Here's an internet success story to build up some confidence for those who believe that the internet is too time consuming and does not yield. I am still new to the DJ site and admittedly have a lot to learn, but my last internet date below shows the potential market. I reprinted this from an older thread I posted last week.
This woman winked at me on match.com about two months ago. After a few emails, I pushed getting her number. I never waste time with more than a few emails. Most women respond if they are interested. The ones that email a dozen times are either not worth dating or not that interested in you. I called her and had a very short conversation. At the end of the call, I asked her to join me for lunch around where she lives. On my way there, my alternator died. I luckily found a shop and got it fixed. This was simply a miracle, so I had a good vibe about her. I think that having a positive vibe that she can pick up on is one key to scoring. I arrived a little earlier than I expected, so I scoped out the town. I made a few friends with the bartenders and asked where to go on a walk near the water if the date went well.
She showed up looking almost 6 ft tall and very nicely built. I'd give her a 7.0-8.0 (awesome body, but an average face), but others might think less or more of her. Good enough and a very good score if you are out at a bar or club on a weekend night. I shined her with a big smile and bought her a drink. The place was a little dark, so I moved closer to her as we talked, pretending to need to hear her better. Dark places are great on a sunny day because it seems dangerous inside. She was shy, so I tried not to push EC too much.
After a few drinks, I gave her some light kino on her arm and leg. Soon, I was sitting very close with her knee between my legs. This is the best approach and position I've found when you meet a girl at a bar for drinks. You just inch closer every time you get positive feedback. She tells me she feels very comfortable with me for only knowing me a short time. That's my invitation. I stretch and give her a soft kiss. From her profile, she claimed that she only likes men that are good kissers. God I love internet dating as this type of information is available for you to connect the dots when you are working her. This was way too easy. I hadn't even known her an hour yet.
We walk to a seafood joint next door and we are now both a little buzzed. Too late for lunch, so we order some raw oysters and more drinks. This chick is definitely the bomb. After sucking back a few beers, I kiss her again. Later, I tell her that we should find a quiet place like a nice hotel in the harbor nearby and chill out where it is more quiet. I am not made of money although I did spend it that night, but I gambled here that if she accepted I would sleep with her. She hesitated and as I was about to get in my car to leave she agreed. The indian cab driver called me "Mister James Bond" several times on the way to the hotel. I couldn't have paid him enough of a tip. Our night together was not great as she hadn't been with anyone for a long time, so she was very, very nervous but also very, very clean. That was fine because the date was not over yet.
Early the next morning, I woke up and started again on her. This time she responded and we had several very nice moments. The harbor was warm and sunny. I suggested that we get lunch and take a walk. We walked along the harbor, sitting on benchs, kissing, and talking. We both bought souveniers which keeps me on her mind when I am gone. We got a cab back to where we met. One the bartenders saw us on the street and asked us how the date went. She realized that we were still in the same clothes and we all laughed.
This can happen, but it takes work. I think dates like these are more likely through internet dating. Many decent professional women are lonely and have sexual pressure building inside them. The bar scene is not their thing as most of the men are not LTR or even DJ material. The internet gives them a low pressure channel to explore dating. It also gives them a level of control they don't possess in their lives or in the dating scene. Because they know a lot about you, they feel more connected to you before you even meet. When you turn out to be a charmer, they melt if you do and say the right things by following the techniques in the DJ bible.
I have hooked up with 5 different internet women in about a month. The problem I have now is wanting to go out in the real world. The virtual world seems more predictable and easier for me. I'm not bored yet, but I think I need to go out and cold approach just to feel like a human being. I admit that none of the women I found on match.com were above a 7.0, but all were worth the effort. Getting higher rated women might provide the difficulties that others mention.
My advice from experience is put in the time and stick with it. Work the database and it will yield.
