Need Some Advice - Live-In GF Acting Up

[jhonny9546]

if you have frame it will be fine

Don't take it for granted. At least in my case, it's easy for me to have it from the beginning, but I tend to lose it during the relationship, a bit with everyone, it happens to me at work/home/friends.
Maybe it's my desire to be natural and genuine with others, to establish a connection, that sometimes makes you lose sight of the frame

 

[justaroundthecorner]

Top 1%. She even says it. 178lb Fit ( almost at 1200 and can run a 6min mile) 48m retired.

Hate to break it for you but if you are 48 you are not top 1%. You are not even top 3%.

Rather somewhere between top 4-7% depending on the level of accurate self-perception and your objective appearance, health and style of life (we men tend to think we are more attractive than we actually are).

That's one thing.

Second thing is not going overboard with younger chicks because it can blow up into your face (Johnny Depp's divorce should ring some bell).

I kind of think you overestimated your value - it was high enough for ONS or STR with this chick but for her going after you for LTR - I think you should at least have some job to not be around & available to her all the time.

You guys really think women get all the tingles for guys retiring before 50's? It may be actually a turn-off.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hate to break it for you but if you are 48 you are not top 1%. You are not even top 3%.

Rather somewhere between top 4-7% depending on the level of accurate self-perception and your objective appearance, health and style of life (we men tend to think we are more attractive than we actually are).

That's one thing.

Second thing is not going overboard with younger chicks because it can blow up into your face (Johnny Depp's divorce should ring some bell).

I kind of think you overestimated your value - it was high enough for ONS or STR with this chick but for her going after you for LTR - I think you should at least have some job to not be around & available to her all the time.

You guys really think women get all the tingles for guys retiring before 50's? It may be actually a turn-off.

Unless he has $100+ million he isn't even in the top 5% on that alone.

 

[DJ Novice]

You are only in the top 5% as an older guy in the absence of looks, wealth and status if she genuinely is attracted to older, more mature guys.

 

[Solomon]

Sure maybe I was a little butt hurt. Speaking of work trips..... I didn't add on a previous occasion a few weeks back on a work conference trip she usually stays with her girlfriend co worker share the same room but this time they had one of their male coworkers "hanging out "in the hotel room. I'm not cool with that especially when you're sitting there in your pajamas at 11pm. The dude is a geek with no chance in my opinion but I told he switch the roles and tell me you're cool with it.

No disrespect to OP, I know lot of sosuavers subscribe to the LMS stuff. But make no mistake, nerdy guys who have game will fukk the dogshyt out of your girlfriend. There is a whole group of nerdy/Geeky guys in Gen-Z winning, they are known as streamers. A bunch of dorks who **** beautiful Onlyfans thots. I see geeky guys with cute/hot chicks all the time in my city. In Gen-Z a geeky or nerdy guy is actually looked as cool, compared to previous generations when it was the athletes etc. Not saying athletes aren't cool anymore I'm saying the Geeky guys now are not *****less if they have some solid game, or know how to talk to women. I know a geeky 35 year old guy, livs at his parent's house, smokes weed every day and plays video games every and he gets more ass than he knows what to do with. He plays the "Woke" role very well that these liberal WW like.

The worse mistake most men make even on sosuave, is thinking that women will only **** conventionally attractive men. I can tell you from having hung around successful nerds they pull all sorts of women including model smokeshow too and fukk the dog**** out of them. Remember women's attraction is not based on what men find attractive, and on the right night even a nerd can **** a beautiful girl.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Hate to break it for you but if you are 48 you are not top 1%. You are not even top 3%.

Rather somewhere between top 4-7% depending on the level of accurate self-perception and your objective appearance, health and style of life (we men tend to think we are more attractive than we actually are).

That's one thing.

Second thing is not going overboard with younger chicks because it can blow up into your face (Johnny Depp's divorce should ring some bell).

I kind of think you overestimated your value - it was high enough for ONS or STR with this chick but for her going after you for LTR - I think you should at least have some job to not be around & available to her all the time.

