. Just make sure you're not naked or with another woman in your picture. If you're with a woman in your picture, you will immediately get written off as a player.
After you've met a woman, the off the fvcking internet as quick as possible, or you'll be placed into the "Email Buddy" category. Get her on the phone as quick as possible to set up a date. Don't set up a date through Email. Use that to get her number.
The main thing to remember when trying online dating sites is - use it as just another way to meet women. Don't rely on it to get your dates. You'll still need your DJ skills if you should set up a date with a girl you met online.
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"Look in your mirror, It'll tell you the truth,
Don't waste your time away
Thinkin' bout yesterday's blues" - Richie Sambora
