Interesting thread.
I do not believe all the scare tactics about "you are having sex with everybody your partner had sex with, and all their partners, etc, etc".
It is part of the religious right's "Just say No" bull**** you see in the USA.
Luckily the Germans don't have this attidtude at all. They seem to have a much healthier attitude towards sex. It should be a personal decision and not forced by society. If you want to wait, fine, if you want to f@ck 50 women, fine....
As a 43 year old American Army officer stationed in Germany I don't know if I want to go back if half the b1tches won't give it up. Ridiculous! Might as well go to Saudi Arabia!!
Luckily I know the "just say NO" campaign is hypocritical crap and 99% of the women in my age range 20's to 30's want to have sex even more than we do, once you are "dating".
At this point I would not date a woman I was not sexually compatible with. And I would find this out after three or four dates! I had enough of a bad sexual relationship after 15 years of marriage! (23 to 39 years old)
Those waiting for marriage before having sex are fools
1. DONT GET MARRIED, PERIOD!
2. If you think two virgins are going to magically have a good sex life, good luck. I seriously doubt it.
I was my ex-wife's first and she was my 6th. I was pure AFC all the way. Our sex life sucked. I suspected it then but did not know and I damn sure know it now that I am out there again!!!!!!
You young guys... there are some CRAZY girls out there and the older and wealthier/more powerful you become, the crazier they are for you... I have had over 20+ since my separation/divorce and it is great!! We are talking everything you ever read about including anal, S&M, bondage, oral, nude beaches, in cornfields, etc etc. This is both with American and European women. You guys need to be doing this... don't waste your 20s and 30s like I did....
OK, thanks for letting me rant on.
Dietzcoi