You guys really think women get all the tingles for guys retiring before 50's? It may be actually a turn-off.

Accurate post. And 1%ers aren’t immune from being punked, publicly no less, including Will Smith, Ben Affleck, Johnny Depp, Kevin Costner, and Tom Brady, to name a few.

 

[jhonny9546]

Be a man who wants to be the 1%, but never forget that for some women you will be the 20%, for others the 0.0000001%.

If Brad Pitt came into the social circle where I grew up in my childhood, where a woman consider me 0.0000001%, do you really think he has a chance, against me?

Value, is contextual.

This explains why you are in the top 30% but to some women you are nobody, even invisible, but if a woman considered you 1% when you were worth 80% among other men, and now that you are in the top 30%, she considers you 0.00001%, then it explains her unstoppable attraction.

 

[Free_Agent]

Thanks guys for all the advice . This relationship has ended . Showsuo totally wasted after hanging with her who’re friend and argues with me leaving me someplace. Says we’re done and I was like “ok”. Next day we make peace and we’re great. Like better than we ever were but we agreed things were over. Dinner, tv sex it was actually a great day/night. I leave the next day and then the reality of losing a place, a nice lifestyle and re-entering the dating scene set in for her and she went completely psycho. She totally lost her **** . Blowing my phone up with VMs and texts.

I think I’ll enjoy my peace and quiet now . I’ll source out whatever needs I need satisfied

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No disrespect to OP, I know lot of sosuavers subscribe to the LMS stuff. But make no mistake, nerdy guys who have game will fukk the dogshyt out of your girlfriend. There is a whole group of nerdy/Geeky guys in Gen-Z winning, they are known as streamers. A bunch of dorks who **** beautiful Onlyfans thots. I see geeky guys with cute/hot chicks all the time in my city. In Gen-Z a geeky or nerdy guy is actually looked as cool, compared to previous generations when it was the athletes etc. Not saying athletes aren't cool anymore I'm saying the Geeky guys now are not *****less if they have some solid game, or know how to talk to women. I know a geeky 35 year old guy, livs at his parent's house, smokes weed every day and plays video games every and he gets more ass than he knows what to do with. He plays the "Woke" role very well that these liberal WW like.

The worse mistake most men make even on sosuave, is thinking that women will only **** conventionally attractive men. I can tell you from having hung around successful nerds they pull all sorts of women including model smokeshow too and fukk the dog**** out of them. Remember women's attraction is not based on what men find attractive, and on the right night even a nerd can **** a beautiful girl.

The fact some people think getting laid is the end all be all of being a man is really sad.

 

[SW15]

the average age gap in the UK is 4 years.

A growing share of U.S. husbands and wives are roughly the same age

On average, husbands and wives were 2.2 years apart in age in 2022, down from 2.4 years in 2000 and 4.9 years in 1880.

www.pewresearch.org

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The average in the USA is 2.2 years right now. I'm not sure what the median number is.

This takes into consideration a lot of married couples that started their relationship decades ago.

Most men who find themselves single in their 30s, 40s, and 50s are unable to get the big age gap they often desire.

Agree with previous posters. This is a bad situation. I hope you are renting with her and that the lease is about to expire.

Not only do you need to break up with her, you also need to take time to change some of your behaviors so that you don't repeat patterns with future women.

 

[Solomon]

The fact some people think getting laid is the end all be all of being a man is really sad.

Some guys who are late bloomers or don't get laid a lot. Hence they look at getting laid as the be-all end all and I totally agree with you.
Getting laid for me personally is not a big deal. I was just using those examples, to let OP know that do not mistake women are giving up sex just to one type of guy, as women in this era will have sex with anyone depending on their mood if you catch them at the right time.

There are tons of women who are giving it up every hour every day all over the world.. Honestly once you're over the age of 20 you should be looking at getting laid as some flex. Most women in 2025 are getting past around and ran through it is what it is.