Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls

[Reyaj]

so i havent heard from the girl since.... and I noticed she was on myspace today and didnt check my page... i havent talked to the girl on the phone in 2 weeks..... I deleted her off myspace.... last time this evoked a response from her..... lets see if she cares or if something turned off or who knows and who cares

 

[dadmonson]

so i havent heard from the girl since.... and I noticed she was on myspace today and didnt check my page...

How do you know if she checked your page or not???

 

[Reyaj]

How do you know if she checked your page or not???

Cause she was online and my page count didn't change...

 

[dadmonson]

Cause she was online and my page count didn't change...

O yeah the myspace counter is a little wierd too me. Sometimes it just counts "new" visitors. You could try visiting your page over and over again and see if your view counts change.

 

[Reyaj]

O yeah the myspace counter is a little wierd too me. Sometimes it just counts "new" visitors. You could try visiting your page over and over again and see if your view counts change.

Yeah it doesn't change when you are signed in and visit your own page... it knows its you.... but anyone else that visits it counts it...

 

[dadmonson]

Yeah it doesn't change when you are signed in and visit your own page... it knows its you.... but anyone else that visits it counts it...

Not all the time for me...When I visit my page from the library or school and I haven't logged in,... sometimes it doesn't count it... So I wouldn't think it was that accurate but whatever.

 

[Reyaj]

So last night i get a text from her "wow you deleted me. I'm hurt"

I replied back saying that I hadnt talked to her in 2 weeks and that i didn't want to get my hopes up.... she actually to my surprise apologized and said she would call me tonight.....

 

[Reyaj]

So she actually texted me on thanksgiving saying she was going to call me but she was tired and that she'd call me friday... So Friday she actually called but I didnt answer... I texted back a bit later saying It was loud where I was and I didn't hear my phone... She texted me back saying ohh partying already I see haha I did not respond...

So late last night around like 3 in the morning I texted her saying I was near where she lives.... to my surprise she was up and texted me "u are.. why didnt u tell me earlier i could have came out" I texted back saying I didnt know where I was until later... she texted me back and asking where I went last night and blah blah blah... I ended up calling her per her request and she kept asking if I met girls tonight and asking where I was last night since I never texted her back...

Looks like I evoked a little jealousy

 

[Reyaj]

So after she seemed to do a spin around making it look like I was being insecure for not showing my pictures... I sent her one via email to her work... she said she was busy with school work and would try and call if she had a few minutes which she didnt.... she did however send me a joke via text in which I sarcastically replied "looks like you are working real hard on your project haha" i got no response... and I later followed up with "so for what its worth all my friends thought that joke was funny"

no response....

 

[BudBundi]

Jayer, what's with all the texting?

You mean aside from the fact that texting is the stupidest f***ing thing in the world? I mean, why would anyone in their right mind spend fifteen minutes tryin' to type some s**t they could've called and said in five seconds?

Plus, it involves typing with your thumbs! Which I just don't approve of. F***, I don't know about you, but I don't have time to read nothin' that a motherf***er typed with their thumbs.

Fun Fact: Nothing typed by someone's thumbs has ever been important.

 

[Reyaj]

So the 1 girl after sporatic calls texts we did meet for a drink... she liked my appearance and invited me to an event she was going to... she flaked to a movie once before that in which contact got a little sporatic again.. but she ended up counter offering days later and we made the plans and went. During the movie she seemed reserved and I didn't try to kiss close her but she texted me afterwards asking why I didn't to which I was pleasantly surprised cause I thought maybe she didn't like me... I told her I didn't want to disrespect her and she seemed reserved etc.. She ended up liking this and started sending me sweet sporadic texts...

So the next week (she is busy with legit items) I saw her for her event and met all her friends.. I did my best to be friendly.. and at the end I ended up going for the kiss.. I did it and she kissed back... but afterwards she hasn't sent me any flirtacious text messages even though I sent 1.. so its almost going back to the same pattern... I don't know if she lost some IL or whatever... but we'll see what happens... I pulled back too as I have done before....

But anyway my current dilemma is that i met another girl from mysapce after about a week of messages back and forth and 1 phone conversation. We met once for coffee.. It went well even though I didn't make a move, she held onto my arm when I went back to her car... she texted me after saying I seemed like a sweet guy and we ended up talking on the phone almost everyday since at night.... So this past Monday she came over to my crib and brought my coffee and breakfast and she basically asked to see my bed room.. sat on my bed and I started kissing her... she basically started getting frisky with me and was ready to go no lie.... I actually held back because I became apprehensive... I'm not used to girls being ready to go like this so soon... I mean there's a lot she doesn't even know about me... I made up an excuse that I didn't have a rubber... and everytime we talk on the phone she keeps saying how she wanted to do it and wnats to see me again...

So its funny after all the trials and tribulations we go through to get sex and then when it comes easy I got freaked out....

Please tell me I am being wrong for being apprehensive here???? I guess I get paranoid about stds and what not... She is a small thin girl but she looks healthy.... but I mean..... what should I do??????

 

[pua1989]

i havent read any of this thread but my brother just took a girl out to dinner and got domed up and when i asked him where he met her, he said she randomly added him on myspace hahahaha

 

[Reyaj]

bump

 

[Bible_Belt]

But anyway my current dilemma is that i met another girl from mysapce after about a week of messages back and forth and 1 phone conversation. We met once for coffee.. It went well even though I didn't make a move, she held onto my arm when I went back to her car... she texted me after saying I seemed like a sweet guy and we ended up talking on the phone almost everyday since at night.... So this past Monday she came over to my crib and brought my coffee and breakfast and she basically asked to see my bed room.. sat on my bed and I started kissing her... she basically started getting frisky with me and was ready to go no lie.... I actually held back because I became apprehensive... I'm not used to girls being ready to go like this so soon... I mean there's a lot she doesn't even know about me... I made up an excuse that I didn't have a rubber... and everytime we talk on the phone she keeps saying how she wanted to do it and wants to see me again...


