Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls

[scribblec]

Here's another myspace thread to link, 'beware the angle photo:'
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=132080

On an unrelated note, I just now sent out two 'send me your #' myspace messages.

Cute and coy. And that shot of the “goods” is certainly an accident:

MySpace Angle 6

Looks like there are plenty more “goods” where those came from.

ajhahahahhaa

 

[Reyaj]

Aside from the out of state girl I met who is obsessed with me I got a younger chick talking to me on the phone and a lot of close calls. I just went through my inbox and responded to girls from like a year ago to today who seemed to flake. Lets see if there's any life left

 

[Reyaj]

got very little response from girls I resent messages too.... kind of working on 1 out of stater but we'll see

 

[Reyaj]

So I sent out a bunch of random messages yesterday... they either read "That's a very nice picture" or "I have to ask.. how did a beautiful girl like you end up in that town" or if there were multiple girls in the picture "which beautiful girl are you in that photo"

I actually got some responses back... mostly saying thanks but some saying thank you.. thats a nice background on yours etc... so I then followed up with 2 approaches

1.) Using Mystery's canned "Beauty is common though, what else can you tell me about yourself that makes you unique"

2.) What nationality are you? (this really went to 1 Indian who is hot) She said to read her profile to learn more about her... etc.. I jokingly said the colors made it hard to and then said its rare to find someone so beautiful and down to earth. I said "We should definitely talk more... Any suggestions "

I have a feeling she is going to ask me to friend request so she can see my pics etc... I have a lot of social proof on there and pics with girls..... I hope it doesn't turn her off..

 

[Reyaj]

LOL I JUST CHECKED MY MESSAGES AND ONE GIRL THAT WAS RESPONDING JUST SAID "YOU MESSAGED MY FRIEND TOO"

I guess I screwed that up lol....

 

[Reyaj]

Yeah so I found 1 girl who seems open to meeting people on the net but had a bad experience and didn't want to give her #. We treated some deep messages back and forth and I basically said she could call me it would be easier... so she finally said she would and asked me for my #... I just gave it to her... This girl is eclectic so how knows

One of the other girls gave me the bf line... I told her her profile said single and I just wanted to talk as friends

Another girl is asking me to friend request her first as I could be a serial killer... I told her she could call me even for a second so I can verify that she is in fact who she says she is and not some bald old fat guy... I told her I'd friend her after that...


So basically I'm experimenting with whether or not I can get a girls # before having her see my myspace page... Like I said I dont know if my myspace page would turn some girls off since i have a lot of chicks on there... or maybe they just wouldnt like my pictures.....

 

[Reyaj]

So actually a couple of girls fell off but this real hot girl responded when I made a comment of how she doesn't fit the typical looks of her major (computer science) she responded back..

Another girl I am using humor with getting her to call me and she wants to add me responded back after a day or so.... so it just goes to show sometimes they won't respond right after reading so not to panic. The girl who is Indian said she'd call me but hasn't... but a few days later she messaged me saying she was busy and that she'd call me soon....

We'll see

 

[Bible_Belt]

I posted this on another thread in the MM forum, but it really belongs here.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1477580#post1477580

I have added about 300 girls to my myspace page over the past few days. I have about 500 more friend requests pending. All of the are the most attractive girls I can find, and they are as young as 17. None of them are than mid-20's. I am actually adding them because I want to solicit them to promote cage fights, but they don't know that yet. The most I have gotten in the way of objection is "do I know you?" which is just an honest question.

I think it helps that I don't have a creepy profile. A lot of guys have the all-too-common shirtless bedroom self-pic. That is creepy; the pic should be of you out in public doing something, not alone in your bedroom. Also, I don't have "dating" or "LTR" in the 'here for' section, I'm 'in a relationship,' and my #1 friend is my girlfriend who has a picture of both of us as her default. I think these things make it look like I'm not hitting on the girl, which of course is coincidentally the key to hitting on any hot girl in any way, Internet or real life. If the first words you say are something about her being attractive or desiring her, or if in person you make that obvious by doing something like staring at her t!ts, then you are doomed from the very beginning of the interaction. Her shields go up, she discounts you as just another horny guy, and you are never getting anywhere where when a girl feels that way. They are quick to assume it, so I think you have to dodge that assumption from the beginning.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

I think these things make it look like I'm not hitting on the girl, which of course is coincidentally the key to hitting on any hot girl in any way, Internet or real life.

Does this not contradict everything else on this site?

 

[TizZle]

I'm not going to read thru every post in this thread but myspace does work "as a tool". I use to live 7 miles away from a big party college and when i moved there with my two roommates i met this guy and we became friends. Apparently the guy was a big party'er (alcoholic, pretty much). He would communicate with girls thru myspace/internet. Then by phone at night. 4 weekends in a row we had different sets of girls at me and my roommates apartment. just about all of them were hb7-8. the last of the 4 weekends i met and girl and stayed with her for 18months(maybe 6 months too long tho lol).

Myspace can work well for you but i don't think it will work well if its your only means of communication in your arsenal.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I think these things make it look like I'm not hitting on the girl, which of course is coincidentally the key to hitting on any hot girl in any way, Internet or real life.

Does this not contradict everything else on this site?

I hope not. The key with any girl is to keep her guessing about your intentions. That makes her play the 'he loves me, he loves me not' game in her head. If you are obvious like 'hey baby, you're hot' then you are just like every other guy. You have got to be different to land the hottest women.

 

[Randallpink83]

WOW this thread is still going??? Its like returning to the scene of a crime.

