ketostix said:
I've seen the LDR work and not work just like any local relationship.I still stand by my post in this thread I made earlier. I think Str8up you should go for it.
*whew* Okay man. You guys need to realize something.
YES he's had experience with women.
YES he's had failed relationships.
YES he's tried LDRs!! Yes!
He knows they don't work! The girl that he's with doesn't know that and he's using it to his advantage.
Let's put aside right and wrong here.
Okay it's gone.
No right and no wrong! We're not going to talk about what's good and what's bad. Let's talk about FEELINGS INSIDE THAT YOU LIKE AND DON'T LIKE. Let's talk about WISDOM and IGNORANCE.
Betraying a woman's trust will give her feelings inside that she will probably NOT like . Will it give you FEELINGS that you DO like if you do this to her? Just ask that to yourself. This paragraph would be done in sign language while TALKING to you if we were in person.
STR8, using his WISDOM of LDRs by experience is taking advantage of a girl who is IGNORANT of the LDR situation. As far as STR8 knows she is serious. Oh boy, but what if she isn't serious? What if he's right and she cheats on him?! What if she's perfectly aware that she says she's going to be loyal but is lying!?!? OH MY GOD SHE COULD BE LYING!!!! SHE'S NOT FAITHFUL!!! ALL HANDS ON DECK!! NO TIME FOR DECLARATIONS OF WAR! DROP THE FU<KING NUKES!! NAAAOOO!!
Preemptive strike.
Where does the preemptive strike come from?
F.E.A.R.
STR8 is AFRAID of being cheated on again, even if he says he wants to keep his local options open. If he had local options he wouldn't be wasting his time on what he thinks, relationship wise, is a lost cause. That's whut ah think, anyways.
"Professing to be WISE they became FOOLS" Where did I get that quote from?
With as much knowledge and experience that you have, STR8, in my opinion I thought an intelligent person such as yourself would be above this. You're almost forty and are as calculating as a female 19 year old UCLA student.
Good or bad aside what are you using your wisdom for? To use it against an ignorant person? To maybe show this ignorant person what a quality MAN is suppose to be? To make your own self feel good at the expense of someone else?
Hey if you're not quality (my definition of it may differ from yours of course) then you have no problem doing what you're about to do.