Ztime is hardly being played. He has
maintained good frame right through. Yes this chick has thrown some red flags up. But they would hardly rate for dismissal just yet. He is barely through qualifying. Ztime is a clued in guy.
Generally I go through a 3 month exclusive when looking at a LTR, or I'm in a "s.hit or get off the pot" moment.
I usually have them half moved in. I need to see if the day to day mundane tasks throw up any problems.
Seeing someone everyday can cut through the haze. If there is any little thing that irks you now, multiply it by a thousand.
Unfortunately it can take up to a year before you really start seeing the stuff that annoys you.
There's a few things that you need to do from here:
Don't get her pregnant. This is were 90% of the f.uck ups and horror stories come from. Yeah its a no brainer, but guys do this all the time.
Don't let her move in totally. Don't let her lose her current home. She needs to be easily gotten rid of if the shtf.
Invest enough emotionally for the relationship to move forward. This is very subjective. But you need to invest enough for a relationship to be healthy. Can't be a stone and expect it to go well
Bail the first sign of contempt. Just run.
If you're happy then enjoy it. Yes there is always a price you pay when going into relationships. But be aware of problems, not just waiting for it to fail. Just remember everyone has some form of issue. You need to work out what hers is and if it is a major or minor on the "dump her azz" scale.
maintained good frame right through. Yes this chick has thrown some red flags up. But they would hardly rate for dismissal just yet. He is barely through qualifying. Ztime is a clued in guy.
Generally I go through a 3 month exclusive when looking at a LTR, or I'm in a "s.hit or get off the pot" moment.
I usually have them half moved in. I need to see if the day to day mundane tasks throw up any problems.
Seeing someone everyday can cut through the haze. If there is any little thing that irks you now, multiply it by a thousand.
Unfortunately it can take up to a year before you really start seeing the stuff that annoys you.
There's a few things that you need to do from here:
Don't get her pregnant. This is were 90% of the f.uck ups and horror stories come from. Yeah its a no brainer, but guys do this all the time.
Don't let her move in totally. Don't let her lose her current home. She needs to be easily gotten rid of if the shtf.
Invest enough emotionally for the relationship to move forward. This is very subjective. But you need to invest enough for a relationship to be healthy. Can't be a stone and expect it to go well
Bail the first sign of contempt. Just run.
If you're happy then enjoy it. Yes there is always a price you pay when going into relationships. But be aware of problems, not just waiting for it to fail. Just remember everyone has some form of issue. You need to work out what hers is and if it is a major or minor on the "dump her azz" scale.