something else I wanted to talk about while I am here..
I can tell alot of you are still in school.. rather it be HS or college.
Because this was somewhat of an issue when I was in HS.. the valley white chicks dealing only with the rich white guys.. not rich themselves but the ones who dad's busted their ass and put a silver spoon in their mouths... stuff like that.
The high yellow black girls dating purto ricans (alot of them down here)... stuff like that.
Now, I get asked am I hispanic alot.. I guess you can say I look mexican.. I have small slanted eyes, straight hair, but I am 100% african american (at least that's what I think), I have goldish color skin, not loud but not really brown either.
Becuase of that, I never really had a problem attracticing all types of black women, the yellow ones or the black black ones
However, once you get out of "school", reality, i.e real life has a way of ironing things out.
Once you have to make your own way in the world and not live on daddy any longer, life can be a *****, while a person like me, that made his name in the world and started when he was 17, while most people my age were still in HS mode, I've realized and got pass 4-5 years ago what you are just realiing now.. high scchool/college doesn't last forever.
My old oneitis dated this guy for 3 years, started when she was a senior.. he literarly went from on top of the world to being the biggest loser on earth, becuase life STARTED.. his family is loaded, however HE is nothing. He's not smart, he does druges and he sells drugs (for no reason, his family is stacked). That same guy that was such a hunk in HS once you grow up and get a life, can be the biggest loser on the face of the earth because he hasn't had to develop any character.
I have been though some crap that I had no choice, even though I'm not bad looking, I had to gather myself, I had to find things other than women that excite me because of my company, I didn't have time for them.
I was overweight for like 2 years, as much as 215 (I'm 170 now, 9% BF), women wouldn't look at me.
when I was broke and these girls were in college dating silver spoon guys and datind thugs that made quick money on the side, I read books and got in shape and found hobbies that took my time.
Now that people are out of school, and looking for someone to settle down with, I have money, I'm in shape, I know how to dress, I can speak 3 languages, there isn't much I can't tell you about history.. what I am trying to say is, I am a well rounded person because I had to be, but in the longrun, it paid to my advantage.
Girls that wouldn't give me the time of day because they were to interested in more popular guys in HS/College, I wouldn't look at twice now (I was never not popular, but I was mainly popular becuase of my two best friends, two of the best Basketball players in the state in HS)
Let me put you on some game.. once ou get out of school, the only thing that really matters, besdies being a MAN, and that does matter trust me, is your earning potential. You better be one or the other, hopefully both.
My friends, none of us are ugly.. however, and this will hold true forever as I see it. I don't know why, but thick girls gravatate towards Q (one of my friends), young, unattractive girls gravatate towards Brad (the other) and usually the one that is the best looking come towards me. Now, there are accecptions, make no mistake, but that's usually how it works.
I have no problem attracting white women, black women, asians, it doesn't matter.. because I am real. I once dated a laywer, well not dated, but messed around with, because i was real with her.. and she was bad too. Italian, long legs.. just too much of a headcase. and make no mistake, she wasn't smarter than me, just older.
But I'm like "hey, I'm not ugly, I am smart as hell, I can take care of myself and I know what I can offer, so what do you have to offer me that is different these other women out here?"
First of all, I dress better than most guys. I carry myself better, I don't wear clothes that don't fit and I stay well groomed.I can speak to anyone and sound intelligent.
I am not fat, as a matter of fact i am in shape, but both of my two friends are cut up like bodybuilders, espically Brad, he is 190 6'3 and can't be more than say, 7% BF.. all muscle, yet you wouldn't know it because all of his clothes hang off of him.
My friend is so behind, mind you, I never touched foot in a college, and he has a college degree, in finance mind you, and we say Greg Wesley, who has some money from the NFL and he asked why wasn't he "stunting".. and I explained to you..well.. if you have say..4 million dollars, in the NFL, you don't have guaranteed contracts, that 4 mill might be all you will EVER Get, unlike the NBA, where you sign a 30 mil 6 year contact, you are guaranteed that 30 mil.
so he argues with me that you can't live off of 4 million dollars for the rest of your life
So I go into detail that I could easily live off of 1 million dollars for the rest of my life by putting it all in a CD and living off the interest, which would be give or take 12 percent per year if done right.
Mind you, I have never been on a college campus unless it was a basketball game and he has a degree in business and finance
I went out with my two best friends tonight, becasuse one of them just got back yesterday from AZ for a year so I took both of them out.
So.. it's a wednesday... in little rock, and they just had to go to this club where I knew there would be no cute women.
So we get there, and after like an hour there is this girl there, and they swear that she is fine. every guy in the club, well alot of guys, are all on her.. and all honestly.. she wasn't cute.. she was just yellow. She was thick and light skinned and had a big asss.. that's it. First of all, thick women aren't my thing in the first place.
So my friend comes up to me and points her out, and I say "so?" and he says "dude you are crazy if you think she is ugly"
so I say "she's not ugly, I didn't say that, but I can do better and I have.. she's just not my type"
So he says "you can't tell me she doesn't look better than amber (my ex fiancee)
So instead of aruging, because I knew for a 110% fact one of my best friends had a crush on my ex but instead of busting them out, becuase I'm not trying to get into a pissing contest with my friends, I just say "look, different strokes for different fokes, what I find attractive, you may not"
My ex is on the point where my dad tried to **** her.. twice.. while I was with her.
So he pushes the button, and he says "dude, name one attractive trait about my ex"
Now.. I'm not trying to defend my ex, becuase in all honestly I found my old oneitis more attractive, I mean, she had her flaws, but overall, she isn't by any means ugly, as a matter of fact, she's pretty damn sexy, to this day I haven't found a girl with a better body, shaped like a coke bottle, and I liked her personality, very very spunky and down to earth.
But what really got to me is that the same guy that was telling my ex that she was soo fine when I wasn't around and he was there while I wasn't there and she was (because she lived with me, like i said.. my two best friends pretty much lived with me, had keys' to my house, etc.. so there were times, even when I was around, that they would comment to her, not me, that she was sexy) but yet when they get around each other and other people, they want to downgrade this girl?
And this isnt' a degrade to the girl, but in all honestly.. she wasn't cute.. she looked like a dinosour in the face, had big ugly feet and wasn't in shape.. she was just light skinned and had a big ass
Another funny thing that happened tonight.. this girl, named ashley that we went to school with.. I or we were in the 12th grade when she was in the 10th.. meaning I am 22 and she is, about 19-20 years old.
We are in a 21 and up club.
So she runs into us, and they are like "damn you look good babe, you've grown up (and in all honestly.. she was looking pretty good)
And the first thing that comes out my mouth is "it's no way in hell you are 21 years old"
So we go to another club that's opened later, because we are chillin, and she shows up.. and when I say she was eyeing me the entire night.. that might be an understatment. She would dance and make sure she would come by me and dance. She would make sure she rubbed me whever I passed her.