And they say myspace is a waste of time....

If that happens again, and you really don't have a condom, then at least get her naked and mess around a little. You don't need a condom to get a *******.

Women's emotions change like the breeze. Don't expect her to be the same way the next time you see her. Don't talk about having sex, and don't act like she has promised you anything. See her again, find another excuse to get her back into your bedroom, and then let one thing just lead to another. Act like you did not think about having sex with her until that moment. Women always want to be able to say later, "one thing just led to another."

Despite all of the ridiculous bvllsh!t we have to go through to pretend otherwise, women like sex just as much as men, even with near-strangers. Some of them like it even more than the average guy does.

 

[AAAgent]

i gave up myspace because of all the spyware and viruses. all those fake girls directing you to porn sites or people trying to add you to advertise other sh!t. it was just too much hassle. im still on facebook but don't use it like a social networking tool. more so to keep in contact with friends.

 

[Reyaj]

But anyway my current dilemma is that i met another girl from mysapce after about a week of messages back and forth and 1 phone conversation. We met once for coffee.. It went well even though I didn't make a move, she held onto my arm when I went back to her car... she texted me after saying I seemed like a sweet guy and we ended up talking on the phone almost everyday since at night.... So this past Monday she came over to my crib and brought my coffee and breakfast and she basically asked to see my bed room.. sat on my bed and I started kissing her... she basically started getting frisky with me and was ready to go no lie.... I actually held back because I became apprehensive... I'm not used to girls being ready to go like this so soon... I mean there's a lot she doesn't even know about me... I made up an excuse that I didn't have a rubber... and everytime we talk on the phone she keeps saying how she wanted to do it and wants to see me again...


And they say myspace is a waste of time....

If that happens again, and you really don't have a condom, then at least get her naked and mess around a little. You don't need a condom to get a *******.

Women's emotions change like the breeze. Don't expect her to be the same way the next time you see her. Don't talk about having sex, and don't act like she has promised you anything. See her again, find another excuse to get her back into your bedroom, and then let one thing just lead to another. Act like you did not think about having sex with her until that moment. Women always want to be able to say later, "one thing just led to another."

Despite all of the ridiculous bvllsh!t we have to go through to pretend otherwise, women like sex just as much as men, even with near-strangers. Some of them like it even more than the average guy does.

I did have condoms but something made me really apprehensive that she was so forward... she even asked me if that turned me off but I'm not that much of an idiot to say it did.... I know about the whole plausible deniability theory and I do agree with it.. this girl is an exception though.. she mentions how she talks with her friends about sex and has flat out said she wanted to "get some" to me numerous times after on the phone.

I guess what ran through my head was "if she is this easy with me, how many other guys has she been with?" and of course I get a little paranoia about STDS....

Now the flip side is I probably will kick myself months down the road for this when I'm struggling.... So I think I may actually go through with it... I just want to feel comfortable I'm not exposing myself to anything I'll regret later. I mean a few moments of fun isn't worth years of sickness in my opinion...

Thoughts?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Try to get her naked in good light. While she is distracted by blowing you, look for sores, warts, or zits on her pvssy. If you can't see any, just use a condom and it's all good, or at least as good as it's going to get. Don't turn into Last Man Standing and get an obsession with virgins.

 

[horaholic]

i gave up myspace because of all the spyware and viruses. all those fake girls directing you to porn sites or people trying to add you to advertise other sh!t. it was just too much hassle. im still on facebook but don't use it like a social networking tool. more so to keep in contact with friends.

Spyware and Viruses??? I've never heard of that on myspace.

To get rid of the fake girls, you can set up you friend invites, to where they have to type in the letters (whatever thats called), which eliminates the 'bots. Or you can set it up where they have to know your last name to send an add request. If they dont know it, they can message you.

Of course, my friends are too stupid to message me and ask for my last name, so I see them in person, and they're like "I tried to add you but I didnt know your last name" (which is especially funny, cuz I actually go by my last name!) I ask "why didnt you just send me a message to add you?" them, "I never thought of that." People.

 

[xdreamz]

getting the ball rolling is what i focus on everything after that is just taking it to the next level. i look at her quote, think of something entertaining to say to that and say it. itll usually be about 1 to 2 lines, maybe a question.
sometimes ill look up some fancy quote on something abstract like faith and post it on her page. that usually gets a response for me. i can go as far as to read a blog and then start preach a valuable and practical lesson to her. these can and will work on extremely hot ones.

i use to do so much other stuff the key is to be different, creative

 

[Bible_Belt]

the key is to be different, creative

Agreed, xdreamz, the messages that work are ones that are obviously not spam - don't send messages that you could send out to 100 girls in exactly the same fashion. There is advice on this site that suggests a guy send out a lame one-liner like "hey, you're hot" to as many women as possible. I could not disagree more. You should instead take a minute to at least read her profile, and base your message on what you see. This is ten times better than a generic "wazzup mami, I got yahoo IM, let's chat." Any decent-looking girl gets those messages all the time. My current girlfriend makes fun of guys that do that.

Anything is better than being generic. Find something on her profile to comment about. This makes a girl feel "special," at least enough to respond, and not as though she's just the recipient of mindless spam.