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That is so great!the heat makes people show skin when they're outdoors.
That is so great!the heat makes people show skin when they're outdoors.
I know, bullsh1t indeed. The most comfortable season is somewhere in the middle.Women are cooped up and bored and the heat makes people show skin when they're outdoors. Personally and anecdotally from others, the heat can make you a little horny.
That being said, this going from highs of 110 to 70 in one month is a giant load of bullsh1t.
The skin-showing thing was what made the guy I was hanging out with pick that specific woman to approach. She was wearing short shorts and an extremely skimpy tanktop (even by tanktop standards)That is so great!
Many men believe that provocative attire can show an openness to new sexual partners.The skin-showing thing was what made the guy I was hanging out with pick that specific woman to approach. She was wearing short shorts and an extremely skimpy tanktop (even by tanktop standards)
Heterosexual women receive an ego boost each time a man/multiple men give them attention. "Provocative" attire is a sure-fire way of achieving that goal. None of this is especially mysterious, especially compared to questions such as "Why is Grey's Anatomy still going here in '24?"Many men believe that provocative attire can show an openness to new sexual partners.
There's a common saying "Don't advertise if you're not selling".
They enjoy the attention. It's true in Phoenix during the warmer months and other settings.Heterosexual women receive an ego boost each time a man/multiple men give them attention.
The warm weather for at least 6 months of the year helps with women wearing less clothing."Provocative" attire is a sure-fire way of achieving that goal.
Which is why it's foolish when broads wear revealing clothing yet complain about getting checked out.Many men believe that provocative attire can show an openness to new sexual partners.
There's a common saying "Don't advertise if you're not selling".
I have one main complaint about this place. All in all though, there's hardly anywhere else that fits my criteria of where to live.I enjoy visiting Phoenix. Living there is, to me anyway, only slightly more appealing than boarding a United Flight filled with box cutter armed jihadis who have designs on The Pentagon
You bring up a good point. Visiting the Phoenix area vs. living there are 2 very different experiences.I enjoy visiting Phoenix. Living there is, to me anyway, only slightly more appealing than boarding a United Flight filled with box cutter armed jihadis who have designs on The Pentagon
I enjoy the coasts of The US too much. Being landlocked is for Austrians and AfghanisWhy would you not want to live in the Phoenix area?
Getting to the ocean isn't that difficult when living in Phoenix.I enjoy the coasts of The US too much.
I agree.it's foolish when broads wear revealing clothing yet complain about getting checked out.
The combination of dealing with a weak job market for a city of its size and women with bad attitudes isn't a pleasant combination in Phoenix.Visiting the Phoenix area vs. living there are 2 very different experiences.
Exactly. It's a looooooong f-cking drive to get to the oceanGetting to the ocean isn't that difficult when living in Phoenix.
Many Phoenix area residents go to San Diego beaches in the warmer months. The same thing happens to a lesser extent with Los Angeles and Orange County coastal areas. San Diego seems to be the main beach destination for Phoenix residents though. San Diego is about a 5-5.5 hour drive from Phoenix if traffic cooperates.
Puerto Penasco in Mexico is about 3.5 hours away on the Gulf of California. Puerto Penasco is more popular with college students than the post college crowd
This is true.Culturally speaking, it's still a hick town in many respects
5. You have an interesting vibe/personality that stands out in the sea of NPC'sGetting to the ocean isn't that difficult when living in Phoenix.
Many Phoenix area residents go to San Diego beaches in the warmer months. The same thing happens to a lesser extent with Los Angeles and Orange County coastal areas. San Diego seems to be the main beach destination for Phoenix residents though. San Diego is about a 5-5.5 hour drive from Phoenix if traffic cooperates.
Puerto Penasco in Mexico is about 3.5 hours away on the Gulf of California. Puerto Penasco is more popular with college students than the post college crowd.
The Phoenix crowd that tends to go to San Diego in the warmer months are people in established relationships and sometimes with families. Unattached Phoenix bachelors don't tend to randomly go to San Diego, unless they have a good social circle.
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I agree.
The combination of dealing with a weak job market for a city of its size and women with bad attitudes isn't a pleasant combination in Phoenix.
It's easier to date in Phoenix if you're not reliant upon the swipe apps or meeting people on the various bar scenes in the area (Old Town Scottsdale, Central Phoenix, Tempe, etc.).
Settling in Phoenix as an adult is easier under the following conditions. The more that apply to you, the better.
1. You grew up in Phoenix or in another part of Arizona. This will help with your social circle connections around Phoenix, and would reduce your reliance on the bar scene or swipe apps.
2. You went to Arizona State, University of Arizona, or another college that has a strong alumni base in Phoenix. Arizona State and University of Arizona are colleges with the best alumni base in Phoenix and good alumni groups in the city. This also helps reduce reliance on bars and swipe apps.
3. You are 6'0"+ with a fit/muscular physique. In that case, items #1 and #2 probably are irrelevant to you. If you are rich enough, #1 and #2 might not matter, but few men have enough money to make #1 and #2 irrelevant.
4. You tend to like fitness activities. This is the least important, but seems to help.
That can always help, but few people can achieve that. I also don't think personality matters as much anywhere as looks or money.5. You have an interesting vibe/personality that stands out in the sea of NPC's
A bar approacher who (per his own admission) isn't suited for bar approaches.That can always help, but few people can achieve that. I also don't think personality matters as much anywhere as looks or money.
A guy with an interesting vibe/personality without any real connections will still have to approach a lot/swipe a lot. That's not going to be fun.
For me, I think my own perspective of the mating scene was skewed by me primarily being a bar approacher at various Old Town Scottsdale venues.
From ages 18-29 (a period that overlaps my time as a Phoenix area resident), I was a primarily nightlife approacher when I was single. When I say nightlife approacher, that's the combination of random off campus apartment complex parties while in college and going to bars once I turned 21.A bar approacher who (per his own admission) isn't suited for bar approaches.
Might explain why you're jaded about the local scene.