Forget the whole site except for the following. I think this is the crux of all the problems and issues mentioned there, and the ultimate reason why most marriages/ LTRs fail today (edited out for "American" as I think this is becoming more of a problem everywhere):
Why marriage no longer makes sense.
Traditional marriage balances different privileges and obligations for men and women. Modern woman wants all the benefits of "equality" without any of the responsibilities.
Traditionally, cultures balanced special privileges for women with special obligations, and the same for men.
Equality states that no one get special privileges, and that responsibilities and rights should be equally shared.
Either system is balanced and fair. The problem with modern Western (now spreading beyond) culture is that many women want only the positives from both systems:
They want special privileges from the traditional system (men paying, being "gentlemen" by using special deferential manners and language to women, being the main breadwinner, etc) but not the old-fashioned obligations (being modest and ladylike, being a housewife, etc).
They want the positives of equality (rights, equal access to work and education, etc) without the responsibilities (paying your own way financially a full 50% for life, taking risks with no safety net, and taking your lumps without complaint like men do...not expecting to be protected or sheltered from harsh reality, etc).
You can't take only the good from both systems...you have to take the bad with the good in any balance you strike. When women try to have their cake and eat it in this way, the bad doesn't disappear...it gets paid by men, and this is why the current culture is one of exploitation by selfish hypocritical women...and it's why men are tired of the inequity.
If women chose one system or the other and took their full share of the bad with the good there would be no problem. But conveniently for women the traditional view that discourages women being looked at critically remains strong and pointed (in all cultures), which encourages projecting all blame unjustly onto men; and so the inequity is rationalized away.
While the origins of such twisted thinking do originate, and remain strong in Western cultures, its constant propagation through globalization/standardization along with heavily funded "Western human rights/women's rights" groups (I am not insinuating that their overall goal is bad, but the above attitude comes along with the rest of it) is greatly gaining ground in cultures all over the world.