...I have not been trying to game girls on myspace for a long time. I've been using it strictly as a networking device. Keeping in touch with girls I meet, displaying style etc...

maybe I should take another stab at myspace game just for sh!ts and giggles, see how it goes. I'm leap years ahead in the game now days as opposed to when I first was doodling with myspace. - - - but hell, now when I think about it. I would have never even created a myspace page if it wasn't for a certain person on this website talking me into it... haha, that is a weird thought.



Jayer - bit of advice man, Don't used canned material that came from MYSTERY!!! I mean c'mon man... this is one dude with some serious mass media exposure and you are going to use lines that he showed off using on girls?? I would stay away from canned material all together, but especially from Mystery.... they are too common... like beauty. lol

 

[Reyaj]

WOW this thread is still going??? Its like returning to the scene of a crime.

...I have not been trying to game girls on myspace for a long time. I've been using it strictly as a networking device. Keeping in touch with girls I meet, displaying style etc...

maybe I should take another stab at myspace game just for sh!ts and giggles, see how it goes. I'm leap years ahead in the game now days as opposed to when I first was doodling with myspace. - - - but hell, now when I think about it. I would have never even created a myspace page if it wasn't for a certain person on this website talking me into it... haha, that is a weird thought.



Jayer - bit of advice man, Don't used canned material that came from MYSTERY!!! I mean c'mon man... this is one dude with some serious mass media exposure and you are going to use lines that he showed off using on girls?? I would stay away from canned material all together, but especially from Mystery.... they are too common... like beauty. lol

lol I know I know. I never used canned crap in person so I figured I'd try that line and myspace since there was nothing to lose... But yeah I use myspace for the same thing as you and mine is pretty legit... I just wonder if all the social proof I have on there actually hurts me as girls I try to game may think Im a player and mack to any girl (they'd be half right lol)

So anyway that Indian girl called me... she tlaked about herself and is full of herself and is a virgin at 28 waiting for marriage. I basially ended the convo... saying I had to sleep.. she texted me randomly the following week... I called the next day no answer..... The hot girl stopped responding... and the girl that was also hot that I finally showed my pics too responded for a bit.... then got pissed I put my pics back on private.... I made another attempt at a phone convo but she stopped responding.. I just sent her a message a week later saying I miss her messages and its too bad she's scared to talk to me We'll see what she says...

Another hottie that stopped talking to me months ago after I Tried to # close.. messaged me random with her digits last weekend... I still haven't called but I will soon....

Girls are nuts

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Since Myspace has become a normal social tool in everyday life I'd like to think it's a good way to meet women.

I've seen some various Myspace threads but wanted to make this an official thread where all can post and collect advice for using this tool to get girls.

So does anyone routinely use this to get girls? If so please post your process and some tips which work well.

Me myself have been sending random girls messages but have not had much luck.

I am going to assume that Social Proof and a Good Picture are key to this...

Thoughts............?

I've actually searched the events section for house parties in my area and "crashed" these parties. Party crashers.

 

[Reyaj]

So I basically ended up number closing this indian girl... tlaked to her... got buys with other plates.. respun it but but she got psycho on me cause she thought i was a player and I hung up on her...

The girl who I got the number from after months and months of teasing/hesitation... I called weeks later and she never answered but texted me once saying I waited too long to call...

Another hottie who I thought fell off sent me a message like 2 weeks later saying she was hesistant but she was drawn to me... I ended up telling her what she wanted to hear I guess being honest and not sounding desperate got her number and have talked to her once last week and hopefully will again soon as she is quite busy and didn't answer my last phone call thought she texted me the next day...

Bottom line

MYSPACE girls are weird...

 

[DJKid]

This seems to be popular these days...

 

[Reyaj]

So Ive been talking to this hot chick that stopped respondong on myspace only to respond over a week later saying she was insecure and asked why I should give her a chance... I wrote her back some nice words... she ended up giving me the # and we talk on the phone weekly.... when I call she usually doesnt answer... she answeres my texts for the most part although in 1 case she didn't... I jokingly called her out on it and she didn't follow up...


Well 2 days ago she asked that I add her on myspace and sent me a message to do it while I was talking to her (I took her off cause I thought she flaked after she didnt respond to my last message) I did it yesterday... told her that her picture of halloween looked distracting.. she responded back.... she then went on myspace and accepted my request..... I asked her a question via text after that and she did not respond........

So I dunno... maybe my social proof scared her (I have a lot of girls leaving e comments), She also mentioned the other day that she looked me up on facebook but didn't add me....

 

[Reyaj]

Well she did text me a few days later saying she found a picture of me from snopping around. I jokingly said I was fat and she asked why I said that... we texted a bit yesterday in which she was responsive... I then told her i'd tell her something next time she called me... She responded with "you are already driving me crazy "

 

[Reyaj]

So she didn't call yesterday which is her usual pattern for weekly calling... no text or anything...... I wonder if she found another picture of me somewhere she doesnt like or is just playing games or neither.... I aint calling cause she like never picks up when I do.... her phone habits are weird though...

 

[Reyaj]

so the other day i texted her saying "so i take it you saw more of my pictures" she responded back "why would u say that" well she ended up saying she didnt... we trade some texts back and forth.... i said "i guess we arent going to talk anymore" she said "sorry ive been so busy" i didnt respond for a bit and then she said "are you mad" i waited a bit and said "no why" and she said cause i didnt respond then at night while we were both drinking... she keeps asking for more of my pics.... today we traded some texts in which i took a while to respond... and she didnt respond to my last one.... so whatever this girl is kinda weird... but is every chick!