you're still not getting it...it was the total off the wall humor of the ad that got the responses. the chicks that responded were ones that liked sarcasm and satire. and that is exactly the types of chicks i tend to like.
Well.. I dont argues with that. They probbaly do love satire.
This is too easy.
That's good. I did one like an infomercial before and it rocked. There's the obvious humor and the fact that you don't seem to take yourself too seriously. I think that women will consider guys like that more approachable.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Not quite getting what he suggested.
Yes, I tried the specifics too, exactly when you suggested.
It's either rapport (lack of) or your qualifying skills.
Possibly it is lack of rapport, but two things:
Hmm.. are you saying some weirdos just emailing out of curiosity and without any intent to meet in person? I didn't know they exists. Hm.
I dont have the data to support this view but I think there are a couple of dynamic on these sites that play into the low response rates.
1. How did you figure that out - they admit they are not single and just "flirting online"? anyway thats sad when people lie in theri profiles that much.
Right onthe first part - much more efficient. Did you try speed dating then?
So why do you think that they don't answer your emails?
But he is right about IM being much better tool regradless of how inefficient his emails were.
I'm not saying that IMing doesn't work, I would just like for someone to explain why emailing may not be as effective.
You have to have some style, some ideas what to say and what not to say when you write emails.
I see what you are getting at. But none the less, it sounds as if someone chooses IMs, he will not need to put forth nearly the effort he would as if he used email.
