Vulpine
Master Don Juan
lol@Latinoman
Sometimes, STR8UP, your posts are like reading little blurbs from my own experiences.
I've come to the same crossroads many times: do I go for the lay (because I want to), or, do I go with what I know?
I know you want to bang this chick, but, I also think you miss the fact that she wants to bang you, too. Ultimately, she's issued the terms and you are jumping through her hoops.
Ooops, bro.
It would be one thing if she issued these terms and was local, but she's not, she's going to be an LDR. So, she has no power with which to issue such demands. Effectively, if she's an HB9 locally, once you factor in all the hassle, games, wasted time/effort... she's an HB6 as an LDR. And, what if you put in all this effort to ƒuck this broad and it turns out she's got ridiculous beef curtains or some other aspect that completely turns you off?
Moreover, with all the eyes watching you, it would be tough to get much out of this relationsh¡t. And, here's where I think there is a little gold to be mined out of Latinoman's post.
I believe the spirit behind his post is more of a "be a better, more productive man" sort of angle. I'm the last one to criticize your rockstar lifestyle (I live/d it, too), but there are certain situations where NOT going for the lay serves you far better.
See, if you make a decision, in this case say something like "Unfortunately, we aren't in a position to have the relationship you or I want." And, you drop her as a plate, not only do you take back your frame, but you also demonstrate throughout your circle even HIGHER value/desirability. Since YOU have the presence/wherewithal and YOU make the choice not to pursue anything, you set yourself apart from AFC's by thinking with your head and not your cøck. I don't need to get much more into the benefits as I'm sure you can think them through yourself.
Now, the other part of Latinoman's post has some merit, too. Sometimes it sounds like "women" are a hobby of yours. I mean, there might be just too much exposure, if there is such a thing.
If I were to speculate, I would say that, with overexposure, there could be a potential for you to be acting like a woman.
Now, I'm not calling you a woman, but, the drama? Are you living a soap opera daily? That might be the warning shot across your bow that LM is trying to deliver.
Yes, you've been screwed by taking the "moral high road" before, who hasn't? Here, however, I think it's not so much a question of morality, but of benefit/happiness. Would you be happier banging whoever you pleased? Or, would you be happier tip-toeing around your circle of friends to POTENTIALLY bang this chick? Which efforts yield the best results? Only you know.
I personally wouldn't bother to pursue this chick any further.
...(she could pursue ME, though, and I might even reward her for her efforts by ƒucking her... on MY terms.)
Sometimes, STR8UP, your posts are like reading little blurbs from my own experiences.
I've come to the same crossroads many times: do I go for the lay (because I want to), or, do I go with what I know?
I know you want to bang this chick, but, I also think you miss the fact that she wants to bang you, too. Ultimately, she's issued the terms and you are jumping through her hoops.
Ooops, bro.
It would be one thing if she issued these terms and was local, but she's not, she's going to be an LDR. So, she has no power with which to issue such demands. Effectively, if she's an HB9 locally, once you factor in all the hassle, games, wasted time/effort... she's an HB6 as an LDR. And, what if you put in all this effort to ƒuck this broad and it turns out she's got ridiculous beef curtains or some other aspect that completely turns you off?
Moreover, with all the eyes watching you, it would be tough to get much out of this relationsh¡t. And, here's where I think there is a little gold to be mined out of Latinoman's post.
I believe the spirit behind his post is more of a "be a better, more productive man" sort of angle. I'm the last one to criticize your rockstar lifestyle (I live/d it, too), but there are certain situations where NOT going for the lay serves you far better.
See, if you make a decision, in this case say something like "Unfortunately, we aren't in a position to have the relationship you or I want." And, you drop her as a plate, not only do you take back your frame, but you also demonstrate throughout your circle even HIGHER value/desirability. Since YOU have the presence/wherewithal and YOU make the choice not to pursue anything, you set yourself apart from AFC's by thinking with your head and not your cøck. I don't need to get much more into the benefits as I'm sure you can think them through yourself.
Now, the other part of Latinoman's post has some merit, too. Sometimes it sounds like "women" are a hobby of yours. I mean, there might be just too much exposure, if there is such a thing.
If I were to speculate, I would say that, with overexposure, there could be a potential for you to be acting like a woman.Now, I'm not calling you a woman, but, the drama? Are you living a soap opera daily? That might be the warning shot across your bow that LM is trying to deliver.
Yes, you've been screwed by taking the "moral high road" before, who hasn't? Here, however, I think it's not so much a question of morality, but of benefit/happiness. Would you be happier banging whoever you pleased? Or, would you be happier tip-toeing around your circle of friends to POTENTIALLY bang this chick? Which efforts yield the best results? Only you know.
Exactly, so why bother?STR8UP said:
I personally wouldn't bother to pursue this chick any further.
...(she could pursue ME, though, and I might even reward her for her efforts by ƒucking her... on MY terms.)